Hi Anjali madam,
I am 40 years old and am married for the last 13 years. My wife is very caring and loving. I am very active in sex and we have sex atleast 4 times a week. My wife is not very good in sex but does not discourage me. She had no idea about sex when we got married and i took so much time and effort and patiently taught her everything in sex. We also watch videos downloaded from the net and now slowly she can understand everything and cooperates well.
Three years back when we were living in Bangalore she used to go to a physiotherapy clinic as suggested by doctor for her lower back pain and used to get treated in her legs and feet. Slowly she started getting friendly with this guy doing physiotherapy and i somehow started getting some gut feeling about her movements. I decided to patiently wait and see if she is doing some extramarital stuff. I did not want to upset her without any reason. She used to do so much makeup before going for treatment which was not normal and also she used to ask me to go back home and come back to pick her up when the treatment was over as she said she did not want the kids to be in the clinic for a long time.
One day after dropping her i told her that i was going to the bank and will come after an hour. But i stayed closely to watch what was happening. After 10 minutes i called her on her mobile but it took almost 5 minutes for her to answer after repeated calling and when she answered she asked me if i went to the bank. I told her that i changed my mind and that i will come and wait in the clinic for which she told me to go home and come and pick her up when the treatment got over. I started having doubt and started tracking landline phone calls from the phone company. I used to work night shifts and when i got the bill i found calls made 10 minutes after i left for work but it used to be very short duration.
One day we were to go to hospital to take some test for my son and we were to go for her treatment before. After dropping her in the clinic, which was not a real clinic but a house which was converted, she told me to take the kids to the nearby hotel and have breakfast while she was getting treated. when i came back to pick her up i saw her bra strap popping out of her blouse on her shoulder. i signed her that and she immediately corrected it but i don't know for some reason got angry with me for me telling her that. Then when we went to the hospital for my sons test she always had her pallu covering her whole shoulder and as soon as we came home she went into the bedroom and locked inside. when i knocked the bedroom door she opened it a bit and i found her only with her bra. I felt that her bra was not hooked all the time and she did hook it after reaching home.
I put things one on one and finally asked her what was happening between them. She got very upset and started crying and was crying the whole night and said she never thought that i will suspect her and all that/ Finally the second day she started speaking to me and i apologized to her and slowly she become normal.
My question is- Was my suspicion on her right?
Now recently we were watching threesome videos and had sex after that and while having sex told her about my fetish of threesome sex and told her that i want to see her having sex with another guy in front of me. She said she cannot do that and i told her that if she does not want to do that i would not force her but atleast she can act like that and shout some guy's name while i was fucking her just to satisfy me and when i told this she got angry and pushed me away and started shouting at me. I knew she thought i was taking the topic of the Bangalore guy and that why she got upset. I apologized to her for making her feel bad but told her i did not mean anybody in particular and it was just for pleasure. Again she did not talk to me for a day.
The next night we were watching movie in our bedroom with the kids and i slowly started caressing her hands for which she did not object and in the meanwhile the kids fell asleep and she asked me to make the kids sleep in their room and when i moved them to their room and came back to my room and locked the door. When i came next to her she hugged me and pulled me to the bed. I started smooching her and when i touched her pussy she was all wet. I have never seen her so wet anytime before and normally it takes a long time for her to get wet.
Did the thought of my approval of her having sex with another guy in front of me made her wet?
How did she forgive me so quickly when she blasted me the previous day?
Now she is very eager in sex and have allowed me to try different positions which normally she never used to agree?
I am confused is she interested in threesome. Can i ask her again during sex if she wants threesome or will i land in trouble if i ask her.
I will not force her but if she wants i do not have a problem. In fact i even asked her if she in interested in lesbianism for which she said no. Off late she is caressing my boobs a lot during sex and thats the reason why i asked her if she in interested in lesbianism.