We are married and we have a kid. We have a good sexual life. We decided to have another kid and we are having intercourse every alternate days. During the first five days after her periods, first I fucked my wife with a dildo and I let her to enjoy three or four times and finally I ejaculated inside her.

By this we both enjoyed a lot and she also likes to get fucked three to four times in a night. We are doing this for last three months. Till she has not conceived. While we discuss about this, she is blaming that since we are using the dildo, she is not getting pregnant.

Is it true?

I am a 58 year old man. Recently I got some erection problem due to my age factor and so I asked my wife to buy a sex toy and showed her a few on the net. She suggested me to buy a dildo with harness. I have purchased one in Germany last week and we have been enjoying from one week, daily two times and getting very good satisfaction now.

My question is – is there any harmful effects to me or my wife?

We are a middle aged couple. Me and my husband have a great sex life or more. I have a question. Before we have sex, we foreplay together for an hour and I know that he likes it when I lick his asshole and finger it. One day I tried to put a small didlo and he got a little pain. I told him that it makes me so horny and he liked the idea. Then I told him if we have a double head didlo we will get more pleasure and he agreed to buy one. I asked him to buy a strap-on too and he said thats so sexy.

My question is, is it ok if I do these with him like a man?

I am a 29 year old married male. My wife and I both enjoy experimentation. I want to try out vibrators and other sex toys.

Could you guide me as in where to get them from in Delhi? Are they illegal?

Regards.

I am Deepika of 26 years of age and I am single. I am from Pune. Actually I am fond of girls more than boys. But the day before yesterday I lost my virginity while maturbating with a carrot. But still I am not getting the satisfaction for which I am desiring for.How should I proceed further ? Please help me.

Thank you.

Hi everyone…

Ok don't get angry with me because I have decided to try something new. Last Sunday, instead of writing an article on how to improve our sex lives (which I do all the time anyways), I published a series of pictures to highlight the lighter side of sex.

It got every encouraging comments and so I decided to try it again this week.

Now it is upto you guys to tell me what would you prefer to see on Sundays – a naughty educative article or something a little more light, like today's pictures. It is after all you who run AskAnjali.

I hope you guys enjoy this and have a great Sunday. Lots of love.

 -Anjali 

Thousands of super rich and lonely men are purchasing these hyper-realistic figures called "Lovedolls" that meet all their sexual needs and doesn't even complain or refuse like normal women . It has a wide selection of faces and hair fully interchangeable to your fantasies.  So what is the price of having your own Katrina Kaif? A cool Rs. 3.5 lakh. What do you think guys? 

Sex-toy company Gigimodo created this "artificial hymen" – a plastic bag filled with… oh well, fake blood for those of you who either need to lie about being a virgin, or want to re-live losing their maidenly flower. Fake blood in my satin bedsheet – No thanks!

The thought of being gagged up like a birthday present isn't my idea of fun, but according to the makers of this total body sack, it is "so comfortable, you could spend an entire night in it". So all you BDSM junkies out there, here is your latest adventure tool. For some reason, this reminds me so much of 'The Gimp' from Pulp Fiction.

This one is for the activist in you. Love yourself and your planet at the same time with Sola, a small bullet-shaped vibrator powered by the solar energy. The price of being green? Rs. 3500.

Meet the world's most expensive vibrator, a 18 karat gold-plated piece that weighs approximately 15 grammes is 3 inches long. Made in Sweden, it has a price of Rs. 75000. So all the CEOs and COOs out there, this one is for you.

Originally marketed as a neck massager, this was one of the cult Hello Kitty collectibles that could only be acquired in Japan. But a couple of things just didn't seem to fit the whole neck massager model. The first was the size and the shape. The second was the vibrating qualities. This one is a best seller.

Some of you must have seen this one before. I saw it for the first time in a national newspaper. Normally you would think that resting your head on a lap is just for lovebirds. But not in Japan! The Hizamakura Lap Pillow is shaped like the lap of a woman where you can sleep better knowing you are in good care! Only the Japanese could invent something like this. Price? Rs. 7500

At some point, everyone of us has felt too lazy to cook properly and hurriedly enjoyed a fresh hot cup of 2 minute noodles. While the traditional little cup would satisfy your hunger needs, the "Cup Nude" on the other hand, satisfies a completely different need all together. Although similar in design, you will immediately notice upon opening, that this is not your average midnight snack. Complete with a packet of "Gently Rub Lotion", I am sure you will find some enjoyment out of this loving product.

I have no words for this one. Ok, maybe I do. Just in time to insert some 'juice' into the new stimulus package for the American economy, comes the "official" Obama pleasure toy. For only $34.95 you can get the "Head O State Obama Dildo". You can get your choice between "Presidential Gold" and "Democratic Blue". The world has "Changed". :-O

We are a married couple of 40 and 35 years We enjoy our sex life very well. There is no problem in our sex life. Nowadays we have desided to try some different so we were looking for a didlo for extra fun. As we all know that its very difficult to find didlo here in India. If you know the secret places, please do write here. Also we would like to know if there any side effects of didlos and what kind of didlos is good for safe sex?

Cheers.

I wanted to learn more about “Delay Sprays” or “Delay Tablets” which are available in the market. I, like many others, am a victim of premature ejaculation and I would like to try delay pills or spray to enjoy better sex. I try the Start and Stop Technique and some other methods too to delay my ejaculation, but it doesn’t work on me.

So, here are my questions. I need a clarification on:

1) Are Delay Pills or Spray effective and fetch results in longer sustainability?
2) Are there any side effects of using them regularly in a long run?
3) Would using these sprays cause any irritation on my tool or on her private parts?
4) How soon would it have its effect? I mean, how much time before having sex should I use the spray or have a pill?
5) Can you guys please name few good, hygienic delay sprays or pills available in the market?

Please answer these questions for me. Thanks!

Regards,

Kanth.

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Dear Anjali Aunty,

My questions is not so much a question as a discussion. Similar to your Sunday posts.

One of the biggest complaints that women have in terms of why they don’t particularly enjoy having intercourse with their partners is because it causes discomfort, or in many cases can be very painful for them. This is usually because she has not been sufficiently lubricated. The reason why this happens is because her partner has not spent enough time on foreplay so that she can be properly aroused. Ok, so if that is the case, then simply spend more time on foreplay, right? By doing this, a woman should be able to naturally produce enough lubricant to enjoy sex to its fullest. As simple as it seems, there are a few factors you need to consider; First of all, whether we like it or not, today’s busy lifestyle makes it very difficult for couples to put sufficient time aside for quality lovemaking. So, even if the intention is there, things don’t always work out to the perfect plan sex experts recommend. Most couples are too busy, too tired, or too preoccupied with other priorities to ensure that enough foreplay has been introduced into a lovemaking session. When you look at the realistic side of the whole ordeal, you can better understand why lubes should also play an important part in any couple’s sex life. It ensures that no matter what circumstances you or your partner faces, both of you are still able to enjoy intercourse to its fullest. Now don’t get me wrong; I am still a strong believer in foreplay. No matter how busy one’s life is, there should always be a way to properly prioritize things so that there is enough time to have great sex! That being said, I would still highly recommend you use lubes, whether you are having great quality sex or not. It will ensure that you and your woman will get the best out of your lovemaking sessions without the unnecessary discomfort can arise through friction.

Bottom line: Use lubes as a supplement, and be generous with it. However, never believe that lubes are a substitute for foreplay, get it? So, which Lubes are the best to use then? Well, with so many varieties to choose from, where the heck does one start?

Lubes can be put into 3 group types: * Water Based Lubes * Oil Based Lubes * Silicone Based Lubes.

Water based lubes are the most popular, and rightfully so. The reason for this is because unlike oil based lubes, they don’t break apart or tear, thus ensuring that you and your partner are able to practice safe sex without worry. In addition, water based lubes don’t stain sheets or cloths either, and it is very easy to wash it off once you are done having fun.

With oil based lubes, is totally the opposite; they will easily stain your sheets and cloths, and you will have a hard time washing it off.

Now, if you are looking to add a little spice in your life, and would like to have sex in the water, such as under a shower or in the bath tub, then you are better off using silicone lubes. Silicone lubes won’t cause a condom to break apart, yet it does not wash off as easily as water based lubes. This makes it a good candidate when it comes to having sex in the water. Silicone based lubes are also ideal for people that have allergies to glycerin.

Guys, if you truly want to give your woman the best experience in bed, invest in a good quality lube that suites your needs. It really does make a difference, and will most definitely be a great help to take away all the unnecessary frustration that can creep into your lovemaking sessions.

Thanks.

akki

Can anyone tell me where sex toys are available in India? Can they be ordered online?

Please reply.

I have read in some magazines and heard from old people that ginger will improve the ability of sex. Is that true?

Please inform us.

I want to buy sex toys for my girlfriend.  Are they available in Ahmedabad?  Please guide me from where I can buy them.  Thanks in advance.

Tell us the different kinds of toys & methods you have used to satisfy your selves or your partners… and feed-back about them… would be really useful for others…

Starting with myself,
The only toy I have used till now is my-own-hand sigh!!!!

I am looking forward to get information about places in bangalore where I can buy some sex toys for woman.   Any idea where we get those ?

I hope I would get a good and a genuine answer from you.

To begin with, we are a couple from Hyderabad, 28 and 24 years of age. I am very passionate about threesomes and would like my wife to be fucked by another man or men but she is very conservative. She does not agree with it at all. Recently I heard about some sex tablets for woman by which a woman gets crazy for sex. Is that true? Can any one suggest me its name? Is there is any available in Indian market?

Please reply. Thanks.

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I am a 22 year old boy. I used “Time Delay Spray” the first time with my girlfriend but after spraying I inserted my dick in her and ejaculate within 2 minutes.
Should I wait after spraying?

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Many congratulations for having your own website. I hope it will help many like me out there. I would be grateful if you answer my question.

I am a 25 year old guy. My girlfriend who happens to be a divorced woman is of 31 years. She often complains to me for ejaculating soo quickly. I tried using  Kamasutra long last condoms but they  didn’t prove to be good for me as the skin of my dick gets swollen and red after using it, though it becomes normal after a few days. Anyway I stopped using that now.

In the recent past somebody told me of having Titanic K2 capsule 30 minutes before having sex. I wanted to ask what Titanic K2 is all about? I mean can I have it for expanding the duration of ejaculation, and most importantly is it safe to have this capsule without ANY side effects to the body? Will it cause erectile dysfunction to my body later?

Please please do provide an answer to my question so that I can be confident about using this capsule and enjoy my sex life to the fullest. I would be obliged if you do it at your earliest.

Thanks Anjali

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How are you? I want a sex toy for my wife for extra pleasure. Please tell me where to buy it from or any online shop from where I can buy?

Thanks in advance.

Please name some creams and sprays and their approximate costs which give long lasting erection and are easily available in medical stores in India.

Looking forward to it. Thanks.

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Which creams are available to be applied on the penis during sex ? What does it do and how does it help.

Please reply.

I use ketchup or mixed fruit jam on my girl before oral sex. Both of us enjoy it immensely. Is it safe in the long run?

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Namaste Anjali Aunty.

Maine tumhare dwara diye gaye kafi sawalo k jawab pada,. Mujhe kafi achha laga, meri bhi ichha hui kyo na me bhi apani samasya puchu.

Q :- Anjaliji meri age 21 sal hai. Mujhe kisi ladki ko chodane ka man karta hai to me muth mar k kam chala leta hu. Mein pichale 9 salo se muth mar raha hu . Mera laund bhi teda hai. Kya yeah muth marne ki wajah se hua hai? Koi self made sex toy batao jisase me apani sex ki pyas buzha saku.

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I am 21 years old. I am very excited about fetishes. I am attracted to ladies’ wear like bra panties etc. I am excited to fuck my own ass. Is it safe if I fuck my ass with some toys or vegetables? I have an habit of rubbing my nipples. Will they grow big in size if I rub them.

Please suggest.