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Answered: I m in love with my tution student. What should i do?

Thu, 23 Feb 2012 04:57:59 +0000

1. Yes,such relation can work over a long period of time. It could be like any other relations. So,don't worry.

2. 16 years seems to be very young to be in a serious relation!! Why don't you wait a bit longer to express your feeling to her!!

3. It is upto you. You will yourself find out the best suitable time. Let your intuition guide you in this regard :-)

Answered: I'm confused with my wife's behavior!!

Thu, 23 Feb 2012 04:54:17 +0000

Did she have affair with someone else before marriage? May be,she is communicating with her past lover!! It looks like,she is disturbed due to the communication over phone. Talk to her. Discuss with an open mind. Make her feel that she can be safe while talking about anything before you. Ask her if she is in some kind of affair,or that if she wants to leave or get separated!!

Now,again,on the other hand,you yourself may be the problem!! She might be having problem with you(mentally or physically),which she can't express openly!!!! In such case,too,you need to talk with her openly!!! Have patience!!! If nothing works,keep distance with her to see how she reacts. If she doesn't care about your keeping distance with her,then well,you need to take her problem seriously.

Answered: What is Flag's Significance?

Thu, 23 Feb 2012 04:39:59 +0000

spam or inappropriate response just move the cursor to the flag symbol and it will say the same thing which i just mentioned..

Answered: Am I infected or not?

Thu, 23 Feb 2012 04:38:45 +0000

better to consult a doctor and don't be like a sex seeker. you should not do sex with these kind of girls although she may not affected by HIV. Don't do any thing so that one can put a finger against you.

Answered: Criteria for getting a question published?

Thu, 23 Feb 2012 04:38:13 +0000

totally agreeing with other users response

Answered: Top 10 Actions That Will Make You Happier

Thu, 23 Feb 2012 03:35:43 +0000

well i wanted to post this on articles column but unfortunately the articles section is disable so have to post this on question column

so users no need to reply just read it and forget it and if you would like to give it a chance then try it , the choice is all yours

What is voyeourism?

Wed, 22 Feb 2012 17:32:55 +0000

I would like to know about voyeur fetish, what exactly does it means?

Feeling pain in lower abdomens and testicles

Wed, 22 Feb 2012 17:11:33 +0000

Hello, I am 24year old male.From the last one month i'm having slight pain in both lower abdomens and testicles, I went to the urologist also he told me that its due to urinary infection and gave some medicine ,after talkng medicine it was ok but now the pain has started again.Please suggest what should I do and while masturbating it pains more.

How to overcome pain in testicles?

Wed, 22 Feb 2012 09:59:25 +0000

Hi Anjali Aunty and other members.
I am 19 years old male.I masturbate regularly. At least twice a day.
I am having pain in my testicles from last 24 hours and I would be thankfull to you and other members if you can suggest some methods to overcome it.!
And kindly tell me that is it serious ??

Guide me as what I should do ?

Wed, 22 Feb 2012 06:05:43 +0000

I am 38 years old male from Delhi,I have a personal business. I am married with a women of same age and have a happy marital life with less pleasurable sex life. My wife does not like sex at all she does it as a duty and has let me do that duty only twice in my 11 years of marital life. Otherwise she has never allowed me any penetrations if I ever want to get sex pleasures she tells me to get my tool rubbed on outer lips and outer part of her vagina and get discharged. She does not like any games, oral or penetrations etc. I have two kids one of 12 years age and other of 4 year. and thats it.
Now I am sexually very active and have a lot of desire which may have partly increased also due to this strange behaviour of my wife.
I need to have sex every day and night but i have no ways out.
Somehow i dont like to visit prostitutes etc and have any extra marital affairs also.
Now it is only masturbation with which I take out my frustrations and have real wild dreams for that.
I fantasize every women and girl in that right from the film actress till neighbours, family relatives and even my sasoo maa and elder sister in law.
Now this is another area which needs to be explained. Some how before our marriage I never had any sexual attraction for my SIL or MIL but since last 7 to 8 years I have a real wild dream to take all the two women in one bed.
Over the years I have lost every feeling of lust for my wife and I have rather hot lust feelings for my SIL who is two years elder to me and divorced since last ten years with a child. She had a marriage breakage and never married since then. She is very conservative type but I can feel her seductive attitude towards me. She wears low necks and tight fittings and tries to expose her whenever she comes to our home or gets an interaction with me.
I have never tried on her due to the fear of many unknowns but the bottom line is that I dont want to get the peace of my married life to fly away with any such attempt. Their's is a very conservative family and things can just blow up if my SIL does not react positively to my proceedings.
But on the other hand I am rubbing on her and her mother every night with my wild fantasies since last 7 to 8 years. Her mom is 65 or so and she is like 40 or so but man I don't know what to do. I understand that it is really sick thinking but I have no way out. I do masturbate on other women and girls also but somehow I can't simply help myself when it gets to my lust for my SIL.
Can some one guide me as what should I do and how?
I don't want to spoil my domestic peace as my wife is too good as a mother and we have a happy family type of realtionship otherwise but some how this feeling and lust .................
I don't know what to do?????