I would like to know about the Sex Pheromones. What are they actually and does it have any relationship with humans? Is it helpful in attracting the opposite sex. Please tell me about it briefly.

I am a 29 years old male, I am here to discuss few things about me and I am looking for your advice. I have had sex with many girl friends (who were not virgin) and all this went good for few years. Before this I used to masturbate and I am doing this since I was 14 years. During those days I used to do only once every week, but now I am masturbating atleast once everyday. Nowadays I am feeling some erectile dysfunction problems as while doing sex either my penis is not fully erect or if it is erected fully, within no time I ejaculate. I am going to be married in few days with a virgin girl. I am very much depressed that I can't share my problem with anyone, now I am in a hope that somebody will guide me about my problems.

Please help me to overcome my erectile dysfunction problem.

                           I am going to marry a virgin girl. She is 30. She does not know about sex due to cultural issues. I had to convince her for many hours in order to just kiss her. I have read about painful sex and since she is virgin it occurs to me that on our first night we may have problems. I also read about vaginal problems that sometimes make penetration difficult or even impossible. She is extremely shy and cannot disscuss anything. Even when I told her about bleeding on first sex, she was confused. Kindly all girls and women please please give me good & sincere piece of advice that how should I start the sex and most common problems of virgin girls/bleeding etc . and should i penetrate my penis fully in vagina in first attempt of sex after marriage? Will it hurt her?

I am a 21 years old male, I used to masturbate a lot and recently I noticed that my penis has bent towards left side of my body. I don't no what to do now and I can't even share about my problem with my friends.

Please tell me how can I make my penis straight?

We love each other very much, the thing is my mom needs a man and I understand her totally and practically, even technically my boy friend is also correct because another man might cause another stupid problems in our life, after all she is my mother and I do not have any objections.

I have never ever seen my mom such active and happy and excited in her life for a very long time, even my boyfriend is very excited about the threesome. So I please request all the AA members to understand a person and act accordingly, I can do as per my wish but I stopped myself and posted a question here because there might be people who can give me the best guidance and help me doing the best, so please help me out. 
 
My another question is, my mom says she wants to have unprotected sex that is with out condoms. I am sure my mom, me and my boyfriend are STD free and even we do not have any diseases. But my boyfriend getting sucked by me and my mom at the same time will that cause any disease? Please help me on this. 
 
Anjali Aunty I am looking for a answer from you.

I am a 23 years old male, I am from the southern India. I have a girl friend whom I love a lot. My girl friend now works in another city which is far from where I stay and we have been separated like this for a while. I have a friend named Steffi, she used to be very close to me, she was also in love with a guy.

But her lover got stuck in some problem and they have been separated now.She is worried a lot about all this and we used to speak in the phone for a long time and she used to tell me all the romantic moment she had with her boy friend. 

She used to tell me where all he touched her, what all he did and later we started to speak about porn movies and all. Now I want to know whether I can approach her to have sex with her so that she can get relief from her problems and divert her mind .

Please advise me guys and Anjali aunty, what shall I do now? Shall I go ahead and have sex with her?

I am a 28 years old female, I would like to know whether Indian ladies prefer Lesbian relaionships? Also what would be the percentage of women who like lesbian.

I am a married woman with 2 kids. I am thinking to go for a birth control method, and I am actively considering a Copper T. If I go for this I don't need to have pills and no need to keep counting of days. I can be carefree and take the opportunity for having good sex. Pills are making me fat and I am having a lot of mood swings, and I just hate condoms. Can anybody advise me regarding Copper T who has used it.

Hi Anjali Aunty,

I am a 23 years old unmarried male, I belong to the Muslim religion. From the past 3 years I am in love, we both are happy, we understand each other a lot and we want to marry each other. But she is of different religion and both my parents and her parents are against this. They won't agree for our marriage at any cost, please advise me what shall I do?

I am roshan from kerala, 2 weeks back I and my sister were travelling by public bus which was a bit crowded. Half way through the journey I realised that some guy was molesting my sister and she was standing still without any objection to the guys movements. I did not know whether she was actually enjoying it or she was too embarrassed to react, but the scene of my sister getting molested made me horny. I masturbated that day thinking of that scene, I have a habit of reading incest stories but have never thought about her in a sexual manner prior to this incident. I got horny and 2 days back while returning home on the same bus I got behind my sister and rubbed my penis on her buttocks.

I did not know what was going through my mind, I actually molested my sister in public. I found out that she was responding to my moves, she was actually enjoying it and I continued to feel her body. All of a sudden I saw a friend of my sister was actually watching my moves. I quickly stopped my activities and moved to the back of the bus. I don't know whether her friend had mentioned this to her and my sisters behavior and attitude towards me has not changed. I dont know what to do but I really want to make love to my sister. Please advise me what to do further?

I am 23 years old male, I masturbate frequently and I recently found that my penis is very tiny but when it gets erect and hard it becomes huge. Am I suffering from any problem? Please help me.

I am a 21 years old male and a great fan of your website. Women normally have a clitoral orgasm very often and they have a great pleasure with it. They enjoy a lot rather than anything. But is it possible for the womens to have an anal orgasm?

I am 28 years old male from Meerut(U.P.) and recently I got married, my question is what is the ideal way to deflorate the vagina on suhaagraat i.e the first night with small penis5" . I have not tried physical pleasures yet..can you please guide me?

I am Yogesh a 23 years old male, from the past few days I have incest fantasy towards my aunt who is 46 years. I am really desperate of having sex with my aunt many times in a day. I stay with my aunt, her husband is generally out of town and her only child is in boarding school. I don't what I will do now a days, can you please guide me whether to continue this or not. 

I am a 37 years old married male. On my first night I crushed my wife and screwed her up. She was crying with pain when I penetrated her for the first time. I always wanted a virgin girl and she was. As I broke her hymen on the first night she started bleeding, she said she maintained her virginity for me. Each time I penetrated inside her it pained her till she became pregnant in 6 months time. She had a caesarian delivery and her cunt muscles were not enlarged. Now when I try to penetrate inside she complains me of the pain and I stop doing further.

Please help me what should I do now?

I am a 37 years old widow women working in a private company, I am facing a major problem with my daughter. My husband expired 5 years back, from then I am having an affair with my boyfriend. At first I used to have it secretly, but later I started having sex in my house itself when my daughter is sleeping. The actual problem started just 6 months before, my 16 years old daughter came to know about my affair with my boyfriend. But she has not spoke a single word about it, so I started having sex more often in my house itself. But after 1 month she started talking about sex with me, she used to ask how was last night and all. One day I was shocked to see her masturbating nakedly and shouting some boys name. Later on she started bringing her boyfriends to the home and coming home during late nights. She is even moving much closer with my boy friend. I am confident that she is a virgin till now but I am afraid she may go in a wrong way. I know it was my mistake but I am helpless.

Please advise me what should I do now with my daughter.

I am a 27 years old divorced woman and  a great fan of your blog. From the past few months I have been facing a serious problem (may be because of my own acts). After my divorce I broke all the relations with my relatives and moved to another city where I live now. I am a legal adviser and when I am not working in my office I like to dedicate my time to a NGO which serves/helps uneducated teenagers who are forced to work or those involved in criminal activities and were not able to continue their studies.

I provide private tuition to such kids at my home/office as its hard for me to go to NGO office every days due to my busy life and most of the time grown up teens feel shame in studying with small kids at the NGO center. Things were going great till 3 months back when I got an offer from NGO to provide private tuitions to a group of teenagers(around 16/17 years of age).

I accepted this offer as I wanted to help them. They are total of 4 boys who come to my place for private tuitions, every thing was going normal. I knew from the day one that they wore having an eye over me but I did not care much as I thought they were from a criminal background so it wont be easy for them to behave decently and no one changes in a matter of just one day, so all I used to do was to cover my self. Later they started touching me, I objected couple of times but my reaction was in very polite way because I thought its not good to deal with them in a hard way as they have faced a lot of things in their young life.

 A month back  their touching got bit out of control and things started to go wrong. I admit it was also my fault equally but as I live alone and did not have sex for more then 4 years it became impossible for me resist them after a certain point I ended up sharing myself to them I felt very ashamed of myself after the act and cried whole day. I did not know what to do or why I did this after that day those guys again returned next day, I even refused to open the door of my house to them but they some how managed to get in and this time they actually forced me to have sex again, I tried to refuse them but after that I again broke and ended up having sex with them. I don't know when or how one of them took my nude pictures while doing it, and they started blackmailing me to have more sex with them. 

I thought of going to the police station and register a FIR against them but I soon realized that it will only hurt me socially and as I am from a legal background I know how things go in such cases. Days went and they started doing it regularly with me and now I am in a condition where even I have started enjoying it. I know its socially wrong and many people will come up with words like slut,bitch for me. But non of them can understand from what I went through and what I am doing now.

Few of those guys also stay at my place for many days, I don't know now where it will end up and what situation it will land me up in and I feel really ashamed and guilty for this but I have to accept this that I have started liking this and have started feeling comfortable with them.

Have I really become a slut ? please guide me what should I do now and I don't want to lose my social status.

I am a 23 years old guy, one of my cousin is going thorugh troubled marriage life and has not had sex for months now. I am trying to get close with her sometimes she does not try to avoid me when I hold her hand or try a little more in touching her thighs over her dress. There has not been any negative impression as such. I wish to have enough tips to try out to seduce and have nice sex with her as I am surely tempted towards her without any commitment. I don't know whether I am doing right or wrong please advise me.

I got married three years back and I love my wife a lot, but before that I had an affair with another beautiful and sexy girl named Shalini and somehow I was forced to marry this girl(my wife), who is good too but whenever I have sex with her I have to think of Shalini that I am fucking her – in order to cum. I don't want to cheat my wife but I have tried many times not to think of it and just make love to my wife and feel satisfied and cum with her but this never happens. In order to cum I have to think of Shalini.

Aunty is this normal?, shall I keep it going without telling my wife or should I tell her the reality?

I am a 25 years old guy having a weird fantasy. Most of the guys would like to have a shy homely girl as wife, but I love to have a totally shameless girl as my wife, who pose naked in magazines exposing their private parts and act in porn movies. My desire is to marry a girl like that, I tried a lot to get rid of this desire but I always fail. I am thinking of fulfilling my wish, can you please advise me whether it is right or wrong for my future
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I am a 21 years old guy doing my MBA, I have a girl friend who is of my batch. She stays along with her 2 more friends in a flat, I usually spend most of my time with my girl friend in her flat also her roommates boy friends visit the flat frequently. One day I stayed in the night in my girl friends flat. Me, my girl friend and her roommate were sleeping in the same room. While sleeping I got in between these two girls and then started to touch my girl friend roommate's private parts. Suddenly she woke up, removed my hand and went away from the room.

Before this incident she always tried to come close with me when ever we talk or when we are sitting beside each other. She used to hold my hands and all, but now I am in a confusion state whether she wants me or not? Still she comes close to me when my girl friend is not there with me after this incident.

I am confused and don't know what to do further, please advise me.

I am a 24 years old male, I have an aunt who is 38 years old. From the past one month I started to do some naughty things with my aunt, I place my finger in her pubis and sometimes I even rub there slowly. I have kissed her many times even in her private parts. She always allows me but sometimes she objects. Few days back I had complete sex with her and I told her this is my first experience for which she replied I have done this many times. Now she is telling me that she would tell all this to my uncle, I am extremely worried about this and If my uncle comes to know this then I am dead.

Please help me.

I am Ashish 28 years old married male from Delhi, I am working as a software engineer. I am not basically from Delhi because of my job I have been shifted over here and living here from the past 3 years. I got married 2 years before and since the last year my wife stays with me in Delhi. I noticed that my landlord and wife are attracted to each other, they always keep speaking and during the day time most off the time I will be in office and this is the time where they both be alone. I don't know how to speak about this issue with my wife. How can I ask her desires?

Please help me Anjali aunty.

Hello Anjali aunty, 
 
I am Akshay 25 years old  and my girl friend is of the same age we are committed from the past 4 – 5 years. We will be getting married in this august. We used to have sex oftenly, recently when my parents went out on a tour she came to my place, we had foreplay and all. I got my penis erected at the beginning but by the time she got wet I could not penetrate. My penis was stiff all the time but was not when she wanted me inside her. I felt bad that I did not satisfy her, feel like a loser. 
 
Please help me, I don't know what is wrong with me.

I am 26 years old male recently I got engaged with my girl friend whom I loved from the past 7 years and we are going to marry in 2 years. From the past 4 years we are into physical relation which includes oral sex that is what is continuing till now. My fiancee has no problem in vaginal or anal intercourse but she says she wants to keep that after marriage and I have no problem in this as I don't want to force her. The real problem is I lick her everywhere pussy,ass etc. but she does not lick mine. I have showed her many blowjob videos and I told her to do that, but she is refusing and says she is not comfortable with that.

Aunty please help me how can I make her agree to give me a blowjob?

I  am a 28 years old guy and I want to have sex with my cousion who is 24 year sold. Many  times I used to touch her boobs, sometimes I used to grab her from behind, see her cleavage, and masturbate while thinking about her. I don't know whether she is feeling good about it too or not. Please tell me how should I initiate the process of seducing her to bed?

I am 23 years old male, I am getting married soon. Me and my fiancee had sex so many times but now I feel like having her mother, her mother is 42 years old and bears a very beautiful tight body. My fiancee's dad died long time back according to my assumption her mom would definitely have sex with me because her way of dressing and way of behaviour and talking with me is quite seductive, now I want to have sex with her mom. How should I put this thing in my future mother in law's ear? Pease help me. and no moral policing please guyz.. Understand I am not in a situation to get a moral help and understand that and realize its been 6 months since my lust for her started. Do not worry about my fiancee I can handle her just tell me, how can I lay her sexy mother?

I am a 19 years old male, I have one questions which always runs through my mind. Do females really sqirt like shown in porn movies or is it fake? I have heard that pressing g spot of women forces them to squirt, is that true?

I am a 32 years old female married for last eight years. Im having two kids one boy and one girl both below 7 years of age. But, my hubby rarely comes near me. May be once in 6-7 months. I used to masturbate to satisfy my needs. It was fine till now. But, recently I feel like something is going wrong with me. Whenever I bathe my kids, I feel like something going on in me, like erection of my nipples, etc. Please help me Anjali aunty.

I recently fucked a call girl & used the long ejacalutation spray. I fucked her for around 40 mins, after 4 hours back when I was urinating I feel pain & it happens the whole day. Was that a problem because of using it. If yes then please suggest some other gel or spray. I do not feel satisfied with 5 or 7 min sex . If this is also a problem please let me know.

I am a 20 years old male. I am in a relationship from the last 7 months, initially I liked her so much that my friends started telling me that I love her. Somewhere I also felt something that may be in love with her, then one day I proposed her and she accepted me.

Sometimes I feel that I like her only but not love her, sometimes feel i love her. I already told her that  I haven't thought about the marriage she told me the same she also needs time for marriage . I really did not think about the marriage because she is not like my dream girl look wise and nature wise she is open minded girl. It was one side story now .When I go anywhere I find other girls more beautiful than her and try to talk to them trying to exchange number with them. I have started blaming my friends For edging me on into a relationship.

I don't believe in love and don't think will ever fall in love. I have lost interest in other girls also. I sometimes think of my girl friend, and I feel like to tell her everything but am afraid that she will get upset and I don't want to cause her any hurt.

I just don't want to have sex with her and later cheat her or ditch her. Sometimes I think about my future I have lots of thing to do, I should not be stuck by commitments at this stage. I still feel this is not love because she is average in looking. Actually I dont' know what exactly my problem is her looks,her lifestyle,her family or my future plan. In love such things don't matter how a person looks but the point is I really dont love her. My friend told me just to have physical relation with her but I cant even think about it she is a nice girl, I cant cheat her and break heart her thats why I am not answering her calls and messaging her because I am not marring her in future and I dont love her.

I have started completely avoiding her because I dont want to spoil her life and I am afraid  we might end up in having physical contact some or the other day. I always miss her so much, I am happy when she messages or calls me. When she is infront of me I forget everthing, I dont like when she talks about other boys, now I feel may be she is average in looks but now her looks dont matter to me, a friend of mine says I love her but i am not accepting it. Please tell me is this love or something else?

I am a 25 years old male, I have a huge fetish for juicy and soft pussy of girl (mostly aunty's) and ass holes of girl, is there something wrong in it. I am afraid that when I will be married if my wife comes know about my fetish then she might think I am dirty. I am a bit confused because some girls also deny boys to lick their pussy just because they think it is dirty, but for me its heaven.

Anjali aunty please help me, am I normal with such fetish?

I am a 29 years young married guy having a married girl friend who is known to me before her marriage. She used to share every thing about her life like she used to have number of boy friends and we used to have oral sex like pussy licking boobs sucking etc. Now after marriage also we are continuing with oral sex but she is not allowing me to have sex with her but she is having sex with her colleagues as told by her. She says her husband is not interested in sex but still she says no to me. How can I make her have sex witht me?

Are massage parlors in New delhi good and trustworthy? I have came across many adds on the internet about them they say they provide good refreshment at low cost and have professional people for this trained in countries like USA,Russia etc.. One of my friend told me about such massage parlors (this is was the 1st time in life I came to know about such places.. then later on I googled it to gather more information about it) She herself tried once and said that it really helps in relaxing ur mind and body and suggested me to try atleast once. my question is that are they safe and worth giving a try for relaxing ?

                         I want to have sex with my aunty. Her husband is impotent and she sleeps with his brother and other men for pleasure. Watching her have sex with others makes me go crazy. But she refuses my advances saying that i am like a son. Iam crazy about her how can I make her to agree to my proposition?

My friend madan(name changed)has the habit of masturbating for very long time for the last 8 years. He is 24 now an his penis is very small like a babies and also some kind of rashes are his penis. They look like tiny particles. Also he is not having erection and his penis is bent to one side. His cum is not thick its watery. He fears that he cannot be cured from his impotency. He is now extremely depressed and has even tried sucide. Can he be cured, please help him aunty.

I am 38 year old male. An engineer by profession financially well settled. But not in relationship. I became physically challenged (lost one leg and i have artificial leg) due to a road accident that happened during my school days. I am confident and positive minded… other than my personal life ! Some how I started getting a feeling that I should not be with a girl / should not marry as I am not a complete human as I lost one leg. Also i rejected couple of love proposal and always use harsh words towards girls who try to make close friendship with me. So that they hate me! I felt that I should not spoil a girls life as they might get a complete men and a better person than me.

But as I grow older I feel I require a soul to share. All these years masturbation was/is only my sexual relief. All these years I was having my focus on career and financial stability  but after my 35th year I started feeling lonely, always feeling that I dont have any one to care. I wish to have a girl companion. I dont like to work or earn (I have rejected many good opportunities to grow in my career) as there is no one with whom I can share all this success. I am almost keeping myself away from my friends, relatives.. I dont know why, but can sense that I am spoiling myself. I can also sense that my erection is not that good as before, but my heart always ache for closeness with a female.. a wife.. whom I can help in kitchen.. take her for shopping, have a walk with her.. take her out.. walk in rain.. share a cup of coffee cuddling each other while watching tv.. more and more.. I am living in fantasy world. I tried to find girls through matrimonial sites and friendship sites.. but most of them (though i received very few response!) are looking for sex and money, cant find any one genuine.. many dont even respond after knowing of my disabality. I can see that females expectation are high.. also recently I start having a doubt whether I can satisfy a girl.. I start getting this doubt after reading storing on net, seeing blue films, chatting with girls on net. All I can feel is that I can not live alone rest of my life.. I have understood this very late !! Because I cant focus in my daily routine I have tried my best to divert my mind by helping unprivileged, teaching guys who are from poor background etc but again i cant put my 100% into it my mind always look for a female and ache for a simple hug I always feel like crying I can sense that I am in some kind of depression. Though I try to divert I can not focus completely in anything. I dont know how to find a girl for me!! I am not confident to propose a girl. I have come across girls who chat on net, said that girls dont like guys who are physically challenged. Same time when I chat with guys who are physically challenged in abroad like UK, US, Australia, they say it is easy to find girls,guy who is in wheelchair says that he got a girl friends .Even a guy who is crippled below hip says he goes out with girl during weekend and he use injection to get erection. To summarize I want to know the ways I can try to find a female partner.? I am afraid to go with call girls as i think they might give problem because of my disabality or should I give it a try? I want to make a website for specially challenged to vent their feelings as I know there are many people whos mobility is very limited but they are also human. Can some one help in this regard. I wish at least next generation specially challenged people like me have platform to express their feelings and find a partner to lead a healthy life. Wish to receive constructive reply.

My friend has been in the habit of masturbating for about 8 years now. He had become weaker over the course of time and now comes the stage when he has lost his potential, his pennis is shrunk and appears to be like as small as that of a baby. Some rashes are there too around his pennis head. He was depresed an was about to die when we saved him and after which he gave us al the information.. Please tell me if there is any cure for this by which in future he could get himself engaged in a healthy family life.. Is there a way out of this problem for him?

I love your blog very much, I am a 28 years old married woman from good background. I had a arrange marriage and I love my hubby very much till today, but my hubby is always business minded and stay less time in home and most of the day I stay alone in my home and its very boring for me to stay alone. My hubby cares a lot for me and he suffers from lack of sexual desires and can't satisfy me sexually, he has low sperm count he can't even fertile me.

We got married one year before and he had under gone for medical tests but the doctor said he take 2 to 3 years to get recovery from low sperm count.I felt more upset and my initial fantasy is to become mother but everything has become a dream now. More over that he does not satisfy me sexually and my sexual desire is becoming very high day by day.

Due to my sexual desires my fantasy in sex arouse me a lot, I had a chance to have an affair with a guy who stay nearby my home but I avoided him because I love my hubby very much and I can't even think off  that. At the initial stage my fantasy was to become a good mom but when doctor said due to my hubby's problem I cannot become a mom I become more upset but now my fantasy has changed to have sex with 3 to 4 guys in a group for many days at a safe place and go for nude modelling in a safe place, so that my hunger for sex can some how come down and I can live happily for few days.

Due to my sexual desire and my fantasy I started to visit pubs and consume vodka more just because of this problem only. Anjali aunty help me out from my problem, is my fantasy to have sex with 3 to 4 guys at safe place is right  or wrong.

Thinking about this problem my alcohol consumption is becoming more and more. More over now a days my hubby is mostly out of town for more days and I feel I am alone in this world. Please help me out Anjali Aunty and other members.