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Is my girlfriend abnormal?

asked Mar 31, 2014 in Questions by dannyutpal (165 points)
edited Apr 1, 2014 by longhands1

Hi, I am Danny, 25 years old. This is related to my first question.

1- My gf took an i-pill.on 8th march. She had her period nearly one week earlier than usual. The bleeding was very heavy and unusual like never before. Also she had severe body pain. Was this the side effect of i-pill or any thing else? She got her periods, but is there still a chance of pregnancy?

2- While fingering mostly she insists me to suck her nipples.and most of the time she shivers a lot as if she is vibrating and tells me to remove my hand out of her vagina. After our love session I asked her if she is feeling any uneasiness during fingering and sucking, but she avoids the question all the time and tells me not to ask this question. I am still wondering why she is avoiding the topic.

3- She is sweating heavily after love making, even if the AC is full, where it is nearly impossible to sweat. Is there any abnormality in her body which she is hesitating to tell me? or should I stop fingering.

I am not forcing her. After fore play she only puts my hand near her vagina, indicating to me to finger fuck her. Her vagina is always very wet and slippery while fingering. In between fingering if I ask her if she is experiencing any pain? She simply replies that she is enjoying.

Why is this type of abnormality happening to her and why she is avoiding the topic?



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Your girlfriend is perfectly normal. But by asking her such awkward question, you will make her feel abnormal. 

I-pills are hormonal pills and interfere with the hormones and cause the re-actions that you have mentioned. They can lead to severe menustral problems and can damage the ovaries if taken indiscriminately. Bleeding becomes heavy and periods are either delayed or come much earlier. Remember the i-pill is an emergency contraceptive pill and not to be taken as a measure of birth control. They are also known to cause severe headaches due to hormonal imbalance.

Your girlfriend is merely reacting to the sensations that she feels when you are fingering her. Why do you want an explanation from her each time. She loves you to suck her breasts. It means you are doing a fine job of sucking on her nipples and this is exciting for her. Sucking the nipples and kneading the breasts, gently and firmly but not with force is a common method of foreplay. She asks you to stop fingering as you are hitting the right spots on the clitoris, which makes her body tense and she feels orgasmic. She wants you to continue after taking a break by concentrating on other parts of her body.   

Sex is also a form of exercise. The body heats up, the heart pumps faster and the muscles exercise more. The pupils of the eyes dilate, arteries constrict and temperature rises. Normally men sweat more than women during sex as they are more active and need to perform. You seem to be very suspicious. Enjoy the sex and stop asking your partner akward questions. Even she does not have the answers, why the body reacts the way it does. 

answered Mar 31, 2014 by longhands1 (84,390 points)
edited Apr 1, 2014 by longhands1
commented Mar 31, 2014 by dannyutpal (165 points)
but after her periods, still there is a chance of pregnancy?
commented Apr 1, 2014 by longhands1 (84,390 points)

No. Periods or menstruation is the shedding of the uterine lining. This means that no sperm was received for fertilization. So, relax, but next time, take precautions.

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Dear dannyutpal,

    Thats due to the side effects of i pill. Its a emergency confraceptive pill not a birth control measure. It can alter menstrual cycles and cause any ither problems too. In your gf case its the result of this i pill too. She got her period means she is no more pregnant. You both can be relaxed now. The i pill has worked.

   If she loves your sucking, she says she likes your finger fucking then why do you ask such kind of questions to her. She doesn't know why is it so. She stops you because she may be paining but at the same time she is also enjoying. She reacts according to her comfort level thats why she is doing so. Just love her dude. She is sweating because during sex flow of hormones is more so body metabolic rate increases and leads to more energy.Thats why she is sweating. Everyone have different metabolic rates so stop suspecting her. She is absolutely normal ans normal. Enjoy yourself.
answered Apr 6, 2014 by Manoj4u (6,185 points)

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