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My hubby has a foot fetish.

asked Feb 15, 2014 in Questions by devika.singh (140 points)
edited Feb 15, 2014 by longhands1

Hello Anjali,

I have a very strange problem. I got married one month ago. My hubby has a foot fetish. He told me that before too but I did not realise how big a foot fan he is.

1. He gets excited wen he sees my feet.
2. As you must be knowing,  it is a custom for ladies in our culture to wear toerings. All ladies wear 1-2 toerings on their feet. My hubby asks me wear 3 toerings on my feet. I love him a lot and can do anything for him. I will wear these toerings life long.. but is it normal?
3. He asks me to wear heavy anklets too.
4.Before marriage, he asked me to grow toenails which I did.. But tell me is all this normal?
5. One night, I removed my feet jewellery, his penis could not get up, then when I wore 3 toerings and anklets, his penis got a good erection.
6. He even asks me to touch his penis with my feet and rub it. But I am afraid that my toerings might cut his penis.

Anjali .. pls help.. tell me .. is my hubby ok? Csan I get him treated by a docter? Help. I am worriied.




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A fetish is about finding an object sexually arousing. It could be a woman's panties, bra, lingerie or any part of the human body.

Your husband does have a severe foot fetish, rather more like an obsession. The good thing is that he is not alone and there are many men who worship their partner's feet. There are at leat a hundred different types of fetishes and foot fetish is one of them.

Thank your stars that he is in love with your feet. I know a friend, who admires the feet of other women and his wife is always complaining about his infedility! The love for a woman's feet is also coupled with the need for dominance. It is a great turn on to kiss the feet, to have your feet trampling him and to have you massage his cock with your feet.

I am aware how distraught you must feel, but since you knew of his passion for feet earlier, you should not be complaining now. Use this to your advantage and to foster a greater bond between you. Keep your feet on his lap in bed and ask him to massage your feet and oil them. Get him to paint your toe-nails and then reward him with sex. You need not tell anyone else about this fetish of his. It is your secret.

You must be feeling all this advide odd, as traditional women do not go round keeping their feet on their husband's lap, but why not do what your husband likes. It causes you no harm. Wearing toerings at home to turn him on is fine. You can reason with him that you will wear the minimum rings at a party. He will agree. 

Do not for a moment feel that your husband is abnormal or deviant in any way. No therapy is required. You can handle this the way I have told you to. No doctors etc. Imagine your power. They say a man can be made to dance on the little finger of a woman. In your case you have the whole foot!! 

answered Feb 15, 2014 by longhands1 (76,920 points)
edited Feb 16, 2014 by longhands1
commented Feb 16, 2014 by devika.singh (140 points)
thanks sir... but anjali ji .. give me audio answer to my question
commented Feb 17, 2014 by longhands1 (76,920 points)

devika, It is not always possible for Anjali to reply. She is extremely busy with her other committments.

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This reminds me of a story. I had a buxom sexy and very beautiful friend who was looking online for a fuck partner. She got through to one guy and they arranged a meeting in a restaurant. That guy had a foot fetish, and turned my friend down just because he didn't like her feet. This when any other guy would give his right arm to lay that big-boob big-ass highly fuckable girl!
Fetish is something related to one's likeness. If he likes your feet, take good care of your feet and get good sex. Don't worry about the rings hurting him. You are not stomping his phallus. Caressing his penis with feet won't hurt him.
answered Feb 15, 2014 by gigs4r (1,435 points)
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hi devika.singh

i will directly go to the main question and skip the other ones.

You asked "Is my husband okay?" and "is it normal to have foot fetish?".

The answer is yes, it is completely normal, safe and harmless in every sense. Sex fantasies and fetishes are a way to enjoy sex. These kind of fetishes and fantasies are completely normal and are well practiced among couples who want to do something new. You might feel your husband has a weird fantasy but the truth is there are so many other fetishes and fantasies people like to do that this foot fetish fantasy seems nothing in front of that. So don't worry everything is fine. Just try to enjoy your sex life to the fullest.

if you have any further doubt or query please leave a comment down below on this answer and I will try to answer back.

Thank You
answered Feb 15, 2014 by mrohit655 (390 points)
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Foot fetish is nothing severe to take to a doctor. A guy who has foot fetish has  atypical charecterstics, all doesnot match with your situation. 

I guy who has a foot fetish, loves to admire women feet and get sexually attracted only by seeing and caressing them. You have given emphasis on something which is not common on a guy with foot fetish. 

First thing first, a guy who has foot fetish doesnot care its his wife or not, any nice feet of any woman, he will feel the attraction.

Secondly, they loves the smoothness, curveture of feet. A guy with foot fetish doesnot like any unnatural things like toe ring, anklet or toenail or added art wark. They love it as they way it is, the natural look.  

Thirdly, very well said about foot sex, a guy with feet fetish would love to caress the smoothness, as well as love to get a feet job. On a feet job, your toenail is not a factor, a feet job is when you get both the feet together and let his have a erection, then let the dick pass through your feet. Thats the ultimate pleasure. I wish if could add a picture, but dont worry, google feet job or foot job, you will know how to do that. Rather than vaginal penetratio or blowjob, they love a feet job.

I dont think your husband has 100% foot fetish, its a part of footfetish part of other things. May be he has some girl friend before who had some of these, he is trying to get that feeling through you.  The wives are really worried about their husband who has a foot feyish because no matter how the face is, any girl with a smooth leg, they fall for that. If your husband only falls for your feet, then its wishfull or controlled feet fetish.  Jus for an example, I am an assman, I love to see a nice shaped ass of a woman, even when thats under clothes. But does that mean its applicable for my wife only? I would feel the same hardon seeing other women ass too, right? 

Sorry Devika, rather than solving your problem I am making this complicated for you now. But bring in the communication in place, you will know what he has in mind.

answered Feb 16, 2014 by oye (25,670 points)
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Dear Devika singh,

 Yeah your husband is normal. All individuals have diffrrent fetishes and your husband have foot fetish. Enjoy with him don't be worried. But it doesn't mean that he isonly getting erection by seekng yiur feet. She will surely get hard on when caught the feet of other women too. But don't worry because men are naturally made this way. Men will be men. Getting hard on by seeing others doesn't mean that he is cheating you. Communicate with him this will much clearify your doubt and yeah your husband is 100% normal mam. Enjoy your life and have trust on your partner.
answered Feb 16, 2014 by Manoj4u (6,180 points)

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