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I want to have sex with women but do not know how to approach them? [closed]

asked Sep 13, 2013 in Questions by raj00004 (140 points)
closed Sep 18, 2013 by longhands1

I want to have sex with a woman, but I do not know how to approach her. I am 28 year old male,still not having sex with any girl. Daily I am masturbating. So please help me.
closed with the note: Closed. See my comments in Red.
commented Sep 18, 2013 by longhands1 (80,850 points)
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The following request was received from raj0004.
pls suggest prostitute site for sex

answered 1 hour ago by raj00004 (120 points)

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100% safe, times tested, and optimized method to enjoy healthy sex life is marriage. All methods outside marriage have risk and you need to waste lot of time to get a woman. If a woman is easily available to you then she is also easily available to other men. Such women  are nothing better than prostitutes. Many girls are interested in marriage. If you like some girl you talk with her and put your marriage proposal. If she accepts your proposal you start enjoying sex with her before marriage also if she too would be  consenting. If the girl does not like you in bed or otherwise she will break up and go away. Be prepared for that. But you cannot break up and run away. If the girl is strong she can take legal action on you.
answered Sep 13, 2013 by shanti200462 (2,060 points)
edited Sep 13, 2013 by prashant69
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Dear raj, it would be better if you give us some sort of information about that girl. You said that you just want to have sex with her, nothing more, so it depends on the character of that girl. Does she allow you to use her body? Is she seriously interested in you or not. You gave your information but not of the girl. I think if she loves the sex without getting involved in a relationship then you can approach her by little guts and have sex. But if she is a girl of manners than it will be very difficult.
answered Sep 13, 2013 by Manoj4u (6,180 points)
edited Sep 13, 2013 by longhands1
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Dear Brother,

You better go for paid sex with protection (prostitute)
answered Sep 13, 2013 by kamal123 (130 points)
commented Sep 13, 2013 by longhands1 (80,850 points)


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The best solution for you is to get married, at 28 years you are in the perfect age group for marriage, but yes marriage does come with lot of responsibilities and if you are not ready for it then look for other options. Why don't you find a Girl friend first, and if you feel that you have a future with her the with her consent you can have sex, but if all else fails then as a last resort you may try a call girl or female escort but beware it carries huge risks & you might just end up spoiling your life for a few moments of fun/pleasure.
Well if your question is w.r.t a particular woman then we are sorry, here at AA you will not receive any tips on such seductions please try some dating sites instead!!!!!!!!!!!!!
answered Sep 13, 2013 by Sudeep Mohan (3,125 points)
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No woman in her right minds would gladly accept your proposal for sex in the very 1st encounter unless she is a hooker. Since you said you fancy her a lot, try to ask her out on a date, and if she is interested in you, she might accept your request and might come out with you; from this, try to gradually build up a rapport with her and drop small hints about your interest in her and if she is smart enough she would tell you her answer.

There is no rule book that says you should approach a woman in a particular way; you can go meet her and start a conversation with her; if she responds back with interest, you can deduce that she is interested in you, however if she doesn’t accept her decision and get over your fantasy.

Even though you haven’t asked I would like to add a line about your habit of masturbation; limit it to 2 times a week because chronic masturbation has its downfalls. Good luck.

answered Sep 13, 2013 by Invincible (12,550 points)
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Raj,Its not only you in this sex starved subcontinent that is eager to have sex ! Millions of guys out there who are in same shoes as you do irrespective of being vergin or not! For having sex one has to get the willing woman! And though this part of the world discovered 'kamsutra' now sex is almost considered as taboo thing! 

             Hard might it may seem but this is the truth! So you are at age of 28 still full of eneregy and youth and it not be difficult for a MAN like you to find some woman/ girl to have sex! Though it would not be correct to advice you to go for a paid sexbut if you are that eager then you can go for it with protection! But remember having sex with a wife or woman with her consent is very blissful and heavenly than doing it with some commercial sex worker! 

answered Sep 13, 2013 by prashant69 (7,045 points)
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Dear Raj, This site and its user doesnt teach or suggest the way how to seduce someone to sleep with.  This is something which you need to work out yourself.

If any girl/woman that you fancy for  stays near by then you can give some friendly gesture for some days like morning , evening and smiling in day time if she looks at you but dont roam around too much otherwise she will consider you as a psyco.  You can ask her over a cup of  Coffee to a nearby restaurant and ask her for friendship.
Bro you need to climb the stairs slowly, if you try to make it faster or opt for any short cut you may fall and back to zero.

Give some time and be confident, if you can not ask her for a coffee, how can you ask her to sleep with you ? You should have at least that much confidence on yourself.

Best option is get married and when you start getting food at home you dont have to spend time and money at  others  and at the same time home food is tastier and safer in terms of every aspect.
answered Sep 13, 2013 by fsimale4u (1,185 points)
edited Sep 13, 2013 by prashant69

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