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I had sex at young age. Please clear my doubts...?

asked Aug 19, 2013 in Questions by rehan_roni54 (120 points)
edited Aug 19, 2013 by longhands1
Hi, I am 22 years old. I had my first sex at the age of 8 years. Believe it or not but I did it many many times. Atleast 2 times a week that whole year, but no fluid came out of my penis that time.

Then sex stopped. After that I had a chance of sex at the age of 15 and I am doing up till now, 9 times per year. But my main thing is that I am masturbating 1 or 2 times daily since i was 15 years old. It is like a habit now. So far I am good with my penis and erection. But I want to know will I be able to become a father because I heard that with such a long time the sperms become dead?

Please guide me. I am likely to be married soon.

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You are going to get married, do get married. 

Sperm is not like a bucket that you have a fixed amount for whole life. The more you spend the less it will get.  Its a bodily process and a continuous process. Sperm keeps producing, as scientist have discovered a male embryo keep having immatured sperm when he still isnot born. 

If you have too much of a concern, you can go for a test on your sperm count. That will clarify if you can become a father or not. 

answered Aug 20, 2013 by oye (25,695 points)
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You're right man, it's hard to believe that you're having sex since you were 8 years old. Rare, I'll say. So, the only question you've asked is if sperms become dead if masturbation is a one's habit. No, sperm are produced untill you're dead or untill you've sufferd an serious accident causing damage to your head or testes. You'll surly become father. Excess masturbation may lead to less volume of semen but that is only temporary. Thevolume is restored if you give some space.
But remeber, excess masturbation is not good. No, ofcourse not, it makes you infertile but there are some other harms. For instance, loss of more energy, divertion from work etc. So, if you're able to get rid of masturbation as a habit, it will be better. And, enjoying sex even 90 times a year is no harm and will not reduce your sperms.
answered Aug 20, 2013 by raaz67 (835 points)
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You statistics are wonderful, sex 9 times a year i don't know how you manage that.......
To be frank you are addicted to masturbation which is definitely not a good news, excessive amount of masturbation can lead to certain complications like PE, ED etc, though till your testis are in order you will be producing sperms but again the quality will depend on many aspects like your general health, vitamin & mineral deficiency etc, excessive masturbation will definitely lead to less quantity of sperms being ejaculated, but fact being only one from the 50-60 million sperms is enough for a conception.
So the best thing is you continue with your sex adventures but definitely  reduce the number of masturbation sessions............
answered Aug 20, 2013 by Sudeep Mohan (3,135 points)
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Sperms do not dry up just like the ink dries up in a pen when you use it repeatedly. The sperm levels hold up depending upon your testosterone levels, so what you fear is absolutely ridiculous. For getting clarity on this, have a sperm count test prior to getting married, that would give you a clear idea if you can become a dad or not.

However you will need to limit the frequency of your masturbation, because regular masturbation would result in loss of erection and addiction to hand-jobs rather than the actual sex in the future. So try to limit it to a mere 2-3 times a week. Rest of the things are pretty good. And remember to engage in safe sex while you have it, because unprotected sex has the risk of transmitting STD’s/STI/s or even unwanted pregnancies.

answered Aug 20, 2013 by Invincible (12,550 points)
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answered Aug 21, 2013 by Anjali (7,465 points)
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Dear Rehan, it's very rare to have sex at that age. Rehan you mentioned that your semen count is still good, dear friend regular masturbation doesn't mean you have less sperm count. Sperm can produce in males throughout whole life. But you can't do it so often because it can have lot of health issues. For your question you can go to Medical to check your sperm count that you will become father or not. But i think you should as you described here, Great Luck .!
answered Aug 23, 2013 by Manoj4u (6,205 points)
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Oh no rehan it is a normal to musterbate. Due to musterbation there is no any effect in fertility.
answered Jan 14, 2014 by mkd4200 (110 points)

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