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I wear panties instead of men's underwear. Will there be a problem?

asked Aug 12, 2013 in Questions by roberjones (120 points)
edited Aug 12, 2013 by Invincible

Hello anjali madam,

I am a 21 year old straight boy. I only wear panties specially the cotton & other soft ones(bikini, high cut midrise etc) and women's high rise bodysuits but otherwise men's clothes. In fact at home I wear men's teeshirt but with tight cotton leggings or long skirts instead of shorts or with panties underneath it.

I tried to wear all sorts of men's brief but had severe rashes and all those were very uncomfortable. In fact I wear them even while sleeping. Is this thing abnormal? It will be embarassing if I get caught. Will it cause any harm to my genitals.

What is the solution to get rid of this. Please help me. I would like an answer from you all. This is such a problem that I cannot approach a psychologist by person.Please help.

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it seems you are one of the CD (Cross Dresser), nothing to worry for this as everyone has his own choices and preferences towards liking and disliking regarding inner wears may be it leads to some makeups and feminine postures also. There is no harm to your genitals if you wear panties.

As on today there is no problem but what about future how will you come in front of your wife in CD, a Wife  feels secure and happy with a man and when you will be cross dressing she might not feel the love and affection from you as expected. Try to control the habit as early as possible .
answered Aug 12, 2013 by fsimale4u (1,185 points)
edited Aug 12, 2013 by fsimale4u
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it is quite normal. it is up to your decision to wear innerwear. and innerwear are not show other men and women .. except your wife. so enjoy panty on dick
answered Aug 12, 2013 by wildlife (345 points)
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Suppose I ask you a question: Is it okay for a woman to wear men's pants? Yes, you would say. Then what is the harm if you wear female garments? These are all man made rules. As long as you do not hurt yourself or any one else, you can wear anything you like. But Society defines what we are, who we are and what others think of us, by the clothes we wear.

The problem is when you cannot have a climax unless you wear woman's clothes. In this case you will limit your sexual freedom and experience. It is not the wearing of the panties that is a problem, it is your craving for it that is. Are you under some sort of stress and do not want to face the world like a man?

Have you thought about your future married life? Not many women will welcome you wearing their underwear. Women begin to fear that their partner may be gay. This may involve hiding this fact from your partner, which can destroy a marriage or a relationship. Guilt can destroy a marriage. 

answered Aug 12, 2013 by longhands1 (78,260 points)
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You dont need a psychiatrist, talk to us with proper logic first, then talk to whom ever you want to. 

I found one line pretty funny, you dont feel comfortable with men's undergarments, they give rash and female one you feel okay. How is that possible if both are from cotton? You cant have allergy on one cotton and not the other cotton.

Yes it will be embarassing if get caught, but only when you clain you are straight and come with some more funny logic like the above one. You need a bit help from us, but mostly from your ownself.  I am talking on some small issues, get the reply from there.

1. You said you are straight, what gives you that confidence? Have you had sex with female and lijed that? Have you had sex with male and didnot like that? 

2. Your intention to wear female undergarments, thats alomost a sure shot to call one as cross dresser or transvestite. All transvestite are not gay, but most of them are. And again a few guys love to wear female clothes occassionally who are straight, but that gives them a good hardon thinking of some girls. They are not gay or transvestite, its a occaissional issue and they can control that too. Your wearing at home says you are not in control.

3. Being transvestite is not shemale or transexual, but most cases they have the trend of being a gay and a bottom. Unless you mention your sex exploration, we cant say the rest.

4. There are people who have the same habit like you, but they do it discreetly.  If you can do the same way, go ahead till you are spotted by someone. Trust me, that will be too awkward, rather someone claiming he is gay, thats less awkward. 

Whatevr you are whoever you are, look at yourself and try to accept yourself or give up the habit. Taking a place in the middle is never a good approach.  I have a feeling you want to come out of this habit, and thats why you pointed your own problems. Thats a good sign that you know what you are doing is not right.  Its not a question or right or wrong, its more of a concern of how you place yourself to others and how you are perceived.

You sure can wear girls clothes, thats no issue, but leading a dual life of a man in the day outside and a girl at home at night, thats dual character you are playing. That you need to stop.


I missed out, adding here:

male undergarments and female undergarments are not similar. For male, there is a space for scrotum to stay with ease, the dick can be kept downward, upward or sideway. For girl, there is no concern for crotch area, it sure will give extra pressure to your scrotum. Do you know what that mean? It means scrotum will give a pressure to your testes, which is responsible for create sperms. Scrotum keeps the testes lower than body tenperature. If both get pressure, you may, I repeat, you may have some issue later in terms of quality sperm production. 

answered Aug 13, 2013 by oye (25,670 points)
edited Aug 13, 2013 by oye
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From this question, all I could extract that it's not the matter of rashes but your choice and your likes. When you wear females' clothes, it is okay to you but wearing males' clothes give you rashes. Oh man, think again. Comfort on wearing a cloth depends on its quality, not on for whom it is made. And you don't need consult a psychiatrist but a skin expert. Don't tell him that you wear what but tell him that wearing this cause you rashes and  surely he will suggest what to wear.
Now, as said above, I think you love to wear females' clothes and you're not realizing it. No, it's not bad. It's not abnormal but maybe unusual. And it these clothes are made up of good material, surely it won't cause your genitals any harm. So, carry on but yeah be hideous 'cause if you're caught, then yeah, you may feel embrassed.
answered Aug 13, 2013 by raaz67 (835 points)
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just curious..

What is your mom's /sis's reaction, when you have to put your clothes for washing ?

The only reason i can think of is, your skin is too soft for a guy. are you one of those guys who go around carrying an umbrealla , to avoid sun rays ?

If your skin is so soft that you get rashes wearing mens clothese, you might have some serious medical problems. Better consult a doctor/ skin specialist
answered Aug 13, 2013 by blindMan (1,035 points)
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I’m surprised you mentioned you get rashes using men’s underwear while face no such things sporting women underwear’s because both are made of the same materials, cotton and fabrics.

To answer to the point, yes it would look odd or even weird when someone gets to know of your habit; btw, how do you manage to get these panties washed at home? Doesn’t your mom ask you something about it? And when your girlfriend or wife comes to know of your habit, she might have second thoughts about you and might term you a cross dresser or even a pervert.

If you wear them for only the comfort, I would ask you to go through all the brands of men’s underwear’s because there could be at least a single brand to serve your purpose of comfort. If its the material thats causing you the rash, consult a dermatologist and get this fixed up because it doesn’t look good and you would surely be embarrassed when people get to know your secret.

Besides, the male briefs provide a space for the testicles to hold firm yet soft while with the female panties, I don’t think you can enjoy this comfort as your scrotum would be tight and packed. This can’t be good for your testicles and you might face an issue in your future married/sex life, so think about it.

answered Aug 13, 2013 by Invincible (12,550 points)
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No need to worry. I would support you in this case. It's your will and wish on how you are willing to lead your life.

Btw, you're a crossdresser. I have seen most of the guys are straight and doesn't like to date a boy. I hope the same case applies to you as well.

There is no problem in wearing female clothing. In any way it doesn't cause any problem to your body. I have seen many crossdressers here who just think they are doing it for fun. They just want to dress as a girl and they think they look cute (Of course they are).
answered Aug 13, 2013 by Robert665 (105 points)
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Hi Rober,

Its clearly an interest in cross-dressing.Clothing does not dictate one's sexual orientation nor does it make him any less of a man. If anything the man who enjoys wearing panties full time has confidence and knows himself, and what he likes. You'd actually be surprised at how many men out there rock panties on a daily basis.Your obsessive thinking about wearing women's panties can drive you crazy.If you are constantly thinking about wearing women's panties, this means you have an obsessive thought problem.
answered Aug 14, 2013 by srajesh (1,135 points)
commented Sep 16, 2013 by roberjones (120 points)
moved Sep 16, 2013 by longhands1
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I m male. before 3 years  I also wear men brief ( v Cut type )underwear  and i also got lots off rashes so I start to wear boxers also but still i got rashes on my thigh , so I start to wear women panties and its realy very very comfortable. Here most off says that both are made up off cotton so their should not be problem (rashesh ) but for informetion men underwear are made up off thick cotton  and women panties are made up off very very thin cotton not all but most. Even men underwear elastic also is very thick for rashes n women panties elastic also is very very thin and its lots cofertable. I 100℅ agree with Robert Jones ( question asker ) that men underwear r the reason for rashesh because I had personel experience. So I wear panties but  one size more that mins if my size is 90cm I bought 95 cm women panties for more comfortable. In women panties their r more varieties then men underwear,  like bikini..boy shot..hipster n made up off saveral material like ..elastatne.cotton..polimide n have sexy colurs
I know that I m cross dresser ..but I tried all type off underwear like boxers n v cut but all times rashes.
But when I go for sweeming n with my friend  at that time I wear men underwear n that day I get rashesh n aply cream n all stuff. I keep this secrets. As I wash even in bathroom when taking shower n keep drying in my personel kabbad.still I not caught by any one.thank God .
answered Oct 10, 2016 by vishalpatil (310 points)

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