Dude! From the way u wrote the question, i presume ur marriage is arranged..
So its always better for u to get to know her fully before u get physical.. First of all, before marriage, u better get to know her fully.. Her nature.. Her character.. Then u think of talking about sex.. First of all analyse her and u proceed accordingly.. If she feels comfy with u, she will open the topic of sex.. So wait till that moment.. U can very well discuss with her the future plans and her expectations in bed..
Now coming to ur questions-
1. To satisfy her in the first go is a very tough thing.. Coz if she is a virgin, penetration will be a tedious task.. I would advice u to take things really slowly, i.e first do a lot of foreplay.. Explore her body and find her pleasure points.. Use them to stimulate her to the peak.. Next when she is horny, and her pussy is lubed completely with her vaginal juices, use a lot of water based lube and try inserting ur penis.. U must be gentle and slow and insert it inch by inch.. When completely in, wait for some time and then u start with gentle strokes.. If at any point if she feels pain, stop and resume gently after a while.. If u can hold long enough while having sex, u can give her an orgasm, leaving her satisfied..
2. As i said already above, analyse her character and then talk about sex..
3. If she is ok with u licking her pussy, u can do it.. If she feels disgusted, just tell her that its fine and convince her.. Dont force her for it..
4. More than satisfaction, first night is a bondage between married couples.. Its the time they get intimate.. Its just not about having sex.. Its more.. Guess u r not so matured for a 24 year old.. Coz for ur age, the desperation for sex during first night would have been long gone.. No offense dude..
And finally, what ever u do, dont compel her for anything.. Coz remember first impression as always the best..
All the best..:)