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Is thickness is more important than length?

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Hello members!

Once again an incomplete question arises in my mind.Last night WE (husband & wife) were discussing about some sex topics.And My husband told me that Penis Thickness is more important than length.

Now as most of the members here are men so they can easily authenticate the same with a valid reason too.

asked Feb 29, 2012 in Discussions by savita (1,661 points)
edited Feb 29, 2012 by Anjali

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yaar, you made me confused. You are a married lady. Probably you and your hubby trust in breaking the bed all the night.

You can tell this more efficiently that what type of dick is satisfactory to you??

my opinion is about satisfaction. If you are satisfied with your partner then dick size is no concern.
answered Feb 29, 2012 by akk0907 (3,145 points)
Yes, a good reply indeed & I am well satisfied with him.It was just a question which I want to ask just as a craze.
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Savitaji the size or the thickness of cock does not matter, it is how you use it is important...so as akk0907 has adviced; when you are satisfied with your husband donot indulg into such inquiries. Just enjoy and be happy.
answered Feb 29, 2012 by harshad51 (167 points)
Yes, I do & regard for ur reply dude!
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In general situation I would have given a reply on my way. But after seeing Anjali ji's 10 female toys, I wonder, whats the use of having a fixed cock which is hanging between our leg? Isnt it better to have portable and different options in hand which is at your closet or purse?

You have all option open based on your mood.  Thin Thick, long short, ugly, double trouble, the list goes on and on.....

But good to see you are talking sex with your husband, it seemed to me you were too shy to talk sex with your husband before.
answered Feb 29, 2012 by oye (29,102 points)
Good Judgement Oye.
Yes ,Now I start talking with him for the best of my knowledge.
Really somethings we learn late but their results are awesome.
Good to see you are talking now. So did you ask your an to come to AskAnjali and try contributing with his experience? We might learn something.

What do you do when you ask him something and when you reply, if he asks you where did you learn all these?  Ever mentioned Anjali Ji is helping you learn new things?
Well, one day I showed this site to him but as You know there are many lousy questions are here like fuck a son to his mom so my hubby took the bad impression & ordered me not to visit such sites.But as I am lady of patience & cool minded so I am regularly visit here to prove to the members that each & every member is not a mamuni.
And You know oye now this site is a secret visit & at his questions that where I got all this knowledge I simply says that its all from the TOI articles.Let it be a secret na?
So you are not being truthful to your husband. Today you are cheating on the source of knowledge, tomorrow you will cheat on kissing someone, the day after, may be the full course.  Cheating doesnot mean just having sex, when you are not being truthful, thats cheating too. Copying in exam is also cheating.

Whether your husband doesnot like something is his wish, if you like is your wish. If he doesnot want you to visit AAA, then don't. But stay truthful. If you keep visiting and learn new thing, later your husband finds its not in TOI, thats another lie you have to come up with. Either be truthful, or cheating will keep inviting an more.

We people here dont expect anything in return, no money, no appreciation, no thanks. All we care about is help one another and no personal attack. Some people even use this site to learn how to talk right or write correct grammar (I saw that mail before)  If you are learning something, why you have to lie to your husband?  Take a decision on how you will be removing this secret.
Oye,Don't you think that all the bachelors here are too cheating their parents as thay too are not telling the truth that they are the visitors of this site.And being a male they are the decision makers so they will not be considered as a cheater regarding this.

And I am only a cheater of knowledge but what about you..........?
Are you telling each & every activity of yours to your wife even you cheat her in the physical terms too.
Dont think of me, if there is someone wants to do a doctorate on cheating, I can be his/her supervisor.

Dont drag yourself down on my level, Savita.
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Neither thickness nor lenght matters, what is really important is how to make your partner happy and make her reach orgasm.

Do admit that they have their share of contribution , but what the use a person has a penis size of a horse but cannot make her partner reach orgasm.

For me love making techniques are the most important.
answered Feb 29, 2012 by dan (2,628 points)
Yes, I too feel that the love making techniques are the best one to make someone forever.
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What i feel is neither length not thickness matters.. Its the quality of sex we give to the female that matters... Coz if i guy has a 7 inch long and 4 inch circumferance dick and can last only for 5 mins, there is no use.. The woman will be unsatisfied..
The same way if a guy has a 4 inch long and 2 and half inch circumferance dick and can last till the girl gets 3 orgasms, which girl wouldnt want him??
As i always say "nice men finish last because they make their women come first..!!"
So chuck the size and see the duration a guy can last..
answered Feb 29, 2012 by hades (2,884 points)
Well said hades
No doubt..........Duration is the most preferable one which a women always likes.
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The view differes from person to person.

However some ladies do prefer length more,

proof : every where its comparison of lenghts , nobody compares width..

but width cannot be neglected also ...
answered Feb 29, 2012 by manan (1,567 points)
Yes, may be what exactly he wants to say that the width plays its own role
thank you Savita ji :D
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Hi
Every1 is  saying that size doesn't matter,its the quality of sex which matters..are u able to satisfy her..make her reach orgasm and all this has least to do with the thickness of penis. Coz u are having sex with ur wife,who takes only ur dick but the situation is totally different if a women is having sex with multiple partners for her thickness does matter ..infact mattrs alot..she won't be having the felling of fullfilness evry tym she gets a thin cock,and she wud definately wnt more to get satisfied
answered Feb 29, 2012 by cry (1,375 points)
A true women likes only what his hub has..........no matter the shape,size & colour.
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Dear Savita,

Here I recollect a two liner & a good joke, heard in my school days,which may be a fitting reply to your query. So, here it goes:

1. Aurat ko chaiye na Taj aur Takht,
    Usse toh chaiye Sakht aur Mota Lund - I mean 'Hard & thick Penis'.

2. Newly married Husband to his wife on their first night: Tumko hairan
    karon ya Pareshan?

    Wife: Hairan karoh...

    Husband opened his pant & took out his 12 inch Penis to the surprise
    of his wife.

    Wife: Ab Pareshan karoh...

    Husband: Yeh khada nahi hota hai... - It does not get erect.

Good, you put up this question which will keep creeping up time & again as the time progresses & the teens are in the pipeline to come up with such questions and hear the answers from the 'Horse Mouth' to their satisfaction.

Regards,

Phoolwati
answered Feb 29, 2012 by phoolwati (307 points)
So your school days thoughts...........No doubt a proverb about a woman concern.
Made me laugh...........Ha...ha.....Ha.
No hairan , no pareshan ........the only thing is to do samman.
Hi Savita!

It's good that I could stir an answer from you... a Ha. .Ha. .Ha......

That connects me to another joke about Bill Gates who, when got married, asked his wife after their first honeymoon night, 'Kaisa Laga?'.

His wife replied: Ab Mujhe pata laga ki Tumne apni company ka naam 'Microsoft' kyon rakha hai.

Ok, you may keep interacting 'Kyon ki baat mein se baat nikalti hai' for an exposure, a learning and sharpening of one's skill to the presence of mind quotes.

Regards,

Phoolwati
Phoolwati

Can you please follow others? We are using same language for everyone's understanding. Thats in English.

And here are people from different countries and different states of India.  All doesnot understand your Joke or Shaeri.
Hi dear!

Sorry, I got your point & will remember to use common language 'English'.

Regards,

Phoolwati
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It's more like Height : weight ration :-) . like BMI .

A long penis can look very impressive.

A thick penis is best for performance.

If u have got both . BINGO

Thanks
Rajesh <DELETED>
answered Feb 29, 2012 by srajesh (614 points)
edited Mar 1, 2012 by land crusier
Yes, Bingo are the best snacks for the teens.
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nothing is more important the most important thing is that u love her and u want to satisfy her thats it  even 2 inch long and 1 inch think penis is enough to satisfy women
answered Feb 29, 2012 by drsam (193 points)
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Okay Savita, replying again.

See, on a great sex, size is the third important part. Almost 80% of your great sex depends on the mental attachment, the person you are with. 15% remains on his flawless technique, how he makes you reach orgasm and the rest 5% on the size of his dick.

I have to keep this 5% because there are few woman who cant even get an orgasm with rubbing clit or G-Spot, they need a A-spot stimulation, which is at the very depth called anterior spot. This A spot is close to cervix and only a long dick can stimulate.

Now on girth and length. Your husband may be right, keep faith on him as he is your husband. But from our understanding, girth is not that important as a vagina is a cylinderical tube, which can easyly expant sideways but cant go lengthwise. A thin or thick dick, can easily be accomodated, but a small dick on a deep vagina doesnot reach.

Remember what I said before, two third inside of a vagina is without any sensitiveness, one operation can be done without any anesthetic. but on the depth where A spot is, close to cervix, thats sensitive. Its not on posterior wall, rather its on the front. Someday try with a large dildo, you can feel that spot.  

While asking you to beleive your husband, I have to say, he is not right on his statement. Size on girth wise doesnot matter, its the person that matters, then the technique, and finally the length that matters.
answered Mar 1, 2012 by oye (29,102 points)
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Techniques of intercourse is more impornat than length or thickness of penis.
answered Mar 1, 2012 by zena69 (1,272 points)
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neither of them.... it`s stamina and the way of using the cock is important and also the orgasm factor too. I always give women orgasm first before shooting my load in her. making an women orgasm wow! not easy... as far as penis is concerned average would be better.

don`t under estimate foreplay, it is the life blood of sex which helps in getting hot....
answered Mar 1, 2012 by xpktv2000 (3,739 points)
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length and circumstance both are Important but if your husband has well performer on bad he can easily satisfied u with his single finger sexual satisfaction basically depend on performance how long time you can are taking in your orgasm and your husband is giving how much time to you. Vagina is very flexible and sensitive nurve penis size is not matter.
answered Mar 1, 2012 by kingmyaqueen (1,170 points)
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Yes yar obiviously.. The size matters very well because size can satisfy not that much length
answered Mar 18, 2012 by Shyam889 (110 points)
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savita,
I remember reading about a research into women's perceptions of sexual satisfaction considered by penis size and width. Fifty sexually active women aged between 18 and 25 years old were asked, "In having sex, which feels better, length of penis or width of penis?" No consideration was given to issues like love, physical attractiveness or romantic feelings.

The survey found:
Most of the 50 women said that width was more important than length.
Only 5 women reported length felt better than width. In fact, a long penis can cause discomfort.
None of the women said that size and width were equally important.
None of the women said they did not know.

This I hope will answer your question.
There are a number of reasons why penis width could be described as more sexually satisfying by women. First, the width of the penis at the base may be more stimulating to the clitoris. Also a wide penis gives a woman a 'greater feeling of fullness' and is therefore physically and psychologically more satisfying.
answered Mar 18, 2012 by longhands1 (9,831 points)
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I think your relation is big matter how much love you each other this is Important when you really love to your partner you want to make him/her happy at any cost and this attitude bring lot of happiness and joy in your sexual life as per my experience love and care play major role.Size and thickness is god gifted you can't' change that but rest of that everything is in your hand.
answered Mar 18, 2012 by kingmyaqueen (1,170 points)
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Savita ji what would you prefer,hieght or width.Are you satisfied with your husbands dick?An average size dick fucking hard is best one.
answered Mar 18, 2012 by Khurram kamal (650 points)
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Dear Savita,

My answer will be simple, when you go for a battle it doesn't matter how big weapon you are carrying, the only thing matters is how expert you are using your own weapon. Like someone carrying an AK47 and do not have enough experience to handle it, someone else having a small pistol can kill him. So whats there is size, the only thing is that how expert you are to use the weapon in bed, like innovation, sex in your parking, in your kitchen, in a swimming pool, good foreplay will satisfy you more than a big or thick size tool.
answered Mar 19, 2012 by roul_30 (120 points)
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dear savita first of all hats of to you for being so open with such a question admire you and second to all the people who answered this is really a morale boost to know that size is not all that matters as u see in movies and adds how they potray it in the wrong way ,this question has always been a great pain fr me thanks again
answered Mar 21, 2012 by parik89 (2,019 points)
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hi dear,

i think thickness is equally important with lenght of penis......
answered Apr 7, 2012 by hotran (130 points)
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both are important in sex...
long and thick penis love all girls in bed..
i need always long one..
for sucking and fucking long penis are the best...
answered Apr 7, 2012 by palak7879 (373 points)
lengthy one penetrates deeper,which is liked by many women.Thicker one's can increase the tightness,which is liked by most men,as,tightness increases the lead time !
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