Is this something like Seducing?

Question

Hi All,

I am maala and age is 25 and I am in love with my BF, he is 26 yrs. He stays at his bhabhi' home and she is about 40 years and a widow. He says that when he is at home, she does not care about her attire and she changes her saree in front of him, sometimes he says that he finds her panties under his pillow.

He complained this one, I am also thinking what it indicates? is she seducing him or any sort of her negligence should be set right because I am going to marry my BF in another 5-6 months after my post graduation.

Comments

Maala ,If it is true then tell ur BF to  leave her and stay somewhere.

Answer 1

Changing clothes in frnt of ur boyfrnd doesn't mean she is seducing but findng her undrgarmnts undr his pillow does point out that sumthng is going in her mind... She being a widow,it might b possible that shes trying to seduce ur boyfrnd..bettr u tell him to leave her and stay sumwhr else

Answer 2

You are really going to marry with him then why you are in doubt big age difference between them it could be general behave changing the sharee and keep panty under the pillow it may be she feel like family member daily activity and she is not taking in other sence if she will take any wrong step or try to touch him then u can blame her not to worry marry with him as soon as possible when ur life start naturally u will involved with each other and your total problem solve immediate.

Answer 3

Hi Maala, welcome to the site, your question reminds me a girl we had named Madhu who asked the similar question. She had a habit of asking questions with similar plot and diverse thoughts. Quite creative she was. Anyway you are 25, old enough to know the reply of the question. I dont think the widow is seducing him, she is inviting him, your boyfriend is dumb to not getting the message or he is shrewd enough who is having fun, but pretending dumb to you to gain trust. In your relationship one will always remain dumb for long.

Answer 4

hi oye, are u telling tht my bf is acting that he is very gud in my eyes?

Answer 5

The panties do suggest something...Bhabhi seems to be desperate for a man's touch.
If you trust him, ask him to play along with her and if she's really into him, he should confront her in a nice way and tell his problems.

Also after reading Oye's comment, i do tend to agree with him...ur BF is not so dumb, is he? Maybe he is playing this to make you like him even more...this is a better possibility.

Answer 6

Dear Maala,

Your boy friend may not be serious and just joking to make you worried.

You need not worry on this count unless you get married, start living with them and keep a watch on his Bhabhi's actions.

What is the guarantee that he is not having affair elsewhere as of now and he just tend to prove himself to you that he is a 'Dumbo' and does not catch hints given by other ladies.

It can not be denied by all females on this earth that they wish their husbands to be great in bed but won't allow them to practice elsewhere.

So, unless you get married, you need not worry & let him sharpen his skills of love making so that you don't get disappointed/distracted later but then you also give him so much love in return, for him to remain faithful to you.

Regards,

Phoolwati

Answer 7

dear frends, this forum is really an eye opener, today also my bf said samething n i asked him directly what he is feeling after seeing panty?,he said nothing. is he really prooving his innocence or impressing me? I told him to change his staying atleast few months till our marriage. He says he wont leave his bhabhi alone. I think i have to be very cautious, pls suggest me.

Answer 8

Dear Maala,

Oye and Vagabond are correct here. When I use to seduce my GF I have to speak something sexy. right.. to get you into mood, and as soon as I read the question I know ur BF is fouling you. Dont lose your viriginity(If you have. Sorry no offence though) to him before marraige.

I remember how I tried with my gf's. I used to tell them they are sexy, sometimes I will scold them unnecessary and when they ask me why I am scolding I will blankly tell them to dress properly. At last with one GF I made so much attempts that I was able to grab her tits.

May be your BF is also trying it on you. But I seriously say if he is trying to get you, he could have mocked up a story with his 21 yr old aunty daughter than a 40 yr old bhabhi...Lolz...

Answer 9

Dear All, thank you for timely suggestions and advising me in a right manner to know the other side of my boy friend intention, I owe a lot to this site for giving me an opportunity to come up my doubts and questions to share. But I cant say in a same breath that my BF is fouling or fishing up, because he was with me for almost 1 year. But I have to keep a vigil on him and his character, is he making any excuse or making any sort of approaching towards me in other way. I have to be careful. Today, i did not ask anything but he started this topic saying today also his bhabhi left panty near his socks and asked him to bring it to her when she was bathing, I dont know how a woman of age 40 plus can behave like this. He might be using his bhabhi episode to impress me. or his bhabhi is like that?.. Anyway I will go to his home on good gesture visit to see how she behaves. He says that with eveyone like neighbor or relatives when they are around her she behaves very normally and politely but when bhabhi and my BF are both in home, she behaves like this. Please suggest me to come to a conclusion before I repent. Everyday he says this and that to me and I am really thinking that whats the intention of telling all these to me. Like Mr Vagabond or others suggesting that he is acting.

Answer 10

ur bf is trying to make himself innocent in front of u.i think he is telling u a story,n everyday adding some more thoughts........thats all.marry him as soon as possible to avoid such accidents which may happen if he s true.....

Answer 11

Dear Maala,

Looks like we are making a mess here by giving you a clue that your boyfriend might be fooling around. In reality, he might be a nice gentleman who loves you with all his heart and share every details with you. Dont start having a suspicious mind just because we are talking crap here. We are experienced people, we are always cautious about what happens and why happens, and we are always ready for the worst to face. But our intention is not to make you suspicious and keep checking on your boyfriend.

Please dont spoil much time on these thoughts, if he is a cheat, it will come out. If he is not, why watching out everyday on his routine?  Treat someone as innocent till he proves guilty, dont consider someone guilty till proves innocent.

But truly speaking, I can share my thought only, amoung you two, either one or both are dumb. He is dumb to talk all and you are dumb to believe. Or he is cleaver to make himself desired, that you are acting dumb to fall for him. Or he is dumb to think too much fantasy to share and you are looking for a reason to dump him. Whatever the case is, you are the judge on your relationship, a lady of 25 can judge on her own, doesnot requires people like us to help.

Comments

oye ! AT LAST U CAUGHT IT RIGHT. it seems to be just a good time pass story.
I  definitely enjoyed that.