How to make my husband to have interest in sex ?

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Hi Anjali mam and AA members ,

I am a 26 year old married woman, my sexual life is getting to an end please help me out please give ur valuable suggestion and tips to seduce my husband since he is not interested in having sex . my hubby age is 30 .
he is having lot of tensions in office ,and he suddenly lost interest in sex.
because of pressure .his penis is not geeting harder any more .please suggest me

Thanks.

asked Feb 22 in Questions by sindu (126 points)
edited Feb 22 by sindu

Dear sindu , this type of questions has been asked so many time and so many good responses have been made , please go the the search engine and read similar post you will have a better idea how to deal with your problem.

commented Feb 22 by dan (2,148 points)

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You need to clear a question. Our job is to talk about a solution, with half info, we can't suggest anything. Here our job is not to tell you all good thing or give comfort feeling.

The first thing to know is how long you are married, what's his age, did you have a good sex life before, what happened that he doesnot get to you. Add some info on if he is onto some other lady or he suspects that you are on some other guy, he is any work trouble, physically sick, impotent, attracted to male or whatever is relevent. Complete all the info, trust me, we intentionally dont judge people, we try to find a solution only.

With limited info, all I can say is, may be you are not attracting him mentally and physically enough. If you need to focus something, that would be on mental bond. physical will follow. But if you think a relationship can go great with great sex life, thats a mistake. Your first job is complete the info asked, and second job is soul searching, what made him drag him apart from you.

answered Feb 22 by oye (21,620 points)

if you will see below there is an one line answer arent you going to do something or i am your favorite candidate

commented Feb 23 by xpktv2000 (2,154 points)

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so what makes an entity fell attracted towards other entity...or how to make others feel attracted towards you....what process or techniques is to be used...is situation also an condition which makes a person feel attracted..or what else could be the reason. or we can also say it is an time factor. what else?

answered Feb 22 by xpktv2000 (2,154 points)
edited Feb 23 by xpktv2000

XPKTV,
this forum is to give geniune advice not to advice members to do obscene activities.if you can't give proper advice then don't give.its not necessary for you to answer every question just to gather points.
be careful in future.

commented Feb 23 by silentmonk (427 points)

u just flagged my good response silent not expected from you
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commented Feb 23 by xpktv2000 (2,154 points)

you now edited your answer after getting flag and comment.don't try to act smart which you are not.
because in comment to Oye you have asked him to take some action on your one line answer which i had done at that time.
this is last warning from mine end to stop your nonsense activities or else i have to report about you to superteradmin and moderatorswho are ignoring your activities till date.

commented Feb 23 by silentmonk (427 points)

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Dear Sindu,

Are you looking out for an answer (advice) from us that you want to hear?

How do you expect us to answer, unless you tell us more. Was this an arranged marriage or a love marriage? If the latter, was he interested in sex earlier?

If arranged, was he forced into this marriage? He could be gay.

Is there something of your past that you have told him, that has created a mental block? Are you working or a housewife? Are you staying in a joint family or a nuclear one?

We can only guess, till you tell us more about the two of you.

answered Feb 22 by longhands1 (2,043 points)

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sindhu,

If u can post some more details such as why ur husband is not happy in sex, his age, any medical problems, is he having any relationship outside marriage etc it will help us to answer better.

Bin

answered Feb 22 by bin (1,633 points)

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Hi Sindhu,

How are you telling that he is not getting erected only because of work pressure? If he is busy with work during week days, ask him to take rest on Saturday fully. Then on Sunday you can have a cool sex. Surely he will get erected if he had enough rest.

If the work pressure is not the reason, it may be due to some other problems, please check with the relevant doctor as soon as possible.

answered Feb 22 by muthukumar1983 (451 points)

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dear sindhu...
u have said work pressure make this to not to involve in sex. offcourse. it happens for employee. but he should not bring tension to home. he should through his tension out of home.
u asked for foreplay tips..?
dear 1 thing I tell u that u r the ready made sex food for him. how can u expect tips from us .
just do one thing.. get an Indian porn movie. (download from net) u can get idea that make u do more oral sex.
Sensation does matter.. so touch him wit romantic mood. let him to dress u up. make him tempt. and finally its depending on u to handle. use vulgar words in oral sex that may help him to get harm erection.

answered Feb 23 by raj009 (739 points)

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Work pressure causes this type of problem, specially if he is in trouble, like facing a charge to be fired, any cost cut or bad performance in office.

Sex is physical, but its more than 80% mental presence and 20% physical act. If he is too much under pressure, anything is possible.

You can let him take rest and relax. The foreplay may or maynot work if he is bogged down. I suggest to talk to him one on one to understand what is wrong. If its not work pressure only, there can be umber of other resons, starting from loving someone else to sexual orientation even not find you attractive or you are not meeting his secret wish. You can find by talking or if he doesnot open up, go for a sex therapist for a couple counselling.

answered Feb 23 by oye (21,620 points)

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for this you have to be very carefull, as your husband might loose interest in sex with you, then you have to choose for a temporary man and i dont think this will solve your problem, as i advised you that show your body at night i mean sometime naked you sleep with your husband and see happen

answered Feb 26 by dennis (105 points)

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Add food's which spice up sex
Go for a make over make urself lookin hot & sexy
plan for a honeymoon
Getting some sexual boosters / Tentex forte can help
Have a shower together in early morning rite time to make out
Try different positions and places for sex .
Get a bikini waxing done to be more silky sexy looks
Join a dance class or dance together
Play strip tease

THis can spice up married life

Thanks
Rajesh

answered Mar 1 by srajesh (197 points)
edited Mar 1 by oye

You have been warned before not to put ID, next time it should not be repeated.

Else, your answer wont be approved.

commented Mar 1 by oye (21,620 points)

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