How to stop my hubby having sex with me?

Question

Hi Anjali Mam and AA members,

I'm 30 yrs old  women,married 12 yrs ago, and now I am no longer interested in having sexual relationship , how to convince my husband not have sex with me.

Please help

Comments

dont you think you are doing a mistake... if you stop him having sex with your he will loose interest on you and will start searching another alternative of you...or simply tell him

"i hare you get lost you sex freak moron"
he will understand everything you are going through...

good luck

Answer 1

This is an incomplete question.

You have to mention the reason, if he is unable, forceful, having EMA or what. What about you, you are having someone, feel pain whatever. Unless you complete the question with your husband's sex nature and your no interest with your husband, replying is not possible.

Law is not exactly in your side. If dont want to have sex, you can divorce him, what is going to be your reason? If he divorce, at least can say you are not cooperating on conjugal life.

Pleae complete the question with background and reason, let us tell what you can or should do. Till than, the only option you have is seek for a divorce saying you are incapable to have a conjugal relationship.

Answer 2

Dear vavaejai,
                      although law is on your side.legally you can stop your hubby getting physical with you but thats not gonna solve the problem.it will just strain the relationships.
try to talk to him and better both of you visit a sexologist or psyhologist for counselling.
you can get better suggestions if you can clearly mention the reasons for your disinterest in having sex with your hubby.

god bless

Answer 3

u are lucky because he loves u lot. don't say suddenly to stop sex,reduce it slowly.because he may think that you did not like him.i think u can't stop it fully,just reduce it.u want to talk to him and made him understand.      all the best

Answer 4

I have some query first u did't tell us why sudden your interest become less toward physical relation. Try to find out the reasion why this thing happening to you. your age is not much more in this age u can spend good sexual relationship.just do some experiment at the time of body relation like cunning, sucking,licking if u can do these thing will be definitely boost ur sex desire.

Answer 5

Your post is so short that it is difficult to discuss anything on your issue.....

You are just 30 years old!! And just at 30,you lost your libido!! Why,I wonder!!! I have seen women whose libido increases as they grow older!! But in your case,it has gone to the reverse position,which is not normal. Male and females can have libido above 40,which is standard...You just lost your libido 10 years before normal time!!

Anyway,discuss your want regarding sex with your husband. Talk with him about the fact that you don't want to have sex anymore!! This is the best way to do it,after all,he is your hubby; and he is the one that is gonna be deprived of sex :-(

Also,make sure that he gets his sex satisfied by someone else!!! I wonder if you are ready about the fact he could have sex with another woman,as you want to shut your sex down!!!

Comments

i am feeling sorry for your husband. You are just 30 years of age and if you dont alow your hubby to fuck you then he will surely search another women for his pleasure .At that time will you take objection for it oryou will support him?One day any woman will come and share your bed with your hubby in front of you,so at that time will you enjoy ?will support him? just think about it and allow your hubby to fuck you.