Is taking fantasy during the sex period is a wrong act?

Question

Hello members!
As we all know that sex is a game of play for both men & women.But as men mostly perform this act in front of the internet screen to watch the pornos & ejaculate.But women take time to reach for the orgasm.So it is possible for a women to take fantasy for someone else instead of his partner for an early orgasm.

Is it true that Fantasy plays an important role to get horny during sex & an easy way to release early?

Answer 1

Ya fantasy do play a very important role in sex..thinking of sum1 else wud definately make u cum early..moreover it depnds on both ,if  u both agree..u vill get one of the best orgasms and will increase the quality of sex

Answer 2

i am in favour of real sex real picture... Why imagining ducati when you ridind scooter(97 model). Is this imagining able to give a boost to your scooter. I guess no.

If you love your partner then only he should be your dream your imagination. And if he is only a fuckbuddy then make your imagination more colourful. Who cares....?

Answer 3

I am not agree with this. Fantasy is not the base of pleasure. In fact fantasy itself has no base. Its just a imagination of one's mind which allows him/her to see what he/she could not see in real world. Sexual pleasure is not based on fantasy, it is based on feeling of partners.
I have seen so many couples who are not equal in beauty. If a ugly man love her beautiful wife & give her all facilities,money,protection,sexual satisfaction & love then what this mean? Should her wife take fantasy for another handsome man instead of his hubby? Definitely NO.
Sex is a game of feeling & love not fantasy for others. Fantasying another man during sex is not key of orgasm.
So according to me fantasy is a different part of life & love is another.

Answer 4

Fantasy is an absolute inevitable for anyone. I wont say must, but its inevitable, you cant stop that.  Its in mind and none can read that.

Fantasy has two aspects, one is achievable another is unachievable. You should have achievable fantasy and never do that. That will keep you flaired up. For a man its very much okay and for a woman it sure is similar. If you are having sex with your husband and thinking of your lover, who cares? You will get horny faster, you ca enjoy better, you can be satisfied better. Just dont utter your lover's name, thats all.

Everytime we have sex, during after play, my wife asks me who she was today. I dont tell the truth but use names of celebrities. I ask the same too, and so does she. I guess both are telling a lie, but who cares, as long as the sex was good, lets go ahead with that.

Comments

D best practical answer to the question ,agreed sir

Answer 5

I don't think,fantasizing while having sex is wrong-be it for man or woman. And yes,fantasy should help to get sexually stimulated faster than normal.

It is strange that huge numbers of men find it highly arousing to only look at the visual images of naked women,even if those images are on papers of magazines or TV screens! Such people are not stupids. They know very well that what they are seeing is NOT real women,who they can touch or have sex in reality. Still,these men get sexually stimulated only by the images!!!

Now,if we let these men imagine in their minds of the naked women while having sex with their wife,then almost same stimulation will take place,and their sexual libido will be heightened.

Almost same goes with women,though women are not highly visual like men in regards to sexual stimulation. They have different sexual preferences than men. But they too love to be stimulated while having sex. In fact,stimulation is very important for a woman to get satisfaction in sex(though it is difficult to satisfy a woman's sexuality).

During fantasy,brain finds it tough to differentiate what is real and what is unreal. That is why,a male can masturbate and release sperm by fantasizing naked women,even if those women do not exist in real,but just in his brain. So,fantasy can play a very important role in stimulating sex,as through fantasy we send signals to brain to make us sexually stimulated.

Men hate monotony in sex!!! Men want spices in sex!!! So do women,though women are more sexually suppressed due to social pressure.

We can use fantasy to avoid monotony of sex and use it as a tool to stimulate our partners-be they male or female. If using vibrators to get sexual stimulation is alright,then using fantasy to get sexual stimulation should be acceptable,too!!! Fantasy is just a way to spice up our sex life.........

Answer 6

no not at all it would even add color to your sexual act.

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Your single liner reply just started.....  Remember the last time?  I deleted as I am the Point Stealer.

You agreed to complete your thought, not a single liner.

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hy are you expecting me to write a book on it

no no no well i think you and other like you are taking away the points of other users so this will help you to stay on top... right !! that is what you are trying to say????

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Notbook, a complete well thought reply.

Interesting, you think I steal away points? From ayou? I dont write for points myself. If  tthe point is made to zero for Oye, still I will get to that spot, without non sense question like someone and without one liner reply like someone. AskAnjali.com is my homepage, its to hard to stay away from Anjali M.

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i am not like to to write long lengthy para to attract other users i always keep it shor and simple rather than making it complicated ....smuck that