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Is feeling horny everyday is bad...????

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Hii Anjali Aunty,

I m 24 male from bhopal. My problem is that I am very very horny boy.
I am a virgin and think of sex day and night. I like being naughty around females specially mature womens. I dont know if it is a fetish or not but i like to think about married womens as sex partner. I masturebate a lot thinking of married nude womens.

I sometimes feel terrible for my thoughts but i dont know how to control my feelings for them. Is it really bad for a mature boy like me to think about having sex with another married women...??? I am not incest as i dont think to have sex with my bhabhi or mom but still I think of other married womens specially lonely housewifes. Does that make me a bad person...??? I never tried to achieve such thing forcefully and I will never do that as I dont like rape or crimes like that... Please tell me what to do....???

One more thing plz dont give advice to get marry soon because it wont work as my fantasy is of different kind...
closed with the note: Closed as old Post
asked Feb 20, 2012 in Questions by rishabh_bhopal121 (125 points)
closed Jun 20 by longhands1

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well dude yep thinking horny everyday is really bad most importantly because you won`t be able to convert those thinking into reality due to societal restrictions so ultimately you will end up eating away your precious time on this useless things and also you will loose interest in other activity which are important for you. so it is better for you to snap out of this and better get along with your daily activities but to mood you up if however you are getting any chance to convert those wild dreams into reality then take those chances taking into considerations all the given prons and cons

Good Luck
:-)
answered Feb 20, 2012 by xpktv2000 (3,092 points)
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Thinking about sex is normal & specially in this age. But always thinking about sex is not good for you because due to this you will feel lack of concentration in your another daily routine activities like study,job & many more. So try to control this. But I know its not a easy task to tie a bell on cat. For a 24 years old let your tool enjoy the heavenly pleasure of sex. But don't jump on mature ladies because a few lucky guys got this chance else got slaps.
Solution for you: Find a girl of your age. Love her care for her let her understand you. The feeling of love has power to control all these kind of fantasy feelings.
answered Feb 20, 2012 by ronnie (848 points)
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Human being is the most sexual creature on earth. It is found that on average,a human thinks about sex every 20 minutes(consciously or unconsciously). For males,it is around 10 minutes. Also,the younger you are,the hornier you will be!!

Now,your horniness is not a bad thing. Don't feel guilty or hesitant about your sexuality. It is as natural as any other things in life. Take it easy,take sex as fun. As long as your sexual fantasies or activities are not extreme and harmful in nature for you and other,you can enjoy it to the full extent.......... ;-)
answered Feb 20, 2012 by elitely (610 points)
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You seems to be a perfectly healthy man who has urge on women.  Even for elder woman, still is okay.

As long as the conset is there, at 24, hardly anyone is available who is a virgin.

Its the hormone and time that is make you go banana. And little bit less busy in work is adding extra idle sex fantasy time.   Live with it, have a girl friend. I hope you are not that ugly not to get a fuck buddy. If cant hold, hire a callgirl and see what you can really do.  Try spent less time on porno.

And next time you ask a question, do ask. Dont add up all those clauses like what to say what not to say.
answered Feb 21, 2012 by oye (27,125 points)
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