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Can I tell this to my parents?

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Hello all,

I am 20years old. i am studying. my parents are doing small real estate business so a lot of time they wont be at home. few days ago i came early from my collage. i hear a some unwanted sounds came from  my brother's room. the door was open. i didn't go to  inside i just saw the inside the room. i shocked because  my elder brother (24)  and my elder sister (22) in the bed. they didn't see me. at that time they both were in uncontrol mood.  

I didn't say this happen to anyone. can I tell this to my parents?

asked Feb 12 in Questions by jo1 (120 points)
edited Feb 16 by Anjali Aunty
Plz dont tell to yours parents it may create a big problem in your family which you never imagine , do some thins
1. Do not leave them alone.
2.Discuss your brother or sister and say them to stop it .
3.Warn them to say all this story to your parents.
4.Escape they will try to insist you too and enjoy with them,
5.If you tell this whole story to your parents may be they will not beleive you at all.
6.So try to follow 1 or 2nd sr no.
In my opinion questions related to incest need to be closed only if the pervert doing it ask the question.
If some one ask question like this it can be answered, so that we can help them to come out of this kind of bad situations.

So to answer this question you should tell your parents, you are not matured enough to handle this situation, let your parents do it for your families well being.
Okay Pussycat next time I will keep that in mind.
I agree with these comments. Let us not bury our heads in the sand. Incest is happening. While we do not support it, we are here to guide those who need our advice. Often these people may be going through hell, with no one else they can confide in.

If it is a question asking us to encourage the participants, that should be strictly banned.
Totally agreed with bhangu sir, i think you should handle this situation by your own, it may be the risk to your parents health after knowing all these things. and ask them not to do it because its not right
Have re-open the question so that our members can give thier opinion to help  this member .
Dan,

Nice to know that the Editors are responsive. Thanks for opening a taboo subject for discussion.
Adultboyy
I do not agree. See my reply to jo1.

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Totally agreed with bhangu sir, i think you should handle this situation by your own, it may be the risk to your parents health after knowing all these things. and ask them not to do it because its not right
answered Feb 15 by adultboyy (162 points)
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its a very sad state tat own brother and sister is enjoying with each others body.

You need to speak to ur brother and sister and advice them to stop it. Tell them in controlled manner. If they try to scold u then tell them that u r going to tell ur parents abt their deeds and warn them.
Your parents might not be mentally strong to take this shock so try to solve it urself.

Bin
answered Feb 15 by bin (1,633 points)
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It has to be stopped happening again by anymeans...(you are pretty sure about the nature of that incident,right ?)

You are their younger kid.,so it would be almost impossible for you to handle alone...you may try giving them first warning alone..,but be very careful.they may harm you...

Best thing is you can secretly tell your mom about the incident..(if you are damn sure about the nature of the incident )...she is the best person to be first informed....she will know how to handle the situation and tell your dad...

They may then send them to separate places for studies or job..or may marry them separately to eligible persons of their choice...
answered Feb 15 by curioz (1,151 points)
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I don't see any reason for you to but in your nose. Both of them are adults and whatever they were doing in the room, it was none of your business to peep on them in this manner. While I may sound blasphemous to many, consensual act between 2 siblings is ok as long as they are not looking to beget any offspring. I am sure your brother and sister both know what they are indulging in and can protect themselves. Just keep mum and continue with your own work. No need to inform your parents or anyone else and cause tension within the family.
answered Feb 16 by nileshboy (150 points)
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teach them respect of relation
answered Feb 16 by soniya ki pyas (216 points)
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Dear jo1,

The fact that you have asked this question and want us to guide you shows that you care for your family.

You will not be able to counsel your siblings and will be dragged into this mess. Make one attempt to tell them what they are doing is wrong and you will have to tell your parents if they do not stop. This does not mean you should be a moral police and follow them everywhere.

If you are convinced that they are still continuing, you definitely need to take your parents into confidence. Let them handle it. Your brother and sister will deny this in front of your parents. Be prepared for this. Also they will stop interacting with you for some time.

Atleast your conscience will be clear.
answered Feb 17 by longhands1 (2,043 points)
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Brother sister relationship are never meant for sex, if they are doing wrong, they are doing wrong.

Sometimes its not our business to see something and overlook. But its your family name and pride, you should talk to your mother and spell out. Its not hard to inform her, you could tell us here, why cant you tell your mother?

Just because they are adult doesnot give a license of consenting unethical sex. As outsiders, we would love to watch such juicy story, but on your family name, your keeping quite is kind f being accompliance to a sin.

Speak up. If cant, take a print out of this page and give it to your mother.  But I wont suggest to confront your brother or sister. You cant fix these sort of problem, you are not having that age. Possiblly they will ask you to enter the group and keep mouth shut, rather than doing things right, you will be doing something much wrong.
answered Feb 17 by oye (21,620 points)
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In my view you just over look it. Don't try to tell it to your parents. However you might be interested in seeing that fucking session, try to control because at later stage you will also want to do the same thing.
answered Feb 19 by rahulsngh (187 points)
it seems that it is very knowledgeble answer
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I know incest is wrong but both are mature,let them enjoy,
dont tell anybody, even dont ask them about it.
answered Feb 23 by DON42001 (160 points)