Really confused how to handle this relation ????

Question

hi my name is maahi singhai and i am 32 years old and a divorce. i stay with my younger brother from last 2years.  from childhood me and my brother share a good relationship from childhood and i am very protective for him and this made him very open in front of me. in school also i used to fight for him . now , my brother is in a relationship with one of his colleague but i know this girl and i know that she is not right for him . she is very dominating and non caring . we live in a 2bhk apartment and sometimes i can hear them talking which i dont know why, makes me jealous. when they started their relation my brother told me instead of telling her that he is a virgin because of tight foreskin problem i was with staying with my husband then and i helped him for the surgery. now i know that they are in physical relationship and she always takes advantage of my brothers contacts and money.
i know this feeling is not right but i truly love him like all sisters do but  sometimes i think that i should tell him that she is not good for him and i should try to initiate some physical contact with him because he treats me right and i cant see them together . please tell me  should i rent another apartment and let them be as they are now because i know i will make him convince for physical relationship with me if we stay together.

Comments

I beg to differ. I dont think this is a question on incestous relationship. A Forum should encourage meaningful discussion. We need not encourage incestousness, but should provide guidance where it is immoral.

Just closing a question, because you think its incest, smacks of high handedness!  

Every sister has a protective gene towards her brother, however much or less the age difference may be. Maahi does confess her love for her brother, but this need not translate into lust. On the contrary she wants to protect him from what she thinks, is a scheming woman. She is obviously jealous and this is where we can guide her.   

ANJALI, Oye...Please note my comments.

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Think it would be better if u move out.Sorry to tell this but i think ur feeling jealous cos u dont hav a partner and ur brother has one.Staying away from them and concentrating on something else should do the trick.:)tc

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Dear Mahe69,

Obviously, your comments are meant for Maahisinghai32. You seem to have wrongly addressed it to me!!

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I agree with elitely, this question should be closed.  This is not an incest happened question, but a probable one. Read this line " i know i will make him convince for physical relationship with me if we stay together"

I dont have a sister of my own, my partents tried four times, everytime is was a boy, then they gave up. So whetehr a sister has a sexual attraction, I dont know. There are some girls, I call as my sister, I never had a feel of sex to them, so cant tell. I am sure they also dont have any lust to me too.

The questioner is more jealous than protective, thats what I felt. And add to that, she is staying there, maybe showing a gratitude of saving cost she want to place herself. That she can do with other guys too.

And if my memory doesnot betray me, I have seen a similar question before, the poster had copy pated an earlier question.