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Will AA user help stop sexual predators who go after children?

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Dear Anajali Maam and Users,

     I am a 33 married man and father of a child living in the USA.  Reason why i am posting today is because I am sick and tired of sexual predators who  go after children.  Most recently I was at a party where the there was another guest talking to some teenage girls and he touched one of the girls in wrong manner.  The girl had complained to her mother and when the mother confronted the man he said he was playing it was a joke then he again did it to another girl where I ended punching and beating the guy to a pulp.   The second girl was my niece.  

There are a lot of perverts out there we all know that.  There are a lot of Indians men who come here do things like this get caught flee back to India before they go to trial.  Like for example if you google abhilash bhaskaran predator.  You will see one such man.  What makes this more dangerous is they go back to India where I am sure he do this again and get away with it.

My question is not of a sexual nature but one to protect our children, would the AA users help stop predators?
asked Feb 11 in Discussions by cybstalker (125 points)

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Pedophilia is not at all an acceptable thing. It is immoral,unethical and illegal in many countries/society/culture.

Pedophilia is unethical,immoral because it is not an act of sex between two consenting adults. Rather,it is an act where an adult takes selfish advantage of a child that is powerless,helpless. Adults are more powerful than children emotionally,physically and sexually. Children don’t have the level of maturity to understand what is right or wrong. They don’t have the power to resist the adults physically. So,when a child is being abused sexually,it is an act of “forced sex”. And force sex is never acceptable,it is both unethical and immoral,ie,forcible rape.

Children that are abused sexually could also face extreme psychological damage. It could have very long term negative effect on a child’s body and mind. Even the abused child could become the predator themselves later in life,and victimize other children.

So,It is our high responsibility to stop and discourage Pedophilia, we must always protect the children from Pedophiles.
answered Feb 12 by elitely (613 points)
edited Feb 12 by elitely
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with your encouragement shall I forward more names to you?? I am not saying that you do something to these pedophiles in general.  All I am saying is that people do something to stop these Abhilash Bhaskarans.  With your encouragement I will post more.
answered Feb 12 by cybstalker (125 points)
You can always communicate with me to ask for any help to save children from being abused. I hate it when children are abused sexually,physically,mentally.
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Dear cybstalker..,

Paedophilia is a Perversion prevalent worldwide...because of two or three sporadic incidents,you cant generalise its prevalence upon a particular locality....

Yes Paedophile is an Abominable crime...it should be discouraged,prevented and condemned at highest possible ways at all levels,from individual,society,locality,goverment and international levels...!!!

The international organisations like UNICEF are doing their part..Even almost every national Governments on earth condemn Paedophilia and it is a Punishable crime throughout the world...

What needs improvement is our social and individual contribution part in preventing this acts..many a times it goes unnoticed and unreported...if every individual and society becomes concious and vigilant..,it can almost be prevented..

...report immediately to the concerned authority...i am not expert in international laws,but yes i think there is the INTERPOL !!!
answered Feb 12 by curioz (1,151 points)
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My god! How can people see kids as an object of sex?? Watha hell..
People like this must be punished.. Law will easily let em pass.. But if i ever get my hands on em, ll beat the balls outta em..
Perverts of the final order they are..
Sorry if i was rude..
answered Feb 12 by hades (2,625 points)
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What you refer to as predators are technically termed as pedophiles. A pedophile is a person who has a sustained sexual orientation toward children, generally aged 13 or younger. Also called child molesters.
Not all pedophiles are child molesters (or vice versa). Child molesters are defined by their acts; pedophiles are defined by their desires.

The medical community considers pedophilia to be a mental disorder. and has grouped it with other paraphilias -- said to be recurrent, intense sexually arousing fantasies, sexual urges, or behaviors that involve children, nonhuman subjects, or other non-consenting adults, or the suffering or humiliation of oneself or one's partner.

All this jargon, will not help to reduce the intense hatred we all feel towards these child molesters.

Children need to be taught at a young age what is appropriate and what is not when an adult makes an overture towards them. In the West the Law would be strictly enforced. In India, there has to ba complaint registered.

We at AA, need to take care before naming a pedohile, as cyberstalker has done, to avoid a case of defamation being instituted. We dont have the facts.
answered Feb 13 by longhands1 (2,043 points)
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I am trying to understand what you are expecting from us?  We dont encourage any minor sex, we dont allow questions from minors. What Abhilash did, isnot there law in US? Why do we need to find him out? I went through google, and found in US more than 550 unresolved case of paedophillia. Out of which you brought one out who is an Indian. The rest are all US citizen. What are you going to do bout them?

Paedophillia is a debateable issue.  What is the correct age depends on cultures. In UK, average age of teen pregnancy is 15, what are you going to do on that?  In Iran legal age for having sex after marriage is 11, this was 9 till 2001.  Teen sex is everywhere going on, how many can you stop?

One of the most cultured and law abiding people are Singaporeans, they visit on particular island of Indonesia (name withheld) for paedopille attraction. Girls of 12 to 15 are their target, they have sex, come back all clean.

This is a site of sexual health, we talk on right things to do. Our job is not find Abhilasha kind of people. And I am pretty sure, if the girl was not known to you, you would not bother to post a question even.  

Sorry cant help, I have completely failed to understand the intention of your asking this question.  But be sure, we dont encourage or promote any minor's exual act.
answered Feb 17 by oye (21,620 points)