Is there any way to remove hymen other than intercourse 1st time?

Question

Hi Madam,

First time when I did intercourse with my wife, I've not found any blood coming from her vagina, later she told that due to regular cycling at college time, her hymen already removed that is why blood did not come at first intercourse.

Ours is love marriage and our courtship was only for 8 months before marriage. She had one previous break-up, though she telling that it was emotional, but I doubt it physical also. I love her very much but when ever I frankly asked her regrding this, she avoid the matter. I have curuosity and that is why I am asking whether it is possible that due to cycling hymen can be removed.

Would be grateful for discussion regarding the matter only knowledge.

Answer 1

Yes it is true that cycling can rupture hymen. Generally, it is thought that a hymen ruptures the first time a woman has sex, however due to the very active lifestyles we now lead, that is not neccessarily the case. For example, a woman's or girl's hymen can be broken during sports such as horse riding or bike riding gymnastics. Some people are even born with a broken hymen.

Answer 2

possibilities are there. hymen can be ruptured due to cycling , aerobics dancing, or medical examinations, masterbation or sex with her ex. I dont think suspecting a girl only because of lack of bleeding.
i agree intact hymen is highly valued at marriage mainly to show girls purity. but she is human being and her feellings should be considered.
forget the past and live in present.   dont try to investigate on her past and spoil ur wonderfull married life.

Answer 3

1. Indulge in physical exercise like dancing, horse-riding, cycling, jumping   
    and skipping
2. Insert finger and stretch the fingers gently inside and this can break the
    hymen, but only partially since the complete breakage of hymen occurs
    only during the first sex
3. Masturbation can also help in breaking your hymen. However, this
    depends on how violently the girl masturbates. Some girls insert more
    than one finger and masturbate, which could lead to hymen breakage
4. If you stick anything in your vagina, then hymen gets broken

 Like this also this got broke. So don't look over her past either you will suffer in future and leave in present and just plan for future than loking to past dont spoil your married life.

Comments

nice answer sambang 

Answer 4

Yes ,Hymen can break with so many other reasons too so its better not to make a doubt on HER as "Love marriage" becomes so sensitive some times that even a single sentence proves a disaster in the future life.

Answer 5

Go to your family doctor with a parent or guardian and the doctor will take care of it medical wise. Someone needs to be present so the doctor doesn't get charged for sexual assault. Your doctor can do this as outpatient,no pain and ask for opinion with womans doctor.

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There are actually many ways of breaking hymen like  Riding a horse , Gymnastics.

Answer 6

since u love her so much u stop doubting on her. I can understand that being a male u might get several questions raised in ur mind. But its true tat hymen might have broken due to physical activities like cycling, jogging, rigorous running, swimming , gymnastics etc. So don't spoil ur peaceful life and love her more :)

All the best..

Bin

Answer 7

Am trying to figure out what is your exact issue , is it really regarding hymen or some other issue?

Have gone through your previous posts , once was group sex, vibrator and bladder issue , am not judging you but seem you are finding ways to justify your relationship with your wife .

I guess during your courtship you were well aware regarding her previous breakup and even though you married her and even after 2 years of marriage the ghost of hymen is still chasing you?

Why don't you forget the past and if she does not want to tell you regarding her past accept it and what about you , you didnot had a past , were you a virgin ? If not then  how can you expect one , and if you were then so what does the hymen that define the relation you are having with your wife.

Don't let the past mingle in your present or else you will have a doomed fuutre.

And to reply short YES hymen can be broken by sport activities and due to masturbation even if the person is virgin.

Answer 8

Dear AKM,

I checked your earlier questions, they were pretty immatured. One qustion was on threesome, means you are openminded to let someone join in bed.

So why this dilemma you are having? If she had sex before marriage thats a problem, but bring someone after marriage is a problem?  Maintain one standard please.

Yes she may be telling truth, it happens. What you are assuming that also is possible. My only request is, if you love her, do love her with your heart. Having a suspicious mind is a killer or any marriage. Eithe raccept her word, or get rif of her, dont live with a suspicious mind. At the same tme, dont keep a double standard on your thinking on sex.

Answer 9

As per Oye's replies, (and he is in a position to tell) you have made enquiries about threesome, groupsex, vibrators etc.

You can either be broad-minded or narrow-minded. Please make up your mind what type of answer you want to hear from us!!

Answer 10

Yes it is true that cycling and swimming can be the cause of Hymen rupture. you can contact me if you need any more information or any medical care.