Dont thank me for replying this. I didnot know the answer, my wife helped me on this. She was very blunt on her statement, a lady can pretend anyway without any acting skill, on walking or movement on approach and talking. But two things she cant hide, one is her skin glow, the other is her eyes movement on content feel.
A woman can handle her walking, hip and rbreast change, hide what on her head, mind and talking too. Only another woman can read these small changes, that we male always fail.
On my leaving, I believe its almost inevitable. Taking some days off, I learnt I can make use of my time in better way. People should know when they are not wanted. I am just trying to fix whatever damage I have done. All these time I never let members feel when I am travelling. I logged on to stay in touch. And after giving all the time and spoiling all these roaming bill, add to that I am doing this job totally unpaid, come on, dont you think I need rest?
This break helped me to do the soul searching, what the hell is wrong with me that not getting payment (or expecting payment) what is the point of spoiling my time and turn out as a rude, arrogant, autocrat person that I am not in my life?
There should be much better Oyes in future (they wont have the name Oye ofcourse, they will be known by their name), and they are really expert on the areas, not a quake like me. I can get to see the potential on number of good members just today.