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what would you choose and why?? [closed]

asked Dec 23, 2011 in Discussions by sagar_ilus (2,990 points)
closed Jun 18, 2014 by longhands1
respected members,admins,moderators and editors,good morning one and all.
if you are told to choose one and sacrifice the rest, in the options given below,what would you choose and why?
,best friend,
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First of all i really want to appreciate you and your thinking for asking such a brilliant question. Now coming to point Family and Money are two most important things in my life reason being Family because they are one who brought me into this world and Money for the simple reason that we have basic necessities such as food,clothing and shelter for our survival and for that we have to earn money.Love,Best friend,Girlfriend all comes after that
answered Dec 23, 2011 by rajeshshm2986 (310 points)
commented Dec 23, 2011 by sagar_ilus (2,990 points)
thanks rajesh,but you have to sacrifice everything for that one....!!!so what would it be.??
commented Dec 23, 2011 by rajeshshm2986 (310 points)
agreed with your point but still if given a choice between family & love(girlfriend to be more precise) not matter how intimate our relationship is i will always choose my family first.
commented Dec 23, 2011 by sagar_ilus (2,990 points)
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Great Question Sagar, you are making us think hard this morning.

Anyway for me its tough between love and freindship, but to be frank I choose love.

As all are attached to it if am sincere in love , I wont loose my friend nor his friendship and soon my girlfriend will be my wife. so love is above the lot for me. And money is far behind in the list i would say the last one
answered Dec 23, 2011 by dan (2,350 points)
commented Dec 23, 2011 by sagar_ilus (2,990 points)
ahaaa!!!touched a lot by your answer dan,i would like to raise some points,like a discussion ,if you want me too.
commented Dec 23, 2011 by dan (2,350 points)
Anytime Bro, we are all here for good and purposeful discussion .

As Mr Oye said, the site is going up to a new level and we are all here to learn and share
commented Dec 23, 2011 by sagar_ilus (2,990 points)
suuper!!like your,you are in love,your girlfriend was possessive of you,she felt jealous of your friends,and asked you to decide between her and your friendship so what would you do then??
commented Dec 23, 2011 by dan (2,350 points)
Anyone and everyone in love is somehow possession be it little or more but for sure they are possessive.
Now for girlfriend I would say make her your best friend , you see the change. I dont know if before proposing your girlfriend , was she your friend. You know mine was like that, you can be pissed off with your GF but hard when it comes to a Friend.
You know what, when you are with your friend dont ever try to ignore your GF, I know its not always possible but take her along and share equal time with her and your friends.
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Good question bro. You just spoiled my day. I was in great mood as DON 2 is released.
I have all of these why should I lose four and keep one?
I would love money and wife, and share girlfriend with my best friend.

If I don't have any and I have to chose one, honestly speaking, I would chose something that money can't buy or in other words, won't pick something which may come and go. So let's deduct Money and girlfriend. Now something which I am capable of managing with my own intention, so wife is gone. Now something which is not blessed upon me, but still I can control, so love is gone.
I am left with one, Best Friend, this friendship is very important to me, because this is the only relation which happens to people without any logic, expectation, give and take or reason. You can have 1000 friends, but their would be one with whom you can share every page of your life and so can the best friend for you. People need that moral and mental support from a person where no logic stands, other than unconditional trust,faith and believe.
answered Dec 23, 2011 by oye (25,670 points)
commented Dec 23, 2011 by sagar_ilus (2,990 points)
loved it bro,really ,i would to go with best friend.and am seriously sorry for spoiling your day.and how is don2 bro...!!!his attitude is admiringly superb as don i guess!!
commented Dec 23, 2011 by oye (25,670 points)
Missed today, but it doesnot matter how the movie is, as long as SRK is there, I love it. Ra.One I watched once and couldnot afford to see second time for such a lousy story line, but who cares, SRK is there.
commented Dec 23, 2011 by sagar_ilus (2,990 points)
ha ha ha!!yah!!but don2 is awesome,i heard,.
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Another though question from You Sagar...!!!

I hope this kind of situations never comes in our lifetime...Choosing something or someone over another has been one of the most difficult job for me....!! being a human,i want to have everything and anything...without discarding the others...!!!

Well,Luckily,as of present..Thank God...,my love,my best-friend,my girlfriend and my wife is the same one person...So,I am Lucky,that i don't have to choose among them...And yes,money is always important but Temprorary...I May lose money today but can earn another tomorrow...!!!

When i am forced to choose one among them,well i can't just blurt out the answer would depend upon various other considerations,depend upon that situations...i would even ask for other's advises...In short..,I won't be able to say directly that i am prepared and my mind is fixed and made up now...Really,i am even hating this idea of imagining myself in this me a Headache...!!!
answered Dec 23, 2011 by curioz (1,020 points)
edited Dec 23, 2011 by curioz
commented Dec 23, 2011 by sagar_ilus (2,990 points)
ha ha ha!!!but you are one of the lucky bastards(no abuse,i guess you take lightly),best friend being everything for you.what more you need,i guess,your life is built on the pillar called happiness .have a wonderful ,loving and charming life.i guess you should have all the above in your life.except ,girlfriend .:-p
commented Dec 23, 2011 by curioz (1,020 points)
Ha ha..ha.!!! thanks,Sagar...I Hope and always try to balance everything as much as possible..God Willing,May it last forever...!!

Yes,i don' have another special girlfriend now(i had 3 in successions earlier),but i have many girl-friends now and I have many other friends,colleagues,and acquintances with whom i spent time too...and i respect them..and i think they like me too..

but atlast, finally,during the wee hours,i ultimately like to rest in the cozy arms that make my family...I don't say it is always a Heaven and that we don't have petty differences and unpleasant arguments and situations sometimes...but then, i've learnd to compromise,learned to listen to but be Deaf and Dumb sometimes,learnd the art of cajoling,the art of flattery.,learnd to forget and give a damn sometimes..and is talkative and manipulative always...!!!
commented Dec 23, 2011 by oye (25,670 points)
You sure are a lucky bastard (dont take as abusive way).  

Well, I always love to stay risk free, not to keep all eggs in a single bucket, its called portfolio management. There are certain things I cant share with anyone other then my best friend. Something is exceptional for wife only. The girlfriends are all about sex and spent money. Living life like this with all backup plans in hand, sometimes I feel you people are really lucky.  You take a risk and gain it all.
commented Dec 23, 2011 by sagar_ilus (2,990 points)
you have to be that way !!!your proffession is such,should be charming ,and attract patients,maintain relation,so that next time he would approach you.ha ha,and i can surely say,you are the topper of your batch.such a perfection,in your every answer,point to point ,mind blowing yaar.hey not at all flattering ,its true.
commented Dec 24, 2011 by curioz (1,020 points)
Thanks Sagar...i am really flattered..!!! And that you have Wild Imaginations,I have to say...ha ha ha ha...!!!
commented Dec 24, 2011 by sagar_ilus (2,990 points)
so,waz my guess right??
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I dont have a doubt sagar I will choose my wife, No doubt or confusion. If my wife is with me then best friend, love, girlfriend all I can find in her except money, That we will make by our hard work.
answered Dec 23, 2011 by pussycat (3,855 points)
commented Dec 23, 2011 by sagar_ilus (2,990 points)
i guess your's is a love marriage,you love your wife a lot pussycat,she should be so lovable then.!!
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oye has answered the question but here i dare to answer after him... Why should one have situation like this? when a question has four option and has to tick only one and you find that ticking one option is not correct then there is a fifth option which says- (e)all mentioned above.
and then a man like me who don't want to put his brain in crap will tick on option "e".
answered Dec 23, 2011 by akk0907 (2,855 points)
commented Dec 23, 2011 by sagar_ilus (2,990 points)
ha ha ha!!this question is all about application of your brain,which would be your preference .
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Well Sagar thats a nice question,

there is something common in every choice. and in your words.. thats what i choose.

If only people could see not with their brains, will they understand life is simple.

Brain is stupid when it dont have a heart
answered Dec 24, 2011 by tnt_tnt (745 points)
edited Dec 24, 2011 by tnt_tnt
commented Dec 24, 2011 by tnt_tnt (745 points)
Hey Sagar, ya pretty long time.
Everythings fine here.. wot abt u
commented Dec 24, 2011 by sagar_ilus (2,990 points)
am cool bro....!!!so,what about the ovarian cyst...!!operated??
commented Dec 25, 2011 by tnt_tnt (745 points)
No idea dude..

Merry christmas..
Wish you all goodies
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I would choose money with an option that I am allowed to share among all 5... (me, my  love, my best friend, my wife and my girl friend) ... Atleast at the end of the game .. All will have somewhat better life...  

1) Me - I lost everything except money , but with money atleast I am happy that I tried to give my loved ones a better life sacrificing my emotional life. Money could satisfy some of my choices to keep me busy with materlialistic world.

2) All others would be happy thinking they got money and would find a better person than me in their life as I was completely after money and having money they can find someonoe who could be loyal and possibly share a cordial bond
answered Dec 24, 2011 by HailStone (590 points)
commented Dec 25, 2011 by sagar_ilus (2,990 points)
i dont have a positive opinion towards marriage pussycat.
commented Dec 25, 2011 by dan (2,350 points)
hopefully some day you might change your opinion, whenever you will meet the right person you will know and that day the right person will be your GF and wife later.
commented Dec 25, 2011 by oye (25,670 points)
There are four milestones in a person's life, Birth, marriage, be a parent and death. Two is inevitable, you cant do nothing, but the rest two is upto you.

Sagar, why you dont have a positive view on marriage, I am not interested to know. Its your view. But people always come to this negative view based on some experience. Maybe you saw some bitter marriage ended in bitterness. That might be your logic, can be some other logic too.

I can request you to be neutral. Thats all. Marriage is a special bond, dont treat marriage as a mean to have sex. The biggest part is having a companion for life. At old age someone to talk to, someone to feel for thats priceless. At young age it always seems when milk is available in the market, why should I buy a cow. But think of 15 years from now, your best friend will be busy runing his life, with wife and kids, to him your importance will reduce.  Your life, you choose. My suggestion is, be it bad marriage or good marriage, people should take an effort to get married, walk on that path of life long commitment.

And openly I am saying, Dan, you are hell of a lucky bastard, having a bestfriend who is your girl friend and now wife with all the love, wish people were lucky like you.
commented Dec 25, 2011 by dan (2,350 points)
Thanks Mr Oye .
sagar for you I pray someday somewhere you find the right person for you
commented Dec 25, 2011 by sagar_ilus (2,990 points)
moved Jun 18, 2014 by longhands1
hmm...what to say!!yes,i have seen many bitter marriages,around me,...!!!even my friends who have got married are not happy with their married life,all of them has adviced me,marry as lately as possible .very recently one of my far relative got married ,on his first night the girl told him that,she has a boyfriend and is gonna go away with him,and due to the force of their parents she married him.there are so many incidents, friends....!!!so,......!!!

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