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should i accept my devar's proposal to make him happy? [closed]

asked Oct 6, 2011 in Questions by samina_rehman (120 points)
closed Feb 20, 2012 by curioz
hi guys, i am a 29 years married female and having a great sex life with my hubby. my 26 years unmarried devar also lives with us. he works in an mnc and he is very loving and caring towards me. he gives me proper respect and i do trust him as he also trusts me a lot.

me and my devar share a wonderful relationship and we tease each other whenever we are alone. but we do respect each other in front of other people.

he had never had a gf although he is good looking and a very caring guy. he is smart, handsome and good natured person.

of late, i have observed a change in his behaviour. whenever we two are alone, he would put his arms around my shoulders or my back, or crack naughty jokes, or brush my ass, or offer me a seat beside him on sofa.

he told me many times that he likes me a lot and that i am very beautiful, intelligent  and naughty to which i simply blush. he has also been asking me to wear sarees and high heels whenever we are alone or when we go out for movies etc.

actually, i also like teasing him whenever we are alone e.g. i give him naughty smiles and talk naughtily. but he has never done any objectionable thing as such.

so can you guys tell me what actually there is in his mind.

i do want him to be happy and i also dont want both of us to get into any trouble.

help me guys.
closed with the note: Enough answers on this question.

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dear friend
what is happening there is utter foolishness. ask your brother in law to find another girl friend. what he showing now is mere infatuation. dont spoil your valuable life with your husband.
answered Oct 6, 2011 by manish.naran (3,375 points)
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nothing wrong, just keep going as u r, else u wanna have fun then u both can get closer, but reading your quest i felt its normal, so dont think more
answered Oct 7, 2011 by maxi512 (1,065 points)
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I suggest two options
1. Get him married to a sexy girl, let your husband fuck her regularly. When he is dead tired and can't satisfy you, go and fuck your bro in law. All stays happy.
2. He is so caring, ask him to buy you a bungalow in the posh area, buy a good car all in your name, arrange for monthly expenditure of 2 lac Rs. And then fuck you whenever you want an itch.

The same question on male version have been posted four times, dear Rajeev Agarwal AKA Shamina Rehman, are you a crossdresser or transgender that you ask once as man and again as woman?
answered Oct 7, 2011 by oye (25,670 points)
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dear samina i suggest u to stay away as its quite natural for a guy to seduce a girl... This guy is only interested in tht.. If u want to go ahead, enjoy....else, dont spoil ur life..... As we have a good  culture and family values, its ur duty to keep him away... Once something happens, a human tendency is to repeat mistakes thinking "whts wrong in tht....". I wish to see u as a truthful wife...  gud luck...
answered Oct 7, 2011 by jithu (125 points)
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if oye is correct then please don't answer such question hereafter. thanks everybody for being so generous and alert also at the same time, keep updating us on every issue.
answered Oct 7, 2011 by sahilonly4you (925 points)
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Oye If this is also a fake id then oye please go ahead and delete it as anjali aunty did in the case of mamuni.
answered Oct 7, 2011 by satya.dude (695 points)
commented Oct 7, 2011 by oye (25,670 points)
edited Nov 17, 2013 by longhands1
Hmmm Two red flags, did I post an inappropriate reply?

I have a limited access, I can edit a question or reply, I can't delete any user, nor can hide a ques or reply. That's the owner's authority only and she is planning to get some voulanteer editors. If want to be one, guys write sensible and quality reply, you will get her invitation mail.
If I had some extra rights, there won't be a Mamuni or Brinjali instance.



2nd answer
commented Oct 19, 2011 by HailStone (590 points)
people are fb addicts, they flag as if they like the post
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yes,this question,the saree and high heels,i remember...!!has been asked by rajiv aggrawal,the question was repeated with different,the same question,with a female....!!!
if its really true,then i am sure,if your devar gets married ,he wont need you any more.
right now he wants the company of a male,that's it.....!!!
answered Oct 7, 2011 by sagar_ilus (2,990 points)
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As u r happy with ur hubby,then why u need devar?
answered Oct 7, 2011 by Baduli (725 points)
commented Oct 7, 2011 by yntr (1,800 points)
edited Nov 17, 2013 by longhands1
As you have ask the question,it seems you are ready 99 percent. for 1 percent why you are asking. enjoy.


one liner
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This is definitely not a question from a lady, that guy is asking in disguise, he think that every one in AA are fool like him. We asked him not to post his devar story again previously, so he came with a lady version. Pathetic guy, he dont even have a different story to write.
answered Oct 7, 2011 by pussycat (3,855 points)
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you know when we eat chilly a bit it makes our dish more tasty but when we eat chilly excessively it make dish bad to eat and tears our eat chilly only to make your feelings tasty but avoid more to tear your eyes...every person have a top personal part of life that should not be exposed even to our life partener..if you dream to have fun with your DEVAR then have it..but like a bite of is short and desires are more....
answered Oct 17, 2011 by playerpussy (210 points)
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Hey go with ur devar ok injoy sex with avry one
answered Nov 2, 2011 by Sameer78 (160 points)
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It is your fantasy or reality ?
If u like him than go ahead , just for his sake only dont jump into it.
answered Dec 17, 2011 by drsahil (155 points)
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Honest suggestion...

Talk to him and let him/remind him not to cross boundaries... There is a certain point beyond which he must not exceed
answered Dec 20, 2011 by sid29011987 (260 points)
commented Feb 20, 2012 by yntr (1,800 points)
moved Feb 20, 2012 by curioz
first you think to happy your devar but think how much you will become happy, if your husband come to know in future, your devar will not adopt you for life time.
commented Feb 4, 2014 by priyanka shri (165 points)
nothing is serious .....enjoy ur life..its normal.

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