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Seven Things Men Hate in Bed

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I found this article somewhere and thought it may be useful for you. The credit goes to the website (sad, i do not remember its address, it was pretty nice)
1. During sex some women doesn‘t do anything – just lie down and expect to have some pleasure now. That is the worst thing you can do, men hate that. Women should move, despite man is on the top. Women, show your partners that you want to have sex with them as well as he does. If women look like “lying dead” – partner can even get sexual problems, if he cares how to give you pleasure.

2. Almost every woman would agree that she likes to be kissed. Well the same is with men. They also love when women are kissing them, all his body. That drives them crazy. If you want to satisfy your men in bed, kiss him, tease and play with him.
3. Some old fashioned women still think that man has to take all the control in bed while having sex. But that is absolutely wrong. Women also have to take control in bed. Show that you want to have sex now, tell him what he has to do, because now you are the one who is dictating the rules. I can assure your man will be very excited and pleased about such an action. Sometimes they like to be controlled.
4. Be very sensitive to your partner. Women like to have sensitive man next to her, try doing the same to your man. Men’s bodies are really sensitive and women should do their best to make him feel as good as he makes her feel. Ladies, don’t be egoistic.
5. If you want to get pleasure, don’t forget to give it to your partner too. Men sometimes thing that their lady in bed doesn’t care at all what is he feeling, does he like her actions. Women should always remember to ask questions such as “how do you like that?”, “how does that feel?” Let him know that you care what he feels and if he likes that or not. They love to have your attention.
6. Don’t confuse your partner. Some women don’t show their emotions – that means men do not understand weather you like it or not. Don’t feel shy to scream when you feel like screaming from pleasure, breathe a bit harder. Do some noise, because it’s the best way to inform your partner about your feelings at that moment. That would help you too. Your man will know what you like best and you will be rewarded.
7. Do you feel your sexual life is getting a bit boring? Take some action – keep it new. Don’t be shy to surprise your partner with some new sexy outfit. Wear it, dance to him and you will drive him crazy. They love little teasing with sexy clothes and get excited about upcoming sex.
asked Sep 5, 2011 in Discussions by justcurious (182 points)
good article, i liked it

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very useful information as i feel
young people can make the best use of it and suggest you to post more things like these to help and guide the teenagers
thank you
answered Sep 5, 2011 by krrishin (1,210 points)
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dear friend
experienced, useful informations. your work is dominating over all the rubbish questions. keep it up bhai
answered Sep 5, 2011 by manish.naran (4,768 points)
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This is an appreciable summary of beautiful experience gathered for decades together by seasoned sex-loving people and I endorse that the youngsters must take advantage of this article, which otherwise they will realize late in life.
answered Sep 6, 2011 by dr-deepika27 (1,979 points)
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Thank you Dr. Deepika for reproducing this nice article...This is a fact with almost all Indian Women and we men feel dejected during these heavenly moments.
answered Sep 6, 2011 by amit-roy (689 points)
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Nice to see you guys posting informative articles
answered Sep 6, 2011 by Anjali Aunty (5,029 points)
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Very nice and  true , usefull information . Thanks
answered Sep 6, 2011 by Sat2tayade (875 points)
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Thank you all for the appreciation which encourages me to share more useful articles. Hats off to you Ms. Anjali..you are doing a great job.
answered Sep 7, 2011 by justcurious (182 points)
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authentically very usefull information..:-)
answered Sep 7, 2011 by sandystar500 (995 points)
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Good article. Some people took out time to write it, so its better to recognize that. You can delete the website, as that may cause spam, but do give the due credit to the writer.
I checked, its by a lady named Rosa Wills. She talked about 10 things, but to get access to the full write up need registered membership access.
answered Sep 8, 2011 by oye (21,620 points)
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thanks for such wonderful articles, if allowed, we would also share such informative articles :)
answered Sep 21, 2011 by manan (1,298 points)
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dear friend
good subject. good work.  the summary is, it is important to love the partner and give the partner if we want to take it from them.
answered Sep 21, 2011 by manish.naran (4,768 points)
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well let me add something
if women want sex they should express their feelings. after it is a necessity for a good marriage. why should a husband take an initiative always and later shoved off. if the woman says that she too wants it it will be a pleasure for both of them. remember  a human being is the only creature who enjoys sex, animals know it as a means of reproduction only.
answered Feb 18 by pradeep galgali (131 points)
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Very nice information. till now I just know what a woman can expect from we people. from this article I came to know that we men also can expect something from women also. very lovely info.. thanks for the information.
answered Feb 18 by raj009 (739 points)