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Why I am not able to do sex for more time?

asked Aug 20, 2011 in Questions by rohit1111 (135 points)
edited Aug 20, 2011 by Anjali

Dear Anjali and fellow members,

I am a 22 years old male bachelor. Everytime when I am free I think about sex with diferent peoples then I just masturbate. I am a student so I have the laptop facility with high speed internet so every time I just use to search indian scandal videos so that I can see the video.

But more importatly my motto is that want to see real sex  how they do and how much time they can enjoy sex. The most imprtant thing abt me is that sometimes before I along with my friends used to visit prostitutes to fulfil our sex emotions. That was my first sex, but I was not able to do the sex properly and it takes very less times for me to come out even maximum of just 1 minute only.

After that I have used prostitutes 3 or 4 times to see whether I am able to do sex for long times. But everytime the same thing happen, now I am very depressed about my sexual life. And also now I use to masterbate every alternate day watching porn movies. Please help me regarding this issue. I was not able to ask this question to anyone but I saw ur advertisement on net. So I am contacting u, only u can help me.

Please get me out of this problem.

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Dear.. Rohit ur problem is very early ejaculation right???
Hmm many medicine are available..u can take before having sex..most important thing is how u do sex...wenevr u feel that u are goin to ejaculate just stop move ment and wait for a while and then start again..this will help you..u can continue this process and delay ejaculation.
Thank you..send me your feedback soon
answered Aug 20, 2011 by Vansh18 (670 points)
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ya very early ejaculation might be the prblm wid me bt one thing that is to be noticed that i hv done sex only with prostitutes and they doesnot invove mentally in sex .they dint gve any suport in sex. is it a case with my prblm?
one suggestn that u give me to take medicine is not good bcoz its not a long time soltn. i want a permanent one.
answered Aug 20, 2011 by rohit1111 (135 points)
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Welcome to the site, brother.
Your motto is watch real life sex? Why dont you have sex with mirror around? Even if you are ready to spend money, can hire a couple to have sex at your room and watch closely. Errrr... did you mean you want to see for free? In that case dont you think at 22 years of age its awkward to be a peeping tom?
You had sex with prostitutes and couldnot last long, if thats the first 1 or 2 times, very much understandable. The psychological pressure or expectation is too much. after 3-4 times should have been okay, seems you need more time.  Wearing a condom still cum in a minute, seems you are in real hurry, next time take time and hang on.
You talked about masturbation twice, can you tell the time it requires to cum on a handjob?  Is it satisfactory?
next time cover your dick with two condoms to reduce the sensation on your glans. And buy the thick one, not the ultra thin.  Once you get your confidence back on delayed cum, we will talk about how to prolong with different techniques.
answered Aug 20, 2011 by oye (25,670 points)
commented Aug 28, 2011 by manan (1,670 points)
nicely expalined Oye.!!
me myself 20 year old male, i also want to discuss with you some thing about premature ejaculation, seems that you have nice knowledge about it
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it is your weakness bro, take care of your health..
And be sure that your partner is satisfied by you...
answered Aug 29, 2011 by sandystar500 (770 points)
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your physical pressure is the reason for this problem. Dont gets tensed very much while sex hours
answered Aug 29, 2011 by tamilboy21 (655 points)
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Premature ejaculation is not a big problem. I will explain it with one example, imagine the train which takes 10 mins to reach the destination might takes 2 hours because of frequent chain pullings. So whenever you realize that you are going to cum hold it just like chain pulling in train and reach your destination late. I am doing this for 6 years and doing well.
answered Sep 3, 2011 by rahulsngh (825 points)

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