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What are the limits of love making we can perform?

asked Aug 17, 2011 in Questions by maxi512 (1,065 points)
edited Aug 17, 2011 by Anjali

Hi Anjali aunty and others,

I and my girlfriend both are virgin, I just wanna ask that how deep can we both involve in foreplay or love making so that it shoud not get her pregnant?

How close can we be being on safer side? what all acts can I perform?

commented Aug 18, 2011 by oye (25,670 points)
edited Mar 30, 2014 by oye
If I may ask you, did anyone tell you the pregnancy depends on how far a dick goes? Like there is a cutoff line, before three inch, no pregnancy after 3" gets pregnant?  Pregnancy depends on if she is in danger period or not, if your sperm is rich enough or not and if you have cum inside her.
As you said both are virgin, my only suggestion is go very slow, do what you want, but you don't have to prove you are Casanova. Nor you have to make a all deep penetration, just go slow. If she feels discomfort, dont force. Before entering go for plenty of foreplay to make her relaxed and well lubed.
A better approach will be the first time leave a hype behind, go for plenty of forplay, suck and lick her enough and if she gives a blow job, be happy.  On the first encounter its better not to go for penetration, be comfortable with one another's genital area, that total oral sex and leave for the second encounter for vaginal penetration.
If you at all cant control, and don't know her menes cycle, better to use condom as a must.

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See dear..simple way to avoid pregnency is to avoid sperms to enter ur gf's vagina..but as u said u both are virgin and still wants to remain virgin there is no chance to get pregnent coz virginity breaks only if u do foreplay u can enjoy as much as u want..and it also plays important role in sex...u can suck her vagina..let her suck ur penis,lips to lips kissing,huging,fondlind,licking,pampering,etc can be dont without hesitation in also involves fingering ur gf's vagina..just to excite her..
Still if ur doubt isnt clear..write ur comment..and also send ur feedback..thank you
answered Aug 18, 2011 by Vansh18 (670 points)
commented Aug 18, 2011 by Anjali (7,465 points)
Nice answer vansh :)
commented Aug 18, 2011 by Vansh18 (670 points)
Thank you anjali
commented Aug 19, 2011 by maxi512 (1,065 points)
moved Jun 30, 2014 by longhands1
thanks for u r help, thank u all, m satisfied with vansh18's asnwer, thanks again...
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pecaution is better everything is possible while making love. so it is better to take precaution if you do not desire ababy or pregannacy.
answered Aug 26, 2011 by yntr (1,800 points)
commented Sep 17, 2011 by maxi512 (1,065 points)
moved Jun 30, 2014 by longhands1
ok yntr, its true what ever u say, its better to be on safer side
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condom with veginal jelly will be better
answered Oct 17, 2011 by ravin69 (520 points)
commented Nov 30, 2011 by xpktv2000 (3,295 points)
moved Feb 1, 2014 by longhands1
I think till both of you organsm

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