Dear Anjali aunty and friends,
I don’t know what to do. I am in very trouble situation; couldn’t able to take decision. What to do.
Its all about myself and my niece. I am 26 years male. My niece is 19 years (My Sister Daughter). We are very good friends, we like to share almost everything to each other. We love each other very much. Since last 2 years , we are so much connected.
In One Night, “ I ask her to whom you love the most ?, “ she replied “ You “. I asked her, “ why “ . then she replied, “you are so caring to me, talk very nicely with me and my relatives, I like your behavior etc……I Replied “ Really” . she said “ yes “ . then I asked her, “ can I take kiss of your cheeks and lips ? she allow to me for doing so. After that night, we are so connected with each other, talk , share almost every things of our life. And whenever we got chance we are doing foreplay kissing , boobing, fingering etc. In Two occasion we are almost in the start process of intercourse, but that time I feel so much guilt on my act, I thought its wrong and I have stopped the act.
One day I came to know one thing from her, a thing which she hides from me. ( The thing is that one of her works colleague ( A senior Citizen) ask for marriage for his relative ( for Senior Citizen Relatives) Very lately she have inform me about this thing , that’s why I am getting very sad. Hence I not talk with her for 3 days. After that whenever I am trying to talk with her, but she avoids me. Later, I asked her, “why are you avoiding me ?, she said no, I am not avoiding you. I said. I asked her about that thing, why you not share with me this thing ? then she replied that , I was not serious about this thing at that time, that’s why I didn’t tell you. I said Ok.
After 2-3 days , while our talking , I came to know from her that one of the boy had proposed her for marriage. Then I asked her what was your reply ? she said, “ I cant tell you (means that boy ) now, you will have to wait for almost 4-5 years, because I have to manage and have to do some household responsibilities . That boy is ready for waiting for 4-5 years and even I want to do marriage with him also “.
Then I asked her, when that boy proposed you? She said,” one month back “. I replied, “ how could you take very important decision about your life in just one month, is just your attraction , nothing else. The another girls of your work has boyfriend, thats why you are also feeling for having boyfriend. You not to involve so deeply with him till you know him very well “. Then she said, “ he is very good boy, loyal, decent, he does not have any bad habits and he doesn’t mix up with girls and some responsibilities on his shoulder, which he will complete. I want to do marriage with him because the expectation of mine are fulfilling in that boy.
After that i said to her, I will do all help to you about marriage with that boy. i will collect all the information about his ( That boy ) behavior, character; but till then you keep a normal friendship with him and you don’t do a thing which he (that boy ) can understand that you are so much concerned with him. And he can take your advantage and can cheat with you. And I giving too much importance to tell her that, “ You don’t allow him to touch you until marriage, then she said , “ don’t worry, I understand my responsibility.
From that day I am so much tense about her relationship with that boy and me. Because whenever I message her, “ I Love You, then she immediately reply with “ I love you too “.
Now on one side, I am getting tense that if that boy cheat, sexually connected with her or left her , then very big problem will have to face to my niece. And other side I am assuming that because of my that act and consequences of my that act, she behave or think like that. And I am very depressed that what to do now. Now also we are so much connected that, if I asked her to give kiss, she smile and give me and if, I message her, “ I Love You, and Miss you “ then she immediately reply with “ I love you & miss you too “. Because of this I felt that, should I complete my balance act with her or should I forgive and let her go with her life.
Please Anjali aunty and readers reply – what to do now?