My boss is insisting me to satisfy him again, what do I do now?

Question

Dear Anjali, 

I am 34 years lady, married and have a five years old child. I am working also. Recently, I am facing very big problem. In my office, day by day, i was being closed with one of my boss and he is about 45 years old. Firstly, My boss called me `sweet younger sister' and was very kind to me. I thought he was very great person and I liked him. But two months ago, we went to a office tour outside of our city and stayed at our office guest house.

We had separate room. But after dinner my boss called me his room to talk some official work. We were taking almost one hour about various official problems. Suddenly he proposed me to kiss. I was astonished and said sorry and about to leave the room. But my boss laughed and told me that was simple kiss, nothing else. But that kiss at last turned into our two times intercourse in that night. Next day we came back in our city and everything is ok.  Firstly i felt guilty but thought that was an accident. But now a days My boss wants me to intercourse again and telling me almost everyday.

But i have told him it is not possible for me again. But he mounting a lot of pressure and now it is difficult to do my office work. I feel guilty very much now. I love my hubby and mu child very much. It is not possible to leave this job. because, my earning is fifty percent of my family cost.

Please tell me, What do I do now?

Comments

what to say well this totally depends on you if your seeing no risk on getting caught by maintaining relationship with your boss then that is ok given that you get guaranteed return on your investment. But if you do not like compromising simply say no and stay away from him you can even try ignoring your boss.

Answer 1

the best find a new job before leaving old job

or

else

sex is a past of life it give u relax to u body , u can keep it as secret n enjoy u sex life with both of them

Comments

dushra option badiya hai. yaar

Answer 2

Dear mallica,

The best suggestion would be to leave your present job and search for some other jobs. You are already feeling guilty for mistake what you did and try to be honest to your husband atleast in the future.

Thanks,
Anjali

Answer 3

Dear Ms. Seduced,

There is nothing like being moderately chaste. You have only posed one half of your problem and that is about work. As far as redeeming your guilt goes, you do not seem to be looking for a solution. In my honest opinion, you seem to be leaning more to the left than right.

If you eventually decide to throw caution to the wind and give in to the advances of your boss, please ensure that it comes with an additional benefit. A whore scores better than a slut. Keep looking for another job and make the transition when either the pay is better or the boss is more understanding.

If you wish to redeem your guilt rather than forgive your indiscretion, post another question.

Answer 4

Dear Madam

first of all how did u allow him to kiss u its ok but hw u wenthead for a sex round it means even u wanted it if u really care for u r hubby thn change ur job or if want to enjoy thn enjoy it secretly and dnt feel guilty. As u hv crossed ur limit knowingly so u urself is the decision maker rather than us u thnk what u feel better and do that nt what we say.

regards
sameer

Answer 5

Find a new job......... You have an experience of your job........and Today's companies give jobs to skilled persons or persons that have experience in his/her field. So i think you got a new job with higher salary package...
But before leaving your job don't tell your boss where you get your new job.....

Comments

Good Comment rahul. I agree with you.

rajesh.khanna86@yahoo.com

Answer 6

my boss laughed and told me that was simple kiss, nothing else. But that kiss at last turned into our two times intercourse in that night. Next day we came back in our city and everything is ok.  Firstly i felt guilty but thought that was an accident.

1. I didn’t get you, How can a simple kiss turned into two time fuck, Did he rape you,    Blackmailed you; I think NO, else you may have mentioned it.
2. How can you consider it as an Accident? When you allowed him with full consent to fuck you.
3. First I felt Guilty: Then what happened? You hide your guilty conciousness with the word Accident.It  was not an accident, You wanted it so you did it. Else the things may have been different and you may not have writtern this question.
What ever you did was wrong to yourself and to your family, Did you thought of your husband when you fucked your boss; How bad he will feel, How painful it will be for him, Knowing how bad his wife became. His most loveable wife cheating on his back. He will definitely Kick on your ass and send you out of his life for ever. Did you thought of the future of your child? Did you care for it. You were not the same as before ur enjoyment, then u was a committed, caring wife now an OFFICE SLUT.
You already became a slut and your boss is trying to make you into a whore; whom he can fuck any time he wants. Stay on your feet and tell him strongly that the thing that happened was a mistake from your side, you feel very guilty for that. you don’t want to live a life like that and you don’t want to cheat your husband anymore. Say it clearly from your heart. Show some self respect and dignity (if you have)
Even after that; if he is asking for fuck, tell him that you will tell everything to your husband and ready to face the consequences. You will file a police complaint agnist him. also that you will tell everything to his wife. This will put him on his feet and will not disturb you in future.
The pleasure you got when fuking with boss was temporary, Cheating only gives temporary joy, for that do you want to throw away your family. If not then stand on your feet face it boldly, because you only created this problem, If you denied him the fuck, your boss may have respected you more, at least in his mind he may have felt jealous on ur husband, for having a committed wife. Now he considers you only as a slut and men don’t give respect to sluts, even though you allows to fuck a thousand time.
Best regards and hope you can overcome this, Be with your family and find the true pleasure from it.

Comments

Yeah I totally agree with pussycat,
         What has happened is with your total consent,  what your boss has done is but natural,  but what you have done is totally wron on your part,  how are you going through every day n night with your husband.  

How are you facing him,  does it come to your mind that you have cheated him twice,  
I am not taunting you but if you want to save your family just leave the job immediately,  there is nothing in this world where you would not get a job.......... may be a little less pay but at least you may be safe from this disastrous job which is gonna ruin you life.........

Answer 7

Anjali aunty its time to ban mr-mukesh_arya

Comments

Hey pussycat I have already banned him :)

Answer 8

Nothing heard from mallica

Answer 9

I just laugh at Mr. or Mrs.. or Ms. Pussycat who always recommends to ban any one who does not reply according to the views of Pussycat. This is bad and condemnable. PUSSYCAT should concentrate on own answers or comments how best he or she may be. It is not desirable for a really mature person to dislike or outright reject others' views without considering the good points in-depth. There are so many nasty questions and irrelevant replies many times. Are we going to ban everything so that only Pussycat's opinions remain on this website. There is no hard and fast line to decide where from a porn can be felt in one's comments.  Even if some lines are fumed like porn, it is given logically with matured wisdom and we should accept the reality of life instead of behaving like a hypocrat. I, thus, emphatically feel that unless there is some personal or individual-targeted malign comments it must not be banned.

Comments

I konow that you will laugh at me for advicing Mallica to keep it with her husband, I read your pathetic story today. A person who fallen to the dig will try pull the leg of others also, to do wrong things. A 59 year old lady without any moral and and feelings for her husband. I feel pity for you shame for you. I adviced Mallica like that as she is a person who loves her family and husband very much and dont want to do the mistakes once she committed. I felt badly for her, a wife like her should not have done any thing like that. so i have a strong feeling for her, But for you i have a feeling of SHAME ONLY, dont try to pull her legs down, like you did to your husband.

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I am deeply shocked at the most discourteous reply given by PUSSYCAT, as above. I am amazed at such a rude and pain giving reply. I pray he or any of his family members may not be punished by God for such a rough language used by him to mentally torture some one. Certainly, it is not desirable for a really mature person to dislike or outright reject others' views without considering the good points in-depth. There are so many nasty & dishonest, fake & untrue questions and irrelevant replies most of the times. Are we going to ban everything so that only PUSSYCAT's opinions remain on this website. There is no hard and fast line to decide where from a porn can be felt in one's comments. Even if some lines are fumed like porn, it is given logically and honestly with matured wisdom and we should gently agree or disagree with the reality of life instead of behaving like an aggressive & proudy (so called ‘OMNIPOTENT’) hypocrat. I, thus, emphatically feel that unless there is some personal or individual-targeted malign comment it must not be banned or hated like the thick-skinned act of PUSSYCAT.

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Dear dr-deepika27
aggressive & proudy (so called ‘OMNIPOTENT’) hypocrat   I AM NONE OF THIS.
You need not worry about gods punishment for me, But truly (Gods sake belive me) I am very much worried about the punishment you are waiting from god. Better you Pray to god to give it in this life itself, else it will take another 100 lifes to get forgiveness from god for the sweet things you have done to YOUR HUSBAND and SISTER for this long period.

Your honesty, Trust, commitment, care and love for your husband, Sister and daughter is appreciated very much. I pray none of the indian wifes, ever follw you.

To ban mukesh arya was only my request to anjali aunty, It was not an order or act. It was my view, you can agree or disagree that is not my thing of concern. People like you may be reading it hundred time and may be getting an orgasam, But I dont.

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Dear Deepika,

Mukesh Arya is posting sexual stories than answers and also trying to promote his website by posting links so I decided to ban him. He deserves this!

Answer 10

hello madam,
can i say something?
ok i read ur question....but i m lil confused.......
acording to my thinking, a man cant do anything with a lady untill she doesnt give him chance or signals....he was not stranger, he was ur boss and very well known to n ur behaviour.. only any stranger can do any physical abuse to any lady by touching her pretending to be unknown....but how can ur boss say directly to u for a kiss whil he was calling u his sister........these things r really difficult for me to understand.....but for now u have to face this situation like a tigress...u have to be lil strict with ur boss....there is no need to leave the job...just threat him that u ll complaint in the police...ant avoid him as much as u can....he cant do anything wrong with you.....be a tigress...dnt get used like a bitch...may be my words hurt u but dnt thing m abusing u...m just giving an example......with best wishes....god bless...

Answer 11

Hey do I know you?  I am not 43 years old, but thats my standard mode of luring my office girls, first be the big brother, then help them, and finally get to bed. Ofcourse I dont fuck for free or keep pushing them.  I spend money and don't misuse my official capacity.
You are 34, and this is the first time you got laid? Are you so ugly that noone bothered to take you to bed in last 12/13 years of job?
How come a kiss ended up in two round of sex? Unless you were all cooperating, it wouldnot. Now he is asking for more, he has a reason. If a kiss can go so far, he sure can expect its going to be a regular fuck coz your consent was there. Dont tell me you were drunk.
What you can do now, if dont want to fuck again, leave the job. He is a man and your boss, he can manage his reputation by saying you went to his room and he was under the influence of alcohol.  What would be your reply? Whom can you show your face?
Before doing something stupid like going to press, media, his wife, think twice. A lady losing name wont be accepted in this job, next job or family.
My small suggestion, just quit job quietly without any fuss.  This may save everyone's reputation.
See, on that guy's shoe, I would have the same feeling, I would also think all that happened is consenting, and I would want more. Think from his perspective, you will understand.
Sometimes we have to protest wrong doing, sometimes we need to let it go, for bigger interest of saving reputation.

Answer 12

please change the job. (employee to RAKHEL).

Answer 13

i couldn't believe the genuineness of this question ... if its true , u should feel lot for your act. how can a mere kiss turn into two time intercourse . After the first session, you would have immediately got out of the room. why did u go for second round? In between the two sessions, what did your conscience tell u? i think that u really looked for the second round, since u r not satisfied enough then. Restrict your sexual desire, and be a loyal wife .

Answer 14

whenever he misbehaves with you try to record it and blackmail him that you will show to media and put sexual harrashment case against him..if possible do that..

Answer 15

be your boss girlfriend in the office and loyal wife in the house..do sex with your boss in the office and do sex with your husband in the house..

Comments

so you are asking her to become an office slut, It is also an option for her.First when we dip into water we feel cold if neck dipped we wont feel cold. For that she has to throw away her dignity and self respect also.

Answer 16

leave u r job that's the best possible way , but if u r not able to do that due to financial problem then it will be very difficult for you to hold on , he will keep putting pressure or find ways to get back in to bed with him sooner or later ,if you really love u r husband and want to really wanted to be loyal to him then , leave the job or don't fall for the pressure

Answer 17

madam u had intercourse twice with him. then what is the issue. just quit the job and search for a new one. other wise you should be very bold to threaten him to complaint to police .
u have 3 options
1) continue relation with him
2) try to explain him you are not willing
3) quit job and search new one

Answer 18

Mallica asked a question, everyone is finding a solution and even fighting.  But where is Mallica?  What does she have to say?
If this is not a made up question to joke around, Mallica, please write something.
We really want to know that real people asking real question and whether people trying to help out are being laughed at or being appreciated.

Answer 19

WHEN WE BECOME THIRSTY AND WE HAVE AGLASS OF WATER, THURST WILLOVER, BUT IN SEX IT IS NOT SO, ONCE YOU DO A SEX YOU WILL SATIASFY BUT AFTER THAT DESIRE WILL INCRASE FOR SEX DAY BY DAY. NOTHING WRONG FIRST YOU HAVE GIVEN THE CHANCE TO YOUR BOSS THAN HE IS DEMANDING. IF YOU HAVE REFUSE FIRST TIME QUESTION DOESNOT ARISE.SO LIVE AMD LET LIVE

Answer 20

1) Go and enjoy ur life with ur boss if u not respect ur Husband
2)Try to find a new job very Quick Then leave that Company if u respect ur Husband

select ur choice. u already done a fault to ur husband

Try the best way

Comments

yes as he say u have to enjoy win him

Answer 21

what if your husband does the same so called accident with his female colleague????just think what if he gives u the same explanation like u gave us at the last para of your ques....
think deeply.....nd u will get ur answer.

Answer 22

If you already have had 2 times intercourse (and u were not drunk or drugged, i guess) then i believe you are a slut yourself. Enjoy making ur boss happy..

Comments

and snatch money & valuable gifts,expensive dining,etc.

Answer 23

dear friend
it seems your subconscious mind is interested in it. if you are really interested and you are feeling that it is necessary, just go with it. otherwise leave the present job and search another one.

Answer 24

First you think that both time you have cooperate with your wish or bye force.if you have enjoyed by your heart you have to continue the relationship. otherwise conface with he, that it is a mistake from yoursite i do not wish to continue.forget me for sex.

Answer 25

Have you coopreted and have you satisfy, and you have discharged means you are willing to do the sex without willingness you maynot discharge.so remember that night what was your cicumtances.

Comments

I think u mast enjoy wint him bec lfe is to enjoy only