Hi Anjali Aunty,

I am a 32 years old female married for last eight years. Im having two kids one boy and one girl both below 7 years of age. But, my hubby rarely comes near me. May be once in 6-7 months. I used to masturbate to satisfy my needs. It was fine till now. But, recently I feel like something is going wrong with me. Whenever I bathe my kids, I feel like something going on in me, like erection of my nipples, etc. Please help me Anjali aunty.

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1. You have not mentioned whether you stay with your husband or not. Firstly talk to your husband and check why he does not want to come near you. Either he is having some physical \ phycological problems or he is enjoying with someone else. If your husband is staying in different place, shift there.
    
   Now coming to you… try to interact with people. If needed you can find a sexual partner with no strings attached. Safe way is to keep maturbating.
    

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   Answer by funfun — July 20, 2010

2. You have not mentioned how you feel you are sexually aroused. Mere hardening of nipples is no indication. And they are hardly seven years old, both of them so I really doubt whether that could be the cause. Maybe you are thinking of something else or of something sexually stimulating while you are engorossed in giving them a bath. So the two need not be linked. Also, why not try and get close to your husband yourself? Have you analysed why he is no longer coming to you? Have you put on weight after your pregnancies? Has your vagina lost its elasticity? You could rectify both. One by yourself and the other with the help of a good doctor. Maybe that will solve your problems.

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   Answer by lonelyguy_00 — July 20, 2010

3. it seems like thers a lack of communication between u n ur hubby.u have to speak to him n tel him abt ur needs.ther cn be many reasons for his behaviour.may be he is very much busy with work, or may be he is having a affair.it can also be tht thers sm medical issue.u have to talk to him.

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   Answer by meenakshi — July 20, 2010

4. i dont know of wat type u r but masterbation is the safest way. and yes better to find a doubtful sex partner ask ur children to give some fun tey will not catch it and neither will remmember.

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   Answer by virgin bond — July 20, 2010

5. Hello Love … after going through your mail, I certainly feel that there is nothing wrong with you just that you are missing the closeness and touch of your husband and that touch is very essential in life, now when you are bathing your kids you feel that aura of being with someone close……. even your kids and thats what gives you a bit of erection …. so after bathing your kids make it a point to masturbate while bathing and by doing so many of your psychological requirements will be satisfied ………… and you will be happy.

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   Answer by adina — July 20, 2010

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   Answer by rohitrko — July 20, 2010

7. Think that They are just your kids. Dont u think that you r feeling lonely. So divert your mind to other hobbies. You Better talk to your hubby about what you r facing the situation.

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   Answer by Bingo — July 20, 2010

8. Simple solution talk ur husband and tell he is not spend time with u . Otherwise marry with other.

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   Answer by MARIUMSHAH — July 20, 2010

9. Dear,

   are u sure that those 7-8 year old kids are making u feel sexually excited, or is it that u see them and start missing your husband more? please talk it out to him…u miss him and try to make things work at a smoother level physically and emotionally

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   Answer by lusty_lover — July 20, 2010

10. hi..
    to be true i have gone through similar incident.. but not my mom.. her divorced elder sister 43 was wit us to take care of me as my parents were working. she used to bathe me even when i was 13-14. she take off her clothes when she bathes me saying that clothes my get wet.. but i got used to it. but she soaps my groing too much, i have also touched her parts.. but v never had any thing out of that bath room..
    so this is normal 4 some woman / even men

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    Answer by rajeeve007 — August 24, 2010

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