Dear Anjali Aunty,

I am a 28 years old unmarried male, I am in love with my distant cousin sister. The relation is like this my grandfather and her grandmother are brother and sister, my dad's elder sister is married to her dad's elder brother. Her brother and me are classmates and I am not good as her in studies and don't have a good job also.

M real problem starts here, I have a relation for nearly 7 years with my landlords wife who is 8 years older than me at first I thought I am love with her but for last 2 year I realised that it is just a physical attraction and sex. But now I am in love with my cousin and want to marry her she is 23 years now and I don't know whether she loves me or not, I don't know what to do further and how can I propose her?

Anjali aunty you might heard such kind of problems earlier, can you please help me?

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1. it took 7 years for u to realise that its not love with ur landlord's wife. so how can u be sure that u r now 'actually' in love with ur distant cousin? i think it is again physical attraction towards ur cousin. if its not and if its genuine love then there is no second thinking. go to her and simply tell her what u feel about her. a proposal need not be poetic like they show in movies. u just need to say what u feel 'truly'. just do that.

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   Answer by dilip8815 — July 8, 2010

2. Firstly, You know it very well that girl from whom you love is in your relation. So forget her..
   Secondly, You make a relation with your landlord wife and you realise after 7 years that it  was just an attraction that's not good. 
   The Third and important one you don't know that 23 years girl love you or not ?
   The age diffrence between you and her is 5 years. Suppose the girl loves anyone else and she has physical relations with anyone else then you don't think about marriage with her. i am sure………….
   So, Marriage is impossible. Search good job first make your career and do marriage where your parents said  to you…………

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   Answer by rahul123 — July 8, 2010

3. Well did it take you 7 years to realise that what you felt for your landlord's wife was just physical attraction? And anyway what did you expect to get loving a married woman? Now you feel you love the girl but again are not sure. So what do you intend? Have sex with her for another 7 years to try and be sure?? Get on in life. start earning and then think of having a family. And till then you have time to understand whether what you feel is mere sexual attraction or something more.

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   Answer by lonelyguy_00 — July 8, 2010

4. Thanks 4 all u  Suggestion I would like to comment on lonelyguy_00 what do u think that if any one have done a mistake means he/she to be hanged and to u we love ourself even after doing mistakes, than how can we hate others for their 1 mistake. yes I have done a blunder and i want to come out it. And for your more informanation  I loves her and I will surely found out a way and it will never hurt me if she decline my proposal because I loves her and I must have to tell her how much I love her if cannot tell her I will never came to know what is she thinking about me. 
   thanks guys for your valuable comments.  

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   Answer by joe22 — July 9, 2010

5. i think daily daily eating pulse are you bore after that you realized why m i eat the pulse i want be chicken
   huuuuuuuuuuu…………….huuuuuuuu…………..m i Right??????????

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   Answer by maddy1983 — July 9, 2010

6. it can be tht ur just attracted n nothing more thn tht

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   Answer by meenakshi — July 16, 2010

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