Hi Anjali Aunty,

I am male of 25 years and I am going to get married in 4 months. I am a little worried about the sex as I haven't had sex till now. I don't understand how to cope up on our first night as it may happen that I ejaculate during oral sex only. I am a little worried about such a situation.

Please advise me how to make my first night happy and share if there are any exercises by which I can control premature ejaculation or over excitement that I am having for 4 months. Please help me.

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1. I am 40 year married man with expirience I am telling. Don't be excited on your first night. Try be calm. Do some meditation from now onwards.There is no excersice to stop pre ejaculation. Your wife if she is from village backgroud she will be scared of first night. But if you both are from city back ground just enjoy sex on first night. Do ORAL SEX IF SHE IS READY. Show your interest immediately to do sex on first night. Don't reject sex. Try to open your wife clothes immediately & tell your wife to open your clothes. Rest will happen. There is no sex education. Everything will be automatic. 

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   Answer by tilakm — June 21, 2010

2. just dont be over excited else premature ejacaulation will happen. masterbate a couple of haours before u go for the final frontier. dont be scared and be confident. its a night to enjoy eachother and not a test to prove anything.

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   Answer by barigadbad — June 21, 2010

3. first you drink too much milk then you will strong fight hehe, then you  talk with your wife about her hobby,like etc, then do it slowly slowly horny to start kissing her lips, then neck and touch her boobs, then in first night start missnory position if she will also follow you then change your style but do first night normal position because all girls in first time so much shy, its starting style then after you self do whatever you want..!
   
   good luck
   

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   Answer by johncen786 — June 22, 2010

4. My dear to be Groom,
           First of all I would like to congratulate for getting married and i wish you all the best for your married life.
   Honey what do you think First Night or suhaag raat is all about? When ever we hear this term suhagraat emotions starts building up we get a gloomy image of a beutifull girl waiting with a large ghoongat kool atmosphere dim lights flowers all around.
   First night is one of the best moment of any married couples it is the night to re-unite. re-uniting of two individual human beings re-uniting of two different souls and they carry it on for the rest of the life. Sad to see matured uncles are suggesting stupid things.
   Sweet heart… First night is not only about fucking each other as I said its about two souls meeting with each other. That is the first time you meet with your better half that is the first time you see her. Dont forget you have to live your entire life with her. Remember Sex is not the only thing to do on that greatefull night there is lots and lots of things to do before that.
   First of all try to loosen up with your bride start with introductions if you both are strangers talk to her talk about her family ask her interests Women loves to talk they just cant stop talking. switch your talks to romantic version…. praise her priase her beuty praise her hairs praise her lips and eyes. women loves to get praised and thats the secret of successfull maried life. Let her feel that you care for her show her that you have started loving her and you will make her life happier and let her feel that you are the person with whom she will get all the respect dignity honour which she deserves. You know honey, God has blessed us magic and that is our communication skills our words our talks we can concore any thing. so use your tounge well enough.
   Now coming to your main concer and thats 'SEX' well dear though its not very necesory to have sex on the very first night but if you wont do on the first night you will always feel that hey man there was something missing on our first night. The problem is now a days people are addicted with porn movies and they think that doing sex is the only way shows in porn movies, no dear sex is an art it is a feeling which flows from one body to antoher. The thing which a groom do to his bride on the first night is not SEX its LOVE MAKING. just love her and its on you how you love her when you think that you are doing sex with a woman you will become a what shall I say a horney animal or a machine performing sex just keep in your mind that you are loving your bride. You know how love is isnt it sweet dosent it include care and effection. Put your sweetness care and effection when you start love making with your bride what ever you do with her just think that you are loving her. Dont panic about you are virgin and that is the first time you are going for sex. Dear though things have changed but India is still a modest country and there might be atleast 50% grooms and brides who went as a virging on there First night bed.
    
   Thanks
   hydspesial

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   Answer by hydspesial — June 22, 2010

5. Good luck

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   Answer by raj009 — June 22, 2010

6. if ur scared wat will be the case wit ur wife?i guess she will also be scared too.u have to be calm.just try n be urself.ur wife will be expecting sex on the wedding night.i wud say dont go for oral sex on the first night.intercourse wud be ideal.she may be very nervous as u so best wud be intercourse

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   Answer by meenakshi — July 20, 2010

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