Dear Anjali Aunty,

I am 26 years old. I have a healthy sexual relation with my girlfriend for the last 1 year. For the past few times, I am having a problem. I am not able to ejaculate. 10 minutes or 15 minutes or more pass but I cannot ejaculate. I keep on pumping for minutes but it doesn't feel like anything at all.

Is this a problem? Ultimately we both get tired and we don't enjoy sex. Please help.

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1. i thing u r sex time is more try more fore play 

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   Answer by Prasad — May 30, 2010

2. Dude relax. Take tensions out of your mind during intercource.
   Just let body feel emotions of enjoyment. Rest nature will do everything.
   Happy living.

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   Answer by TheBlazing — May 30, 2010

3. ur lucky guy…so many guys wud want to be in a situation you are rite now in.just be happy.u will definetly come.dont worry

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   Answer by meenakshi — May 30, 2010

4. get other things out of your mind leave all work and lifes tensions out side the bedroom have foreplay for some time before you start intercourse and all will be fine enjoy with a free mind.

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   Answer by Rajesh007 — May 31, 2010

5. 
   Usually a longer time is not bad at all.  But sometimes its irritating.

   I have a simple analysis, on sex, its more of mental touch than physical act.  If you are not having an ejaculation as expected, your mental attachment has gone down on her, its only a routine fuck you two are having. 

   You should mention your frequency of fuck and masturbation habit.  Might help to understand what is wrong.
     When you have sex with her next time, please dont fuck her, try to make love to her.  And again, a making love is like a full course meal, have a nice foreplay (the apetiser), have a nice slow fuck (a main dish) and have a lot of cuddling on afterplay once she reaches orgasm, you reach climax (like a nice desert).

   Do keep us posted.

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   Answer by Oye … — May 31, 2010

6.  
   Listen you have to be mentally fresh, active, and sensuous too… then only you can come . By this what I mean is that if you are tired in the work place or mentally thinking of any problem or having a desire or need and planning to fulfill it, or not feeling totally secured in life due to one reason or the other….. then the same thing happens …… just take it easy, cool down and before you go to bed take a shower and leave all your problems in the bathroom and let it washed away with the water and go in the drain, then you come to your wife feeling happy and relaxed and believe me both of you will love doing sex and will come soon too…….. Hurray…….. 

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   Answer by adina — July 24, 2010

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