Dearest Anjali Aunty

I am a 19 year old guy and I need your advice.

About a month ago I started talking to this girl and we hit it off from the start. We texted day and night but I also found out some things about her. She admitted to me that she played other men just so they would like her, break their hearts and play them again. She told me that I wasn't one of them because she actually likes me and says I am too sweet for her to do that to.

Recently I made the mistake of telling her that chances were, she was just playing me like all the other guys she's had before me. I told her this when she was already upset. She is extremely sad that I didn't believe her when she told me she wasn't playing me and I spent three hours apologising and she said she was fine but I seriously doubt that and now she doesn't want to talk to me.

Please, any help or advice you could offer would be greatly appreciated. Lately we've been talking less and less. Thank you for your time.

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1. Don't take such relations seriously. They might affect your potential in terms of living. She can be playing with your heart and by thinking and apologizing again and again you might be giving chance to her to play with you. Instead you should now stop talking and texting her. This might give her some hint that you are the first boy not interested in her and might make her respect you.
    
   Overall, such relations should not affect your mind.
   Enjoy life.

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   Answer by Naughty Boy — April 4, 2010

2.  
   Manuel,
     Yours is a confusing statement how every, What you want to ask now you have let her pissed off and now what you want to get. On one hand you are asking is she playing with you and other point you want to know how can you cure your relations with her and at the same time you belive that she is playing with you.. huh whats that dude?
   As far as my knowledge is concerned she has already finished her game with you she played and left you.
   better find another person.

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   Answer by hydspesial — April 4, 2010

3. If you want to play the game knowing what is on the other side, go ahead cry over it. Find something better, there are plenty of fish in the ocean.

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   Answer by sivamdavid — April 5, 2010

4. I think this site was for sex related queries.. if anyone will ask any kind of questions here.. then someday we can see the questions asking 'I want to buy a car, which is the best car in the market'..
   huh.. Dude.. this is not a love guru site.. get along with your girl.. even then if you have any questions about ur sex life.. u can definitely pop in here..

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   Answer by enigma56 — April 5, 2010

5. BOY O BOY
    
   I'VE RETURNED HERE AFTER APP. 2 WEEKS 
   AND TELLING ONE THING TO MANY PEOPLE THAT -
    
   COME TO REALITY
    
   I'M STRONGLY RECOMMENDING YOU THAT GET OUT OF THIS IMMEDIATELY
   LISTEN TO ME I'VE ALREADY SPEND THIS TYPE OF SITUATION BEFORE
   FROM MY PERSONAL EXPERIENCE I CAN TELL YOU YOU MAY GET INCURABLE   PAIN FROM THESE TYPE OF RELATIONSHIP
   SO FORGET HER AS SOON AS POSSIBLE
   AND SHE ALREADY TOLD YOU SHE BROKE MANY HEARTS
   SO ITS NOT SAFE TO TRUST HER
    
   ALL THE BEST 

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   Answer by sexhunter — April 6, 2010

6. Dont take the relationship seriously just enjoy it as long as it lasts.

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   Answer by Rosh — April 7, 2010

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