Hello Anjali Aunty,

This is Janvi. I am a  25 year old woman from Gurgaon. I live with my parents here. My younger sister who was 14, used to stay in a boarding school. I am in troubled about her. She used to come home after every 9 or 10 months.

From the last two years, I have noticed her breast growth. Firstly I think it may be of due to her growth but when she is back home this time, I noticed a shocking change in her. Her breast have grown like a 20 year old girl. She is wearing a 34 inches bra. I have no problem in that but one night, I saw her standing nude in front of a mirror and she was pressing her boobs. I was shocked. I scolded her for that and she start crying and went to sleep. At this age she got horny.

Will this cause us problem in future? I think this is all due to her boarding school friends. Shall we send her again there? I don't want to spoil her life. Kindly suggest me please.

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1. Dear Janavi,
   Nice to see your concern toward your sister. Talking about breast size well being a woman you know it better that it depnds on person to person but whats alarming is her act which you have described.
   What are you still waiting for?Cant
   you get she is getting towards sex neither you nor any other person knows here what is she into over there but what ever she is doing she might not be doing the right thing.I
   ts better to change her boarding place or if possible let her be in your home.

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   Answer by hydspesial — April 4, 2010

2. about the quick increase in breast size : it depends girl to girl..
   about the squeezing thing : well I think that admiring our own body is not a sin! I mean even you must have admired ur body once, moreover 14 is the starting of the teens, the most vulnerable age for a child. Yes, we cannot ignore the fact that in hostel girls tend to go the wrong way.
   please first of all look into the complete issue, scolding is not the answer at this age.

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   Answer by ayushi69 — April 4, 2010

3. Janvi, It is Quite natural For A teen aged Girl To Fondle Her Own Breasts, whatever Be The reason .. Just Relax, the boarding School Might Help her actually To Face This Big Wild world .. This was Natural I Thought, Am I Wrong ..

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   Answer by rockstud — April 23, 2010

4. Hi,
    
   There is a tendency to judge a girl's horniness by her breast size. whats wrong with you all. If a 5 year old girl is growing breasts then thats alarming. any girl's breasts will start growing from 10 years till 25 and again after pregnancy. its like any other part of the body. dont suspect your girl's chastity this way. if guys think silly that canbe understood. you are a lady and you too think this way? well 14 years old girl could surely  have 34 inch size. i had. my sister had. one of my cousins had 36 at that age. its normal. as far as fondling your own breasts, hey comon, i am sure every girl does that. Janvi, i think you are just jealous that your little sis has outgrown you.
   at the same time, i am not saying that nothing could be happening in her school. all i am saying is that there is no connection between this and that. i hope you understand.

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   Answer by cool_girl — July 31, 2010

5. I dont think her behavior is wrong. This process is normal for all who enters in pubirity age. Dönt judge your sister only on this small issue. Without knowing anything dont blame her boarding campus..

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   Answer by Bingo — August 10, 2010

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