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I caught my mother and brother having sex. I am really confused – what do I do?

Dear Anjali Aunty,

I am a 22 year old unmarried girl from Kerala, India.

I finished my MBA course staying at a hostel & came home recently. I have a very loving mother & brother. On the week I came home, I heard some noise from my mother's room sometime after midnight & saw my mother having intercourse with my brother through the slightly open door. They didn't know I saw them. It happens at least thrice a week.

I was really confused as I had never heard about such an incident before. Both my mother and brother are working in a Multinational Company. My mother is in top position with a doctorate (Ph.d). My brother has just joined the same firm as an engineer. My mother is 45 years old and brother is 23.

Should I tell them that I saw them or should I act normal as I don't want to embarrass them? My brother was my mother's pet from childhood. Our father died 10 years ago. I love them (mom &bro) & they love me very very much. I cant hate them. They are my life. To add to my horror, I saw a pregnancy test kit in my mother's bag 2 days before.

I feel like crying. What should I do?

Asked by maria rachel on March 15th 2010

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dun interfere in anything.
Let the things happen as they r.

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Answer by tajredhero — March 15, 2010
I think let nature take it turn, may be they want you to know what they are doing, or why would they make noise or leave the door sightly open , think about it, may be they want you to also join them, be prepared for this, if you really have made your mind not to join them and let them live happy as they are living , stop coming home on hoildays and find a new place to live and a job , if possibe a new town and get married and start a new life without thinking of what they are doing, live and let other live their life

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Answer by babal — March 15, 2010
Bad incident. Your mom is without sex for 10 years from your father. May she is in need of it. So she gone to the extent to work with your bro. She may thought of going outside which may spoil her name. More over you have seen the kit. This is to make her safe from preganancy from your bro.

So the aspect is to enjoy her sex life. Its bad to work with own son. Even if you warn is it sure whether they will quit of this habit ? so its better you keep quite. But make sure find a right partner for you at the earliest to get married and go out this place. because once this issue becomes a news you cant find a right hubby for you.

try to get rid of this place. Let them do what ever they want to go ahead because your mom's age is like that.

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Answer by ssn — March 15, 2010
Act very intelligently and try to bahave as if u dont know it and inbetween try to make them feel that incest is bad by tell them incidents and all..try to woke up their soul,thats the only option,,u can only stop by waking up their soul and no other way….keep trying and u settle down wid some girl and get married..it shud not impact ur life..but do try to stop it in a very intelligent manner..

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Answer by superadvisor — March 15, 2010
Hi Maria,
dont worry about the sexual life of others.
you can give your mother itself a shock by having sex with your lover(may be me) at your bed. Then argue of the thing you have seen.

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Answer by anupasexyy — March 15, 2010
Its too good for a story-plot, too bad for a reality. You heard this honey, "curiosity killed the cat". Please dont get too curious on other people's business, else when other people interfare on your business, you cant ask them to go away.

If you feel like crying, do cry till your heart melt, and make sure its the last time you are crying for this, never take a pain on your heart for a crime that you havent committed.

Think of your mother as a 35 year old widow who brought you two up. She might be having some affairs before which you dont know, she is having another one. And this time its at home, just to be discreet. And think of your brother as your mother's office employee. If it wasnot him, might be some other employee from office.

I personally dont support incest, and to be very specific any sex between mother-son and father-daughter. If they are committing immoral act, please pretend it was a bad dream and dont walk in to their rooms again. I have a feeling they intentionally kept the door open and made noise, so that you also get the smell fast and get habituated. My suggestion is, plot is good, dont let it happen. Have cool sleep on your own, dont peep again, just ignore the fact that anything wrong is going on. As far as I know, incest is not genetic, its not going to come upon you unless you choose. You dont have to get mad, sad or feel bad. Be firm on your life, forget the whole thing and dont get close to your brother. He sure has some hidden agenda in mind, cause fucking a 45 year old pussy is not as pleasurable as a young one. When he crossed the line with his mother, he knows he can cross again with his sister.

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Answer by Oye … — March 15, 2010
insted of having sex with outer mens ur mom has taken a right decesion .. if she trust outer mens the from 1 men to other the again other she might become a whore .
thats why i think its right ,,,
as she is also a human she also needs all those Fun

I think u can also join her if u want …

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Answer by dubaidon — March 15, 2010
Hi Maria
it was Shoking to hear about this,.UR mother had many ways to fullfil her sex but not with her own son.Any way dont interfear in them.Just forget wht u have seen & concentrate on Ur Studies

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Answer by Rajesh — March 15, 2010
LET THEM DECIDE THERE PRESENT AND FUTURE THERE SHOULD BE RIGHTS AND FREE WILL TO ANYTHING THEY WANT .. DO NOT TELL THIS TO ANYONE AND NO SHARING AND NEVER EVER TRY TO MAKE THEM GUILTY IN FRONT OF U BY TELLING THEM THERE NAUGHTY SECRET ..ITS THERE CHOICE AND THEY PROUD TO HAVE SUCH RELATIONSHIP .EVERY SINGLE PERSON HAS RIGHT TO CHOOSE PATH THEY FEEL PLEASURE IN .

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Answer by KHAN FROM ISLAMABAD — March 15, 2010
i m really shocked shocked …. hey i m a malayalee too.. wats is happening to these educated malayalees??oho god. i can understand u r feeling well.u totally fucked up here. u knew about our society better naa?? this will totally effect u r life too.so be careful, be silent .thats the only thing u can do. u saw nothing, forget all as a bad dream… keep it as a secret to grave, never share it with u r best fnds or somebody.i appreciate u still love them. i dont think they did it, to let u know. if u try to advise them, u cant change them. u r late now. i m sure if u did so it will end in a fuckin tragedy. just pray for them. marry soon and get out of this hell. aarenkilum etharinjal pinne poyi thoongi chakunnatha bedham. so show ur maturity here. i really appreciate the replies above.

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Answer by romy — March 15, 2010
Remember two things in life:
1. Don't panic
2. Never forget the first one
Solution:
1. Never ever mention that u know abt their relationship. U never know what ur family is up to. If ur brother approaches u with same intention, tell him clearly in straight words that u r not interested.
2. Try to find a career far away from home. Try to avoid going to ur home. The more u stay there, more is the possibility of problems. Never ever DISCUSS THIS ISSUE WITH ANYONE. Forget hat u saw something like that ever. Not even u got married to someone.
3. Find a hubby. Do not trust on ur mother and brother. Get a guy for urself through matrimony sites and get married ASAP.
4. Focus on ur studies and career. Do not let urself distracted by these incidents. Never suffer for something u are not responsible for. Also behave normally with ur family as nothing has happened.

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Answer by ash300 — March 15, 2010
If you are feeling too bad about it, Its better to stop thinking about it. Both of them are mature adults and you can do nothing if they are willing. You are well qualified and so you obviously have better things to focus on, like your career for example.

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Answer by half-doc — March 15, 2010
If you think about your mother then may be she is doing correct though incest sex is forbidden. I think you should leave this place as early as possible. May be it hamper your life in near future. Don't explore it anywhere.

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Answer by ibbd — March 15, 2010
Hello,

There is nothing to worry in it. As mother coulod be a best lover for any man, I dont think it is a sin. If they both are convinced, they can go ahead, have sex and live like a husband and wife. It is true love and it is highly divine One constraint is not to have children – that even to avoid any heriditory effect on the child. In my experience, I know many sons having sex with her own mother and living so happy. It is really God like thing. Instead of having sex with outsiders, who may carry decese and disrespect from society, I would recommend every man to have sex with his own mother, when in need. you know, that is the best way to make one's mother happy. For your information, I am having sex with my mother last 7 years and we live like husband and wife.

-Raj

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Answer by Raj — March 16, 2010
Irrespective of th norms, values and taboos. The best option is that you keep your lips tight and eyes wide shut. In case you opt to discuss, there are chances that you may end up doing the same within your family. Sice your brother and mother have already accepted each other and you are an outsider regarding this incest r/ship. So better keep yourself away or the comfortable environment of your house and your love to your family may pave a way for you also, to fall into it.However whatever you do, give it a deep thought without being emotional.

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Answer by lanky — March 16, 2010
Hi Maria,
It pains me to hear whats goin on….

Stay away from home my dear and most improtantly-" Pray for ypur mother and brother. Yes they are in the wrong path…pray that you may have the grace to forgive them and that they might turn away from this sin and lead normal lives…Believe in the power of prayer-Remeber God hears and he answers too…"

And my dear never fall in to any such sins….

My name is Moksha…I can guide u only if u want my help…My email id is mokshapandit@yahoo.com

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Answer by X — March 16, 2010
Despite being a religious nut and being a scientologist i would condemn incest. Yes sex is a basic need no doubt you'r mother needs to have sex but that does'nt means she has to have sex with her son. Get rebel protest in a non violent attitude make them understand what they are doing is wrong. If they understand you'r life will be full of energy and if they dont you will live alife with a light soul Do good thats the only way to live with a free soul ! Think about it !

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Answer by kalia — March 16, 2010
Hi Maria,
If ur mother and brother is doing sex with their consent then their is nothing to worry. Actual god only made man and woman and we made restriction due to genetic problems. However, if no child is wanted, their is nothing, why they should not get enjoyed. If u are interested to get joy, u may also join.
Please let me know yr decision
Praveen

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Answer by praveen02942 — March 16, 2010
I'm hearing more and more about such incidents. Incest seems to be getting more awareness and there have been many arguments about it.

To answer your question, what are you going to acheive by telling them that you saw them. Life can go as it is. Just ignore it. If it bothers you, leave the house for a while during their sex sessions. Both your brother and mother are adult and you should let them figure things out on their own. This thing will pass soon… they will understand on their own that they can't do it forever.

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Answer by sivamdavid — March 16, 2010
Hey u better behave normal atleast one person in your home is normal whatever the do leave them alone even they call u just don join them…….
u have only one life lets live with morality miss Maria Rachel

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Answer by mahesh — March 16, 2010
Dear Maria
                     hi maria jus think like this:
                    (a) ur mom is doing sex with ur dads sperm , so she may think of doing with her husband .

                    (b) ur brother i,e son is satisfying his moms need.

                     don think too much then u may find it as issue, don think abt society, anything . jus think everybody is happy.let the life go as it is. u must make urself understand is not wrong . bye

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Answer by dinesh — March 16, 2010
Greetings to all….
I read through a few replies and found that most of them have asked you to stay silent and let it happen. I would not point it out as a bad response because sometimes silence is the best solution. The sexual practice between your mother and brother is out of norm and should not be encouraged. I say this from a family perspective. You say you are from Kerala and I think most south Indian societies demand that individuals and families follow certain customs. Thinking about your future and that of your brother's I suggest that you, calmly, with all your love talk to your mother first about this. Explain to her that this is a sin and if she desires to she can marry again and find a new life partner. Since she is holding a top position in the company and being a very educated person I am pretty sure that she will find a man to her desires (which should not be her son). This suggestion of mine is also to safe guard your brother's future. Once he gets married to another lady…what will happen? If your mother has not thought through all this then you being a part of the family and all more since you love them both, it is your responsibility to explain the consequences. Talk to your mother first. Let your mother understand the situation and then let her explain it to your brother. Then I suggest you get married soon and move on into the new family. I cannot say this will be of much help to your mental situation because what you saw will always remain with you. I suggest you talk to your mother…calm and lovingly….take care…bye.

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Answer by Shani Kurian — March 16, 2010
Oh God, again the same incestuous question and again a lot of answers (23) attracted to it.
I personally think no mother can do this to her son, that too wants her daughter to peep into her room what she and her son were doing in their room.
Very bad story. Please come up with some genuine problem, you might get the genuine answer that could prove useful to you and the other readers also.

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Answer by salonigaur — March 16, 2010
Hi maria…………
I can understand your feeling and i can give u a solution.First u have to find out that whether it is your brother or mother who is interested in having sex.To find it act infront of ur brother that ur intersted in sexual intercourse ie.do some sexual things like putting ur hands in pussy so on……. as though u were not seen by him.See that he must think ur not observing him.then if he comes near u to have sex he is culprit else try to act as homo with ur mother by licking her pussy etc… if she responds she is matter concern after finding the person see that he/she is married as early as possible it may be ur brother or a second marriage to ur mother.I think this solution gives u some relief and finally if u like it reply me

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Answer by sravani — March 16, 2010
Maintain Status quo. Don't let them know that you know the affiar. By the way, what do you loose if they satisfy themselves sexually mutually? Since you love them, you also want to see them happy. Just keep mum. Live your life and let them live theirs'. Earth will not fall apart if they continue to suck and fuck.

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Answer by arnold — March 16, 2010
that's really wrong going on. if your mother want to have sex, she being marry again with another person. or if she have any problem to get marry to another man, she try sexual tools for her, i have seen many tools for sex. she did really wrong with her own son. & son iz really moth3rfuck3r. this iz totally insane. Maria you must leave the place or don't let them know that's u saw them. find a Good person for your ownself, don't tell him the story of your family. and living your life.

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Answer by FrankShk — March 16, 2010
First you try to stop there.. Dont Allow do there again… if u leave that matter ,then your life future will be safe but your borther's wife future will be spoiled …dont think selffishly..Do some decision with safe way.. its my option Take your mother/brother (may be you only go to consult for your mother/brother) sexologist for cosulting .. God bless you…

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Answer by sai — March 17, 2010
darkmaker, please read the entire post before answering…. It clearly states that the father is no more….You will be banned if you continue to give one answer and that too without reading the question posts.

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Answer by sivamdavid — March 17, 2010
If you love them then shut up. Keep yourself in your mother place becoming widow at the young age. She is your mother not a saint she had needs she is fulfilling. She thought about the family that's why she has not called outside man (as you said she works in MNC) What is happening it is in the house no body knows it. Just close your eyes.

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Answer by kanu — March 17, 2010
hi, i think u should tell them that u have seen them and try to convince them that they shoul not do this. try to ur level best and if they still dont agree then let them do what they want. and find a boy of ur choice and marry with him and go away from that place and then u can occasionally meet them if u want. when they will not in front of ur eyes then it will hurt less. god bless u

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Answer by naveen — March 17, 2010
BULLSHIT.

TRY TO MAKE STORIES WHICH ARE "FIT TO BE BELIEVED".

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Answer by Suresh — March 17, 2010
dont think about it continuously. it is their business. just see is there any change in behaviour with u. personally i confess i have relation ship with my mom for the last 6 years, but it doesn't mean, either i nor she misbehaves with other family members. we take care of the secret and nobody suspects. now i am married. all it started before my marriage, when i went to my house during university education. but dont tell them that u know their secret. it will spoil entire family relations.

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Answer by snil — March 22, 2010
I would like to say….All you are wasting time in replying a pure fake question…O foolish men….does it ever happen in reality?? imagin, If somehow, anyhow it happened…would anyone like to spread his home affairs and spoil his family prestige and dignity to the Public…….Awake people…condemn these questions and questioners.
rather it is better to say "Boss it is your family matter we are not here to interfere into someone's family matters"
ppl here are making you fool around and YOU are being fooled knowingly and replying to this bogus question per your best knowledge and advise……..Waah

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Answer by decentboy — March 22, 2010
does this things really happen in real life
unbelievable and disgusting

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