Dear Anjali Aunty,

I am a 25 year old girl from Mumbai. I am sexually active since my college days. However since the last 18 months or so, I find myself getting attracted to much older men – 60+ old men. I have also had some intimate encounters with few older men I met through social networking sites.

Somehow I enjoy my sexual encounters with older men much much more satisfying then with men of my age, physically and mentally too. I am worried, because I am looking at settling down, and waiting for "Mr.Right", but my idea of "Mr.Right" is not acceptable to the society.

Any advice?

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1. Hey Please Dont Do Like This !!
   Change Your Thinking Change Your Life …..society Cant accept your Idea..
   But Why You want older men when their are many YOUNG ONEs (Below 30)
   Think about it After all It is Your Desicion.
   Thank You..

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   Answer by hELLO — March 15, 2010

2. A few questions. Are you sexually satisfied with the encounters with older man? If yes, can you analyse the things which gave to more pleasure? Are you attracted to the features of older man like baldness? I am asking this because I have heard that for some females, a baldhead is a turn on, i.e fetish towards bald head.
    
   And most importantly, are you sure that you will be able to get sexual satisfaction by marrying an older man, and for how long?

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   Answer by Eager_Beever — March 15, 2010

3. Hi.. though a common problem., but not too many ladies really admit this fact in public/openly.. However, when it comes to individual liking., absolutely normal, but when talking bout life cycle and family values., sounds real impractical..  One of the reasons why many younger women get attracted to elderly guys married/unmarried (as gathered from many magazines/forums)., since they give lotza attention to ladies + maturity aspects.. You have men of 50+++ marrying young sex bombs., then what's wrong with you fitting in for a your "OLD MR. RIGHT"..  
   If i had to decide, then i wud go as per my liking.. Handling society issues is totally upto oneself (though little tough situation, especially convincing parents)..
   All the best…
     

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   Answer by rockyjasmine — March 15, 2010

4. You are saying that old men satisfy you than younger ones.
   but this is not at all true. If you want proof come to my bed I will show you.

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   Answer by anupasexyy — March 15, 2010

5. Dear Supriya,
    
   Your liking for older men confirms your prolonged sexual love & not sort of a 2 mins. job as must have been the comparison ingrained in your mind.
    
   You had been sexually active right from 18 yrs of age with varied aged guys & now wants to settle down.
    
   Now if it is marriage, go for a guy of your age group for the sake of every body's happiness (your happiness too which can happen any time as the time passes after your marriage) but you may continue to keep affairs with older men discreetly which I am sure may ween off slowly over a period of time, say another 5/8 years.
    
   This period of 5/8 years will act as a good interface for you to come to right track with out giving neck breaks to self & your near & dear ones.
    
   All the best & Regards,
    
   Phoolwati

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   Answer by Phoolwati — March 15, 2010

6. simple.if u like old man then plz do not get married to them.becouse 1 old man can not satisfy u only for a month continously.do not get marry and enjoy diff old people for every night

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   Answer by nishaaaa — March 15, 2010

7. When young blood guys can have a mature women fetish, why cant a young girl have the same?  Afterall its your love, and if your Mr. Right is an matured (I dont like the word old) man, so be it.  And who the hell says its not socially acceptable?  Come on, you are in love with experience people, so be it. 
   Listen to your heart, dont spoil time listening to what other says.  Your this posting will help a lot of jurasic dick to stand without a doubt.  I believe you are a fan of Chini Kum and Nishabd.
   However, dont forget what people will think about you, just another Anna Nicole Smith, married at the age of 26 to a man named Howard Marshall of 89  years of age.  She was known more as money grabber than a girl in love with matured man, with whom he could never have a sex.
   Whats your agenda, the thing between his legs or the wallet?
   Listen to your heart, if it says money is honey, there are plenty of Marshall's at your disposal.
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   Answer by Oye … — March 15, 2010

8. these are all natural human tendency and there is nothing wrong in it .. however it should be seen from your long term inner desires as well as which would be more practical for you. Such desision should never be taken with close eyes and mind but what would be in your best interest…
    
   good luck
    
   Cheers
    
   Dr. Adi

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   Answer by Dr Adi — March 15, 2010

9. hey lady its ur life if u love old men then there is norule that u cant love him…
   so if u love him or want to commited with him then go on…
   why r u waiting…

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   Answer by him221989 — March 15, 2010

10. Persian Formula for match making
    
    (mans age /2)=7
    
    I think for happy maried life you should marry a man of age between 28 to 32, if he has never married. A widower 30 to 42. Be carefull to marry any divorced man. If you have lost your sexual appetite you can marry any man above 55, he can perform off and on.
    
    
    

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    Answer by bukhari — March 15, 2010

11. Dont take your decision for marriage in haste. Your desire for old men is just a temporary feeling; it will fade away in some time; so my advice would be to wait for some time, so that you dont have to repent later.

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    Answer by vijju88_rao — March 16, 2010

12. Most older men take their time in pleasuring their women. They are more experienced in the arts of satisfying a woman and they are more sensitive to the needs of women.
    Young men don't care a shit – they just fuck and leave.

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    Answer by rrr24at7 — March 18, 2010

13. It's natural for women to like older men I think because women like responsible and mature men. So you can't stop something that nature has created because of society. But society is right in saying that marrying a much older man (say more than 40) will have problems. How will you cope when he gets even older? What life will your children have? So I think it's okay to fantasize. But let them only remain fantasies. If you want to marry then you have to be realistic.

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    Answer by Arun — March 25, 2010

14. Its an infatuation…and soon will fade away….. Keep these points handy …
    1) Older men surely get aroused by young women…..so u might had had good sexperience…..but it wont last in long run….
    2) Always marry a "Dick" that can "Prick" u for a long time….this ensure happy and content sexual married life….
    3) Dont go by what star socialites do/say….the fuck around a lot and less at home…..

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    Answer by crazygorgeous — July 23, 2010

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