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Hai Anjali Aunty,

I am a 25 year old woman. I am married for 5 months.

My husband is impotent. He has a organ but it never erects. I / we have tried everything possible and given up hope. I am from a very poor family with 3 younger unmarried sisters. So I cannot leave / divorce him as this will give bad name to my family and may affect marriage proposals for my sisters.

In today's society, even if the male is not ok, the fault is always seen as if in the girl. I have not had intercourse till date. We only indulge in oral sex. Now lately another problem, my husband is slowly trying to brainwash me to having sex with his father (my father-in-law) and get a child and save their reputation. I am in tension and fell like committing suicide.

What should I do. Is there any way out?

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1. do not go for it.. unless you are also interested.
   instead go to sprem bank, if you need kids.

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   Answer by funfun — March 14, 2010

2. i think if adopting a child is possible than adopt. if not  you have very little choice.
    i fear it will be very difficult for you to live without sex  for long time, and sex with your father in law will have other complication afterword. and for how long a father in law can satisfy you. its just a humble request, that leave him, try to make your career. if you can write leeter on ask anjali.com, than it means that you are educated and comfortable with computer, so file for a divorce,it will easily get u as husband is impotant. along side get a job help youself and help your sister.
   its not easy but its the best and practical solution of your problem.

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   Answer by samrendra — March 14, 2010

3.  You must go for it. In this way they will give much attention to you.

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   Answer by MK YADAV — March 14, 2010

4. if u want child go for a another male not his  father  ,,,, ask him to provide one male until ur pregnent ..
   say him if u had sex with his father then he will become like ur child … 
    

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   Answer by dubaidon — March 15, 2010

5. Very tough situation.
   I think its a good option to go for AN OTHER MALE
   NOT HIS FATHER
    
   I want to read experts answers in this issue. 
    
   Take Care

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   Answer by sexhunter — March 15, 2010

6. Then What is the Problem? Go ahead if father in law is equally interested.

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   Answer by praveen02942 — March 15, 2010

7. You have options.
   You can divorce him, that you dont.
   You can have sexless, childless life, you are no saint.
   You can go for spermbank, insemination.
   You can go for other people, will earn a bad name.
   You can follow what your husband suggests.

   Current world is full of options, and the current world is full of craps too. Dont assume we are in most cultured state where people are doing all right things.

   I dont get to religion debate, but getting impregnated by husbands brother or father is nothing new, as far as I know, it was in all religions, Hindu, Muslim and Christian. It wasnot encouraged, but it was there, and is there too. This atlest gives the blood flow, avoid bad reputation of showing as cheap slut.
   You can read Bible on the book of Ejekiel, when there were no men available and the generation needed to flow, two daughters of Prophet Lot were asked by holy angle to get the father toxicated and make love to the prophet and get children. They did that.
   In modern time the same happens, not father maybe, but I dont see what is wrong with your father in law. Dont get emotionally attached, you can go for it without mental attachment and continuous fuck. You can have his child for the sake of carrying generation.
   I am no fan of Incest, but at your situation, go for it, sweetheart.

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   Answer by Oye … — March 15, 2010

8. @sexhunter, This world is full of options. Now my question is, what did you mean by expert. On the above question, is there any real expert who can suggest what is right and what is wrong?
   We all here give our opinion or comment or answer, not deciding expert seggestion or prescription.
   Oye …

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   Answer by Oye … — March 15, 2010

9. Its not the right solution. Hope as you have an access to INTERNET so you have to be from a TOWN or CITY (I dont know where you are from). A lot of other alternate to get preganant as science has gone up. Tell your hubby to find a way like test tube baby or sperm donation way.
   
   
   
   Don't choose the option by your hubby as it may lead to future problem as your father in law will force for sex in future too.
   

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   Answer by ssn — March 15, 2010

10. Kalpana,
    Its very sad to hear your problems. To get a child you dont have to have sex with your Father-in-law, instead your FIL can act as a sperm donor and you can conceive. This situation is not new and this has happened in London. Please find that news in the below URL.
    http://www.ivf.net/ivf/grandfather_to_donate_sperm_for_son_s_child-o3005.html
     
     
     

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    Answer by Paddu — March 15, 2010

11. Dear tell him you want a divorce and that his father wants to marry you. Then you'll become his mother.. and that way he might get a new sister or brother to play with. Fucking retard… what is he? His fathers pimp? 
    Get out of this marriage dear.. its the best thing for you and your life. All the best.

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    Answer by maxblack — March 15, 2010

12. 1. U can go for "Test Tube baby". U can search over net to find more information abt the same. Look for other options like sperm donation, insemination etc.
    Sex with father in law is an option, but think abt the cconsequences:
    1. What if after teh child ur father in law forces u for further sex.
    2. Think abt the child. If somehow he gets to know abt the truth, imagine the kind of mental trauma he will go thru. Also the relationship b/w u and ur husband will ever be same again??? U never know how complex and complicated the situation might become.
    I can understand that  u cannot afford divorce becoz of ur family reputation. But it is not wise that to save one family u will ruin one. 
    If ur jerk husband is so worried abt teh family reputation, ask him to get money and go for test tube baby process. Say a big "NO" to FIL sex. Tell ur husband in straight terms that u r not ready for FIL sex and if he pushes u , u ask for a divorce. Let him get fucking bitch to have SEX with his father.
     
    Think it over and do come back if necessary. We all are her to help u..!!!

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    Answer by ash300 — March 15, 2010

13. hi  u did not have child all will tell about u. so enjoy with ur father in law. if u  go for other guy he tell to his friend  and they also like to fuck u. if ur fath in law fuck u max he fuck u for 5 year and he will not tell to any one. old men give good fuck . dont wat time go and fuck ur father in law and enjoy ur self. if u like fuck boh ur father in law and ur hubby in same bed

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    Answer by priya — March 16, 2010

14. hi kalpana i read wat  u had to say carefully.i would suggest u to talk wit ur hubby n tell him that wat he is asking is not possible.also tell him incase u had done smthing like it then the kid wud be his brother.

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    Answer by meenakshi — March 16, 2010

15. hey kalpana u have lots of options now 
    here ur guy cheated u first. A guy can find it out himself  that he is potent or impotent before a marriage.then why did he got married ?can u trust a guy like him anymore? now he is forcing u to fuck his father ..wer s the trust?? can u sure he won't force to fuck his frnds in future ?? think  yaar…  so better to leave him, prove  him impotent in court. its easy. u wont get a bad image in u r family and in u r  society . u can lead a good life later 
    could u lead a sexless life?? and he just  want a baby ?? u dont want to sex with u r father in law ?? then u can approach a sperm bank.. if he is not ready for a sperm adoption .. he might have another bad intentions. so be careful !! make sure about his plans.
    if u want a sex life and u oke with u r father in law ….then go head. but tell that asshole that u will birth his bro or sis. god will know the rest. make sure that u will never have any psychological problems later.
     
    i personally wont support the father in law concept. there is no insurance for u r future life. were is the safty ??
     yaa this is a  motherfucking world now but u can live like a saint, if u want so.  
    u decide what should be u life.u hav lots of options here…

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    Answer by romy — March 16, 2010

16. hey kalpana
    it is ur life u have to decide. if u r capable of having divorcee get it find a new match & marry him. if not enjoy sex with father-in-law, i assure you that will be more enjoyable as forbidden fruit is much tastier. with that u can rule both father & son.

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    Answer by anu — March 17, 2010

17. surrogate mother is the best solution….where u can conceive wtht any physical intercourse…..

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    Answer by vijay — April 3, 2010

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