Comments on: My husband stopped having sex with me 17 years ago – how do I satisfy myself? http://www.askanjali.com/2010/03/14/my-husband-stopped-having-sex-with-me-17-years-ago-how-do-i-satisfy-myself/ Got questions on masturbation, incest, aunties, marriage, relationships, love or sex? Get the answers google, yahoo, bing or wikipedia won't give you!!! Fri, 10 Sep 2010 15:19:32 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.0.1 By: ankit.help http://www.askanjali.com/2010/03/14/my-husband-stopped-having-sex-with-me-17-years-ago-how-do-i-satisfy-myself/comment-page-2/#comment-26672 ankit.help Tue, 03 Aug 2010 08:34:22 +0000 http://www.askanjali.com/?p=14417#comment-26672 hey come one! Your situation is really terrible, let me admit first of all.. sex is a art and it gives u immense pleasure...whatever your husband has given you does'nt worth to make u think if u r cheating him....just go and have good sex with somebody u trust and will enjoy with you... there will be nothing wrong in it...your husband is not a human being but a non living organism i think....i presume he must also be having sex outside... so go enjoy and post your experience...!! i await your experience....i know 17 years of patience will give you such pleaure when you chuck it out...o m g! hey come one!
Your situation is really terrible, let me admit first of all..
sex is a art and it gives u immense pleasure…whatever your husband has given you does'nt worth to make u think if u r cheating him….just go and have good sex with somebody u trust and will enjoy with you…
there will be nothing wrong in it…your husband is not a human being but a non living organism i think….i presume he must also be having sex outside…
so go enjoy and post your experience…!! i await your experience….i know 17 years of patience will give you such pleaure when you chuck it out…o m g!

]]> By: Kavan http://www.askanjali.com/2010/03/14/my-husband-stopped-having-sex-with-me-17-years-ago-how-do-i-satisfy-myself/comment-page-2/#comment-20644 Kavan Fri, 21 May 2010 03:51:50 +0000 http://www.askanjali.com/?p=14417#comment-20644 Pls mail to me <a href="mailto:ms.kavan@rediffmail.com" rel="nofollow">ms.kavan@rediffmail.com</a> Regards, Kavan Pls mail to me ms.kavan@rediffmail.com
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]]> By: SA http://www.askanjali.com/2010/03/14/my-husband-stopped-having-sex-with-me-17-years-ago-how-do-i-satisfy-myself/comment-page-2/#comment-19651 SA Tue, 11 May 2010 01:28:39 +0000 http://www.askanjali.com/?p=14417#comment-19651 i would suggest u to just take a vacation to some relatives place.. if there is a sister for u... speak to her.. or a frnd. u may getter advice in person from people u know. we can only suggest u compromise or move around find some one for sex thats it. if u luking for sex only u can find it by just trying carefully. best of luck.... i hope u get satisfied.. u can get in touch with guys who would be willing to  have sex with u here as well,,, by replying to their answers... i would suggest u to just take a vacation to some relatives place.. if there is a sister for u… speak to her..

or a frnd. u may getter advice in person from people u know. we can only suggest u compromise or move around find some one for sex thats it.
if u luking for sex only u can find it by just trying carefully.
best of luck…. i hope u get satisfied.. u can get in touch with guys who would be willing to  have sex with u here as well,,, by replying to their answers…

]]> By: Mariann http://www.askanjali.com/2010/03/14/my-husband-stopped-having-sex-with-me-17-years-ago-how-do-i-satisfy-myself/comment-page-2/#comment-17649 Mariann Wed, 07 Apr 2010 12:02:50 +0000 http://www.askanjali.com/?p=14417#comment-17649 Hi Thani. I have sent you a mail in redards to your matter. You can check it out and give me feed backs Hi Thani. I have sent you a mail in redards to your matter. You can check it out and give me feed backs

]]> By: vijay http://www.askanjali.com/2010/03/14/my-husband-stopped-having-sex-with-me-17-years-ago-how-do-i-satisfy-myself/comment-page-2/#comment-17438 vijay Sat, 03 Apr 2010 08:40:55 +0000 http://www.askanjali.com/?p=14417#comment-17438 plz contact me  <span>viju17_1987@yahoo.com</span> plz contact me 
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]]> By: umakant http://www.askanjali.com/2010/03/14/my-husband-stopped-having-sex-with-me-17-years-ago-how-do-i-satisfy-myself/comment-page-2/#comment-17013 umakant Thu, 25 Mar 2010 09:09:45 +0000 http://www.askanjali.com/?p=14417#comment-17013 <strong><span style="font-size: 14px">contect me plz. my email id </span></strong> <strong><span style="font-size: 14px">uma198634@rediffmail.com</span></strong> contect me plz. my email id
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]]> By: Harshad51 http://www.askanjali.com/2010/03/14/my-husband-stopped-having-sex-with-me-17-years-ago-how-do-i-satisfy-myself/comment-page-1/#comment-16501 Harshad51 Thu, 18 Mar 2010 06:52:48 +0000 http://www.askanjali.com/?p=14417#comment-16501 You really have patience..controlled your urge for 17 years....Great. First of all, if you want kep the things within, buy a Dildo.Its easy to procure via net or from behind doors of botique shops. This may atleast ease your Pussie. But if you really need a live Cock then you shoud  try through internet.. Further, not aware of what kind of circle you are around..may fine someone of your age from within who is also in need of your kind of lady. You know the society..there are ladies of your age not interested in sex at all while their husbands are active but cannot get enough..so you need to take chance...both the sides will be safe and thus satisfy the urge. With regards, Harshad51 You really have patience..controlled your urge for 17 years….Great. First of all, if you want kep the things within, buy a Dildo.Its easy to procure via net or from behind doors of botique shops. This may atleast ease your Pussie. But if you really need a live Cock then you shoud  try through internet.. Further, not aware of what kind of circle you are around..may fine someone of your age from within who is also in need of your kind of lady. You know the society..there are ladies of your age not interested in sex at all while their husbands are active but cannot get enough..so you need to take chance…both the sides will be safe and thus satisfy the urge.
With regards,
Harshad51

]]> By: darkmaker http://www.askanjali.com/2010/03/14/my-husband-stopped-having-sex-with-me-17-years-ago-how-do-i-satisfy-myself/comment-page-1/#comment-16379 darkmaker Tue, 16 Mar 2010 23:33:28 +0000 http://www.askanjali.com/?p=14417#comment-16379 Behave like you haveing  a sexual relationship with someone (only some tricks)  that may  make him move, Just Tyr Behave like you haveing  a sexual relationship with someone (only some tricks)  that may  make him move,
Just Tyr

]]> By: FrankShk http://www.askanjali.com/2010/03/14/my-husband-stopped-having-sex-with-me-17-years-ago-how-do-i-satisfy-myself/comment-page-1/#comment-16357 FrankShk Tue, 16 Mar 2010 19:22:44 +0000 http://www.askanjali.com/?p=14417#comment-16357 <span style="font-size: 22px">YOu are the worriior, since 17 years you tolerate him lolz </span> YOu are the worriior, since 17 years you tolerate him lolz

]]> By: Oye ... http://www.askanjali.com/2010/03/14/my-husband-stopped-having-sex-with-me-17-years-ago-how-do-i-satisfy-myself/comment-page-1/#comment-16250 Oye ... Mon, 15 Mar 2010 16:08:03 +0000 http://www.askanjali.com/?p=14417#comment-16250 <p><input id="gwProxy" type="hidden" /><!--Session data--><input id="jsProxy" onclick="jsCall();" type="hidden" />It seems Anjali's not to post mail ID backfired. Most of the answers are with ID... hahahah.</p> <p>Anyway, listen lady, what you are going through is normal phase of life.  Before going through menopause, the craving is more.  At 49, you should be having your menopause, if not, you are about to. </p> <p>This craving will remain for some time, can be 6 moths to 3 years.  But soon you would lose interest.</p> <p>But I am really sorry to hear about your husband not having sex with you for 17 years.  Well, he is a man, must have found some outlet, leaving you alone.  Time to make a peace and start sharing the same bed.  Life is too long to keep a fight.  People get married to have a companion, sex is a secondary part.  The companionship remains, just like the ad of SRK in Dish TV, older you get the need you feel more to have someone beside you.</p>
It seems Anjali's not to post mail ID backfired. Most of the answers are with ID… hahahah.

Anyway, listen lady, what you are going through is normal phase of life.  Before going through menopause, the craving is more.  At 49, you should be having your menopause, if not, you are about to.

This craving will remain for some time, can be 6 moths to 3 years.  But soon you would lose interest.

But I am really sorry to hear about your husband not having sex with you for 17 years.  Well, he is a man, must have found some outlet, leaving you alone.  Time to make a peace and start sharing the same bed.  Life is too long to keep a fight.  People get married to have a companion, sex is a secondary part.  The companionship remains, just like the ad of SRK in Dish TV, older you get the need you feel more to have someone beside you.

]]> By: Vino Kumar http://www.askanjali.com/2010/03/14/my-husband-stopped-having-sex-with-me-17-years-ago-how-do-i-satisfy-myself/comment-page-1/#comment-16224 Vino Kumar Mon, 15 Mar 2010 13:27:22 +0000 http://www.askanjali.com/?p=14417#comment-16224   <span style="font-size:12px"><span>Hi thani,</span></span><span></span> <span style="font-size:12px"><span>Life is once liven and you have wasted most of it. U hv very less time to enjoy your present urge. But as well at this part of life its not advisable to leave your family. I have solved a similar case for one of my friend and she is very much happy and satisfied. She is living happily with her family too. </span></span>  
Hi thani,
Life is once liven and you have wasted most of it. U hv very less time to enjoy your present urge. But as well at this part of life its not advisable to leave your family. I have solved a similar case for one of my friend and she is very much happy and satisfied. She is living happily with her family too.

]]> By: Mariann http://www.askanjali.com/2010/03/14/my-husband-stopped-having-sex-with-me-17-years-ago-how-do-i-satisfy-myself/comment-page-1/#comment-16186 Mariann Mon, 15 Mar 2010 04:42:56 +0000 http://www.askanjali.com/?p=14417#comment-16186 I can truly understand ur problem. Try going for a councilling service. There are many places to go in colombo. In fact I work for one of those. Drop us a mail on sumithrayoo@gmail.com. I'm sure you have heared of our organisation. Feel free to open up and write to us. We should be able to help you with your currrent situation. I can truly understand ur problem. Try going for a councilling service. There are many places to go in colombo. In fact I work for one of those. Drop us a mail on sumithrayoo@gmail.com. I'm sure you have heared of our organisation. Feel free to open up and write to us. We should be able to help you with your currrent situation.

]]> By: apacheking12 http://www.askanjali.com/2010/03/14/my-husband-stopped-having-sex-with-me-17-years-ago-how-do-i-satisfy-myself/comment-page-1/#comment-16136 apacheking12 Sun, 14 Mar 2010 09:19:17 +0000 http://www.askanjali.com/?p=14417#comment-16136 hey frends I completely understand what you are saying....but my point is she is 49 years old.she has already lived the better part of her life....if i were 50 years old I wouldn't give a damn...I mean 50 years she had lived the life that was expected of her as a wife and as a mother...I think it is time that whatever life she has got left she makes the most of it...let us accept that fact that after 60 o maybe max 65 she is not going to enjoy life as much as she can now....thats the reason for my suggestion.....but I do appreciate your feedback..... hey frends I completely understand what you are saying….but my point is she is 49 years old.she has already lived the better part of her life….if i were 50 years old I wouldn't give a damn…I mean 50 years she had lived the life that was expected of her as a wife and as a mother…I think it is time that whatever life she has got left she makes the most of it…let us accept that fact that after 60 o maybe max 65 she is not going to enjoy life as much as she can now….thats the reason for my suggestion…..but I do appreciate your feedback…..

]]> By: Phoolwati http://www.askanjali.com/2010/03/14/my-husband-stopped-having-sex-with-me-17-years-ago-how-do-i-satisfy-myself/comment-page-1/#comment-16126 Phoolwati Sun, 14 Mar 2010 07:26:36 +0000 http://www.askanjali.com/?p=14417#comment-16126 Dear Thani,   Your problem is genuine & I fully sympathise with you.   You have to take initiative to look for that kind guy,  yourself  through your internet skill or your own local contacts.   I can only give you the go ahead signal & support you for this action of yours.   Regards,   Phoolwati Dear Thani,
 
Your problem is genuine & I fully sympathise with you.
 
You have to take initiative to look for that kind guy,  yourself  through your internet skill or your own local contacts.
 
I can only give you the go ahead signal & support you for this action of yours.
 
Regards,
 
Phoolwati

]]> By: frends http://www.askanjali.com/2010/03/14/my-husband-stopped-having-sex-with-me-17-years-ago-how-do-i-satisfy-myself/comment-page-1/#comment-16120 frends Sun, 14 Mar 2010 06:07:00 +0000 http://www.askanjali.com/?p=14417#comment-16120 arey yaar apache...its easy to say but its hard to execute it..especially in countries like india...divorce n all that is considered as a big mistake buddy. n u know how it goes in india esp with women..its pathetic man but what ever it is i have been reading this blog from a long timebut never answered it but i answered for the first time today anjali..great job... arey yaar apache…its easy to say but its hard to execute it..especially in countries like india…divorce n all that is considered as a big mistake buddy. n u know how it goes in india esp with women..its pathetic man but what ever it is i have been reading this blog from a long timebut never answered it but i answered for the first time today
anjali..great job…

]]> By: apacheking12 http://www.askanjali.com/2010/03/14/my-husband-stopped-having-sex-with-me-17-years-ago-how-do-i-satisfy-myself/comment-page-1/#comment-16119 apacheking12 Sun, 14 Mar 2010 06:01:57 +0000 http://www.askanjali.com/?p=14417#comment-16119 First of all try to get yourself financially independent....sweetheart you're already 49 years old.....we get one life and you have spent most of it curbing your desires.....what do you have to lose now ?? you're batting in the second innings...so do yourself a favor...I'm sure that you're kids are grown up and mature enough to understand that you need love too....I suggest get a divorce, move to a new city , get a job and find a guy...make the best of whatever you have left.....or you can go to your death bed hoping that if you had a little courage life would have been different..... First of all try to get yourself financially independent….sweetheart you're already 49 years old…..we get one life and you have spent most of it curbing your desires…..what do you have to lose now ?? you're batting in the second innings…so do yourself a favor…I'm sure that you're kids are grown up and mature enough to understand that you need love too….I suggest get a divorce, move to a new city , get a job and find a guy…make the best of whatever you have left…..or you can go to your death bed hoping that if you had a little courage life would have been different…..

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