Dear Anjali Aunty,

I'm a 21 year old unmarried guy. While having oral sex with my girlfriend, I inserted my penis to about one inch inside her vagina, that too just for a minute or so. The doubt is that I masturbated around 20-21 hours before this act and had not washed my penis. Is there any chance that she could get pregnant? We both regretted later to do this irresponsible act and promised to each other to use protection next time.

But for this time what should we do? Does she need to consume a contraceptive pill such as I-pill or unwanted-72?. Also I noticed some white sticky liquid around her vagina. What was that?

Kindly help. Thank you.

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1. first of all… dont take I-pill or unwanted-72 without a doctor's prescription. these may cause serious side-effects.
   there is very little chance of pregnency.. but you cannot ignore it as the preseminal fluide contain sperm in it.. ask your irl friend about her menstruation..if she was in safe periode .. there will be no problem.otherwise wait for her next periode.. if it missed, consult a gynaecologist. otherwise dont worry.
   regarding the 'sticky liquide' .. it probably her vaginal secretion.

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   Answer by paan — March 10, 2010

2. Paan didnt leave a space for anyone to reply.
   Okay, if you are worried on you masturbated and didnt wash, let me assure, nothing to worry. What may be worrying is, if you had precum when you penetrated, it may knock her as precum may contain sperm. If you could inform her last period, we could tell if you should worry.
   On white fluid, thats a female cum, a lot of girls cant produce this white one, you are lucky. Most girl has a secretion which is watery and thin.
   Dont repeat the same mistake.

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   Answer by Oye … — March 10, 2010

3. I agree with most of what paan has said, except the consulting the doctor for an emergency contraceptive. Though I agree that emergency contraceptives should not be taken in replacement of contraceptive pills (for which you would need to consult a gyno). The thing with an emergency contraceptive like i-pill or unwanted-72 is that they have a 72 hrs limit after which they would not work . Also the effectiveness of the pill goes down as the 72 hour mark is reached. So consulting the a doctor/ gyno would eat up into the time and reduce chances of stopping the pregnancy. But these pills are meant to be used for emergencies only. They contain a much higher dosage of hormones than regular contraceptive pills that need to be taken regularly. Using emergency contraceptives as regular contraceptives will cause severe damage/ side effects. As for your original question, the simple answer is yes. Don't be careless. If in doubt, visit a gyno.

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   Answer by anonemous22 — March 10, 2010

4. arre d incident hapened on tuesday i.e. yesterday and her periods got over on monday.. now tell me???

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   Answer by enigma56 — March 10, 2010

5. hey i confirmed.. her periods got over on sunday..now tell me

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   Answer by enigma56 — March 10, 2010

6. she will be taking d contraceptive pill for d first and the last time..this mistake will not happen ever again before our marriage..so plz tell me what to do for now.. should she take one..24 hours have already passed..kindly reply soon

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   Answer by enigma56 — March 10, 2010

7. what do u mean by "as for your original question"?? You mean she should take one pill na..??
   I already have got an I pill from the market..tell me confirmly tha she should take na.. because going to a gyno is risky.. kindly help and reply soon

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   Answer by enigma56 — March 10, 2010

8. her periods got over on sunday and this incident took place on tuesday (yesterday). And what is safe period.. please explain..and what is preseminal fluid..is it present on my penis or her vagina..
   Thanx in advance.. kindly reply soon

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   Answer by enigma56 — March 10, 2010

9. and what is precum.. how can i confirm whether it was there on my penis when this act happened?? i had urinated sometime before that act..so it might be like washed away from the penis..isn't it so?? please explain…
   Thanx..

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   Answer by enigma56 — March 10, 2010

10. @enigma56, Two days after period is safe period. You can sleep tight without any worry. So can she sleep without any worry.

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    Answer by Oye … — March 10, 2010

11. @enigma56, You dont have to do anything, just sleep in peace.
    No pill is required, I am a bad advocate for having any pills. Next time use condom, and pick the right one. Dont get in a mess with a torn condom.

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    Answer by Oye … — March 10, 2010

12. @enigma56, Not exactly. Precum or preseminal fluid comes out when the dick is hard for sometime, the fluid is not actual cum, its watery, thicker, salty. Cum is the one thats semen, white thick one. Both precum and semen can carry sperm which is the cause of making baby.
    Male organ is engineered by God in such a way that pee and cum cant come together. Precum comes before cum. If you dont cum after precum, than a pee will drain away precum. But a pee before doesnt wash anything.

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    Answer by Oye … — March 10, 2010

13. @enigma56, A simple rule is 5 to 7 days after period and 5 to 7 days before period is usually safe period. In between is danger period.

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    Answer by Oye … — March 10, 2010

14. @anonemous22, I agree with you, emergency pill or morning pills are high dose, has side effects. The monthly pills are better, but still is harmful. It takes monthes to find the suitable one for her body system, during that time a girl can have different side effects, such as, insomnia, obesity, fatigue, drowsyness, weekness, headache, lose apetite etc etc. Still thats 91% protective. Better to settle down on condoms which is 98+% safe..

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    Answer by Oye … — March 10, 2010

15. sure na..no pill is required for now???????????????????????????
    we are worried… but otherwise will just taking that pill once will harm or what… she wont be having any physical contact as I'm moving out of country after few weeks..so ??? what to do.. she should take the pill once and for all, or not????

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    Answer by enigma56 — March 10, 2010

16. Wow,

    This page has become a full fledged chat forum but it is really satisfying to see how constructive you guys have been. I have almost nothing new to add.

    Generally speaking, inserting the penis head during foreplay is a very risky thing to do. 1 – in the heat of the moment, it is very difficult to gauge how much is "just a little" in. 2- The pre-seminal fluid can have sperms and can make one pregnant. 3 – Not to mention, the evils of unsafe sex an its relationship with STDs.

    You got lucky this time. Your girlfriend had her periods and she must be relived. Please carry a condom and use it the next time you two get horny. And don't make her take any pills without a doctor's prescription. These hormone based pills can have severe side effects.

    Have a great sex life. 

    -Anjali

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    Answer by Anjali — March 10, 2010

17. Thank you sooooo much for your kind reply.. but I'm still a bit confused.. can you please once again clear my doubt..
    Her periods got over on sunday..and this act took place on tuesday..is there still any risk of pregnancy..???
    She wants to take a pill to be satisfied herself..that if there is any little chance..it will diminish after taking that pill..can she take it..??? please confirm this one last time.
    And i promise this irresponsibilty will never happen again.. but we are just worried for this time.. Please help as we can not visit a doctor..

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    Answer by enigma56 — March 11, 2010

18. @enigma56,Please do whatever you feel like doing.

    Either you dont understand what we are talking about, or you have decided what you want to do. 

    Go through each and every post carefully once again, if you dont understand, please consult a doctor.  We tried our best, and have failed to convey the message.  If you ask one more question, I will ask the editors to delete all my reply on this issue.  This is not a chat site, I felt you are too much worried, so thought of helping with some clarification, seems everything is going above your head.

    After so many replies clarifying, now I am having a doubt if you are really a 21 year old or an underaged person. 

    
    

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    Answer by Oye … — March 11, 2010

19. I'm really sorry. I know I over-reacted. I'll do as you say. Was just a bit over worried. Thank you so much for your help. God bless you all

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    Answer by enigma56 — March 11, 2010

20. hi enigma
     
    you should consult a doctor soon.man"s precum consists of sperms n as such it can lead to pregnancy

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    Answer by meenakshi — March 11, 2010

21. But read all the above posts… everyone said that everything is fine !!!

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    Answer by enigma56 — March 11, 2010

22. I would like to add one more thing that my penis is uncircumcised.. Was there still precum on it.. as I don't know

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    Answer by enigma56 — March 11, 2010

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