Hi Anjali Aunty,

Sumit here again. Please help me getting out of trouble. This time I have a question about my wife. As I have mentioned in my earlier post that my wife has conceived and we are expecting a precious baby but since then, my wife has developed a somewhat irritating behaviour. She gets angry quite often even over trivial matters and daily my family faces some tension on that account. But the most difficult situation erupts when she refuses meal that time and even for one or two days even when I continuously request her to take meal.

As she is pregnant I am quite worried about her and the expected baby. I have two sweet daughters Urvashi and Saloni and I love them very much but I fear this type of family environment will create bad impact on them too. I love my wife very much and do not want to annoy her any time but all these developments erupt suddenly and I feel helpless.

I don't want to lose her as well as the expected baby. I am giving her medicines (iron etc), fruits and meal accordingly as advised by the doctor but she refuses all these angrily I feel helpless.

Please help me what to do to save my pregnant wife and the expected baby.

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   HAH, are she is mentally sick, please go for the psychologist. Why she is palying with the life of 4 peoples i.e. yourself, your two daughters and the conceived baby. For sure she needs help. Help her and help yourself. 

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   Answer by Jhon — March 10, 2010

2. Hi Sumit, how are you doing?
   On your question, this is nothing abnormal, you dont need to go to a psychiatrist. You have to understand what she is looking for.
   She is looking for comfort. If she doesnt get that, she will be irritated.
   Good that you explained elaborately. I believe she is looking for the baby to be a boy. Often people prefer boy over girl, and when its a girl, a lot of people blames her, where she has no hand. Its the father’s sperm that determines the sex, not mother’s egg.
   What she is looking for is love and comfort. After two girls if again a girl, what people would say, she is irritated on that. Be there, I am sure you love your wife, give a comfort that its a boy or girl doesnot matter, its a healthy baby thats important.

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   Answer by Oye … — March 10, 2010

3. @Oye …
   Sorry reply to Oye's answer link is again not working so I am replying here.
   It doesn't matter for me whether it is boy or girl and I have told her that too many times. I want a healthy baby so that I am worried about. Meanwhile I have convinced her and the things have again become normal. I wish all the members' blessings will be with me to get my wife remain happy with me and take good care of her health and that of the expected baby too.

   Thanks Oye

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   Answer by salonigaur — March 11, 2010

4. Since you already have two daughters, I wonder what makes a third child "precious" in that sense? Precious pregnancies are those in which the couple has many difficulties in conceiving.
   Your case is just of ignorance to use a contraception.

   As far as behaviour of your wife goes, there may be many reasons for it. May be she does not want the child, but is silent only because you think its "precious".

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   Answer by half-doc — March 11, 2010

5. @half-doc,reply to your answer
   Earlier I did not want the third child and it was my wife that insisted for the third child. I agreed because of her wish but after her conception I do not want to lose the child because a life is ready to come to the earth. Every child is precious for me, my daughters and also the expected child.

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   Answer by salonigaur — March 12, 2010

6. i wish both of ur  problems will solve after seeing u r baby's face. best wishes ..

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   Answer by romy — March 13, 2010

7. Good that its normal now. Too much tension during pregnancy is not  good either for the mother or the child.

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   Answer by RolePlaysWorld — March 27, 2010

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