Hi Anjali Aunty and readers,

This is one of the most controversial debates – whether guys are born gay or not? You can't make one gay. If gays are born gay, then sometime it is found that one of the identical twins is gay and the other is straight. There had been plenty of debate taking place and still is going on.

Go through Bible, under Ejekiel or Jihiskel, you will find the reference of two cities destroyed by holy angels named Sodom and Ghomrah where men only had sex with men and the civilization was in jeopardy due to no child birth, its associated with Prophet Lot. The reference of the same two cities in Quran, associated with Prophet Lut.

Can two cities be having an identical born gay issue at a time? So what do you think Anjali Ji and readers, guys are born gay or they are gay by choice?

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1. Hi,

   I think it's by their choice not by birth….

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   Answer by snake eyes — March 10, 2010

2. people are born GAY,  not by choice. It has been proved time again n again.
   In  early 1970s  it was removed from the list of disease as earlier it was thought that being gay or lesbian was a psychological disorder, and they need to be cured,. but after numerous studies all over world specially USA canada , and european countries,it was validated that being is by birth not by choice.it has nothing to do with people choice or upbringing etc.
   one can  be BI-Curious or bi sexual by choice, but Being Gay or lesbian is by birth.
    

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   Answer by samrendra — March 10, 2010

3. I recently learned that "sex" relates to the genetalia of the person, but "gender" is something living that we enact and how we choose to present ourselves to the world. Gender is actually a wide, sliding scale between completely heterosexual and completely homosexual. Most people are naturally near the straight end, but their positions can vary throughout life. Bisexual people are in the middle of the scale, and gays are on the other side. Most straight people have wondered at some point why someone of the same sex is attractive, and most gay people have gone through a straight phase; that isn't unnatural, only a side-effect of experiencing the other side of the scale.
   Gays were born with their desires for the same sex and can't choose to change how they feel. However they can choose to act flamboyant and outspoken, which is the late trend in western countries, or they can also choose to act reserved and be more conservative about their sexual preference.

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   Answer by also — March 10, 2010

4. This is one of the oldest debate of last century, it came out strongly during Kinsey study.
   I always believe gays are gays by choice, due to upbringing, circumstances. Whenever talked about reseaches been made, I always think the gays did the research to justify its not their choice, God made them this way.
   I have a friend, we knew utterly a bottom gay, but soon he got married, he completely changed. I saw a part of Kinsey report, it said guys are tends to like guys more, so are girls, but its the social norm they chose to be straight. I dont believe Kinsey much as the research mode was not accurate. And I agree being gay is no psychological disorder, they have chosen their preference, but born gay is hard to prove. Both the examples are important, specially for twins, one is gay the other is not, what special chromosm one gained over other?
   Be gay or dont be gay, thats no big deal. Have safe sex and be happy.

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   Answer by Oye … — March 10, 2010

5. How the fuck does it matter????????? are you gay??? if you are then go ahead and enjoy your life..if you're not then just let them be…..

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   Answer by apacheking12 — March 10, 2010

6. @enigma56, Good to know you like my reply. Its a great feel to see some people appreciate, and I do get to see some people dont. Sometimes when I write a reply, I get a bad rating immediately, ‘some’ people are so pissed of with my name, that they will mark bad before even reading.
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   Stay with us, stay as the member of this family.

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   Answer by Oye … — March 12, 2010

7. can u please tell me what if someone penetrates inside the vagina.. and if that guy's penis is uncircumcised..will his precum come in contact inside the vagina (even when his foreskin do not retract back)..and he doesnt ejaculate..will there be any risk..
   In short I want to know, can precum from an uncircumcised penis come in contact inside the vagina?
   Kindly reply soon.. Thanks in advance..

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   Answer by enigma56 — March 12, 2010

8. Good answer Oye, and Snakeeyes.
    
   NOW my question is- I am sure that editors of this forum are not morons.WHY hasnt been this question awarded any AA$ points?!!
   This is a wonderful question. 
    
   Really!
    
   False!

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   Answer by False — March 13, 2010

9. Very good question and also self-reply Oye… I think this question is worth award AA$300.
   This question the most controversial to be debated.
   Generally I don't give the answers because I do not feel myself so competent and I enjoy to ask only questions.
   I don't talk about others but talk about myself.
   I generally feel and look straight. I am enjoying a healthy marital life for ten years with two daughters and an expected child. My wife and me both are satisfied with our sexual life. When I have sex with my wife my mind do not concentrate on any other thing but only on my wife and fuck.
   Not always but at some time I suddenly develop gay feelings. I desparately look for some guy and love to suck cock and have anal sex. Earlier I had bisexual relationship with two/three guys also but not now but whenever I get chance, as happened in last September when my nephew visited my home, I love it. After that I also feel guilty about that but find myself helpless that time. What is that? Is it by my choice or by hormone.

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   Answer by salonigaur — March 13, 2010

10. i was always attracted to guys…
     
    but when in an all boys hostel i was molested and raped forcefully probably this aided my feelings some more…
     
    i am now 100% gay and out to my family and friends and preparing for my boyfriend moving into our apartment.
     
    i was by birth but some instances aided its development even more.

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    Answer by goli — March 17, 2010

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