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Hi Anjali Aunty,

My name is Sachin and I am 20 years old. The problem is that I live with my grandparents as my mother passed away and my father left me alone. My grandma is 55 and she is really an open minded and good person. The problem here is when ever she takes bath, she doesn't close the door. My grandpa would be out of home the time she takes bath.

I don't have any dirty fantasies like incest (I hate it). I respect her very well. She even changes her clothes in-front of me and sometimes before taking a bath, she washes clothes in the back of my house. At the time of washing also she doesn't wear anything. She will be totally naked but one day my friends were at home and my grandma was in the back washing clothes. The back is totally covered. No one can see from anywhere but the back door was open and she was at the other side washing clothes.

My friends didn't go back because she was there. I tried to tell her to close the door but she tells me that she is very comfortable with the open door. She says it's been habit for her.I don't know what to tell her. If she is not comfortable with my suggestion fine I don't have a problem but I don't want to get insulted by my friends.

Well you know what I am talking about. So please give me suggestions to get my mind proper. I am little upset.

Regards.

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1. hi sachin.. donot be panic when you saw your grandma in naked just take a cloth of her and put it on upon her.. by practicing this 10/12 times your grandma will understood your intension that you can not see her naked.. so further she automatically wear clothes in every occation.. try this patiently…

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   Answer by vidhi — March 5, 2010

2. You respect them, it is very nice.Try to talk to your grandfather on this, if u think that he will not mind. u said that ur grand mother is open minded then u can talk to her too.
   otherwise, take help of neighbour aunties if u have good relationship with them.
   This is not a very serious matter as u are consider, ur grandma must be doing it from many years like her daily routin, but now u are grown up & ur friends are coming at ur home so u need to do something. you have to make her understand that now u r 20, ur friends r coming at home, so do their work carefully. Try to avoid calling your friend at home when your grandma take a bath.
   Tell your friends that not disclose this incedent to anybody. have a faith in yourself, ur friend. these things will take some time to change, don;t worry much about that, concentrate on ur carrier.
    

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   Answer by shreyas — March 5, 2010

3. Tell your grandmother to wise up.
   Either she gets off exposing her tush at your young friends or she's hindering your friendships.
   Start showing her you're becoming a MAN.
   Don't do it aggressively, do it with humour…"hey gran, I'm happy to see your ass but my friends they went outside and threw up",then roll around laughing.
   She'll respect you for being a MAN, perhaps the first in her household for sometime.

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   Answer by deepinaunty — March 5, 2010

4. hi sachin
      my dear we cant change the nature of old people, they will do what they want as a person becomes old her or she becomes more childish. so we have to take care of them.

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   Answer by sonu — March 5, 2010

5. 
   I dont have much to reply on this, let people saty as they are comfortable with.  You are thinking and talking of being insulted by friends for the view, what about she has a lot of grudge that to many of your friends visit you, she might not like that, but she doesnot say anything?  Please respect your grandmother, and let them stay as ease as they like.  They are your only guardian right now.

   But I have a question in mind, what is there in this question that it turned out as Quetion of the Day?  And what is there that Anjali Aunty thinks its worth of 100AA$?  The question is unique, but such a lousy one that it doesnot deserve to be treated as a question.

   Sorry Aunty, hope you dont mind on my blunt remarks.

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   Answer by Oye … — March 6, 2010

6. Dear Sachin,
   First of all there is nothing wrong in ur grandmoms behaviour, she might be doing that knowingly or unknowingly, but in eitherways it will only do good for u.  Anyways it is not gonna harm u in anyways, inturn it will only give u more confidence in indulging with your fellow people, girls, which most of guys turn out to be shy while talking to them, most of them not even cant make an eye contact with them.  Her behaving like this at home will take away your shyness inturn u can treat females like just as you are with your male friends.  As u have told she will be doing this only at the back of your house, in that case if ur friends are visiting u on such an occassion u just close the door from outside.  If she asks u abt that u just tell her that u dont want her to be seen by ur friends in that situation so just to avoid that u have done so.  I hope she will be comfortable with that and she will feel more secure also as u care a lot about her. 

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   Answer by Akash — March 6, 2010

7. DO NOTHING
   Let her live the way she wants in her own house and you'll be wise. Express your self but get your own damn house. They probably feel the same… If you feel violated, move out. Laugh it off, crazy grandma. Move on.
   If She's an exhibitionist, try to realize that that thrill runs deep in the soul.
   Maybe she's trying to get you to move out?

    

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   Answer by Anonymous — March 6, 2010

8. Hi,
   Schin
   i thing your grand maa like to incest with you
   so, try to touch in breast , and try suck ok
   then u call to fucking
   one time becasu your grand paa not doing sexly
   so, you know women need to b sex life long
   so, you will do but dont sher with oters
   .

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   Answer by nasima — May 13, 2010

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