Hi Anjali Aunty,

My name is Nasima and I'm a fan of you. Recently, I noticed that my brother is touching my breasts while I'm sleeping. I was awake during these occasions and I didn't want to embarrass him by letting him know that I was awake. Please help me solve such that it doesn't effect our relationship?

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1. Nasima,
   your brother is undergoing puberty i think. And that is clearly shown in his actions. When ever you came to know that he is doing that. Pls let him go out from the way, warn him. Try to sleep in position being its not easily accessible. Even if he tries the same then change your places. If nothing works out go to your elders in a polite manner. But as far as concern keep it with you and counsel him and try the above methods.

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   Answer by Sunny — February 22, 2010

2. It would be better if you had mentioned your age as well as your brothers.

   If he is going through puberty say 13-15 years, the curiousity is there, but cant get to touch.  So, he found you as an experimental case and trying to feel.  Your not doing anything will encourage him more, either he will assume you are sleeping.  Or he will think you are awake and encouraging.

   Fiorst thing you need to do is make him understand you are awake.  Next time he touches, hold his hand, lift it, and put it aside.  If he dares again, you will know its more than exploring, he is interested on having sex.  There you have to make him understand the limit he shouldnot cross.

   By the way, does he just keep his hand on your boobs or moves, caress or squeeze to?  If he dont do anything, maybe this is just a mistake, you place it aside, should be okay.  If he makes a move, maybe your little brother is no little angel anymore. 

   I always prefer on these types of cases the less people gets involved the better.  So talk with him and sort out, dont make a big fuss involving lots of people.  You can include your most trusted friend on the discussion, that is, your mother.  She can take care of the rest very silently without making a scene.

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   Answer by Oye … — February 22, 2010

3. Hi Nasima
   
   
   Mr.Oye and Sunny already answered perfectly. I'll tell you the same. 
   Next time don't let your brother to do the same. If you'll allow him then he'll proceed further. 
   Don't involve anyone in this matter except your mother. Talk with your brother in this matter politely and make him understand that what he is doing is not right.
   And Nasima it'll be better if you'll tell us the ages of you and your brother.
   
   
   Take Care
   All the best.

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   Answer by sexhunter — February 22, 2010

4. hmm… it would have been easier to ans this question, had u mentioned his and ur age too dear.
   anyways… I assume that ur elder to him and u have the only body that is in his access right now and he is running his curious fingers over u.
   That is not right actually, now -
   this is somthing, that needs a stop! this is for sure, and u dont want him to be embarrased,
   well… if he is in his teens and u both share a good honest bond, then u both can talk it out, before it gets into an obsession and habit, which can have disasters, if not in real, then definately in fantasies… U dont want ur bro to ask in this blog a few years later,”help me seduce my sis” etc crap, so make this clear – whether to embarass him or not, the practice needs to be stopped!
   how about introducing him to some open and intially friendly and curious gals of his age by ur contacts ?

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   Answer by lusty_lover — February 22, 2010

5. Seperate him from bed.Tats the solution.

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   Answer by Ajith — February 23, 2010

6. Dress conservatively. Smack him if he does that again. He is not a kid anymore- he understands what he is doing and knows it's wrong.

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   Answer by Desi — February 23, 2010

7. change your room immediately dear if possible. stop him now or it will be too late.

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   Answer by starud — February 23, 2010

8. hi when ur bro touch ur boob cauch his and move to ur pussy. i got good bro y u wast ur time enjoy ur bro and tell him to fuck ur tell ur age  and ur boob size

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   Answer by priya — March 16, 2010

9. He is a kid and completely fantasised with his age and the media , tv and internet effect. You are the elder one, its time for you guys to start having the physical seperation. By his act he proved that he is immatured and got the courage to do that with you, he is not bothered that it is sin. The oposite sex attraction is always there, its we elders who supposed to educate or keep them good. Once he cross this age and mature enough to understand, how will he look at you ? so better let him sleep in a different room or in a seperate bed atleast if your house is not that facilitated. Check out , what kind of movies or site he is watching? try to take him away from that by warning or punishing , that can be an indirect punishment for his act. If you directly catch hold of him wen he does this sin act, the guilty will play a wrong role for his entire life. Be wise, be his sister, sisters are always treated next to mom, so you got the right to punish or love him as much as your mom does. Hey hey, last point, sometimes kids have this dream effect problem, they see things around, lke tv , internet, movies and have that strong datas in mind.While sleeping through dream they start experiencing that, by sleeping next to him with all the possible organs which he is experiencing in his dream, you are just increasing his possibilities, may be he is not even aware that he is doing this. So sweet sister, pls keep away from him, i mean only while sleeping.Please please dont spoil you sweet brother and spoil your mood … What if he does more than what he is doing right now, try to go the next step, ( May now he is watching some soft porn and , what if he come to bed after wating a hard core blow job or some ??? ).

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   Answer by Sathish — March 16, 2010

10. 1st immediatly change your Bed & Room, and lock your room when ever you sleep. and told him when you & your brother at home alone, strickly told him to stop this nonsense or gently. and ask him about which kind of material or gathering he use?. you know better how to handle this, or is he elder or even younger and he can do this with you, it's mean he is going Elder, if he in under 20 or 25, so you people find the Girl for him to get married him. if it is not possible for ya, so is better for you to seperate your room & lock in night when sleeping. but told him to consider in your study or else you told his habbit to your parents understand?
    

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    Answer by FrankShk — March 17, 2010

11. he is a kid. if you stop he will get agrasive that will be a big problam. When you know that your brother is doing it tolk to him, show them to him and ask him to touch it with your permission. That's it after that he will not touch it. Now he is doing it just teenage curiasity. once that curiasity is fulfilled he will respect you. Why the bother or sister for?

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    Answer by kanu — March 23, 2010

12. Now he is doing with you.You are also not saying any thing because he is your brother, if he is not your brother what you might have done. Made a big fuss call police he might have gone to jail for inaprovative behaviour. just talk to him why he is doing it. You love him he will not make any harm to you open them show it to him ask him to touch it his fantacy will be gone.in the end he is your brother you know him better, deal it's upto you make him or loose him.(future)

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    Answer by kanu — March 28, 2010

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