Hello Anjali Aunty,

I am a 24 years old boy and I am a virgin. I am going to marry a girl soon but I am afraid to have sex because I have heard so many things from others that first time sex is very painful. I tried to pull my foreskin back, it comes easily but when I try to masturbate with the full foreskin pulled back, I feel some pain.

I am really very confused on how a penis look like when it loses its virginity. I mean when a boy is not a virgin and have done sex so many times, then how does the penis look? Does his foreskin comes back to the end of penis?

Please provide me some photos if you can or give me the link or provide me with a sex ebook. Thanks

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1. Well …………………….
   Nothing to worry dear, there will no nothing hazardous, as you have heared of. You may resort to following, in order to enjoy more:
   1.   Try lubricating her vagina max by olive oil or libido before sex.
   2.   Insert only when your penis is fully erected.
   3.   To get rid of foreskin problems permanently, get circumcision.

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   Answer by burger4all — February 15, 2010

2. You are worrying too much.  Penis shape doesnot change, there is no chance of having any penile hymen.

   Go with the wind, thats the best thing to do.  Just do it as you are suppose to.  Be absolutely sure, before you penetrate, her pussy should be enough lubricated.  For first time might feel a bit tight if she is also virgin, but thats temporary.  Do plenty of foreplay, if you are not comfortable on using your mouth on her pussy, at least use your fingers, rub her clit, and try finger ficking for sometime.  If she is lubed, you will understand its the time to do in town.

    Masturbation and real sex are different, masturbation is the net practice, you might not be getting the same flavour as you are using rough hand.  But a lubed pussy is the real match, sleek, warm, snug, you wont feel a thing as you feel with hand.

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   Answer by Oye … — February 15, 2010

3. penis shape remains like the penis shape it had before loosing your virginity.

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   Answer by ayushi69 — February 15, 2010

4. dont worry about the shape of your penis, it will remain same…
   but worry about the pain you feels during masturbation form foreskin.
   you must make a circumcision before losing virginity otherwise it may cause a lot of surgical emergency like paraphimosis.circumcision also helps your sexual life as you can get more sexual pleasure during coitus..

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   Answer by paan — February 16, 2010

5. the suggestion for circumcision given above is really BAD
   this guy doesnt need that.
    
   he's gonna be just okay after he is through it a couple of times.

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   Answer by False — February 17, 2010

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