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How to delay my ejaculation?

Hi Anjali Aunty,

I am 26 years old guy working in a government organisation. I am getting married in a few months now. My fiancee and I meet rarely because of my working schedules. But when we meet we do make it a point to have a nice time. Recently I had an intercourse with my fiancee. It was my first time and I finished within 2 minutes. I felt very bad because I couldn't satisfy my partner. Though she didn't tell me anything, I could make out. Again we had sex and same thing happened. I reached my orgasm very early. I am worried that I can't satisfy my partner.

Please suggest me how can I control myself and help my partner also in attaining orgasm.

Thanks Aunty

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Asked by arjun on January 20th 2010
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  1. hi arjun,
     
    its beacuse you are too much excited ad hence you cum early and it is common with many males, Nothig to be woried about, the more you have sex the more you will gain time.
    What you can do also start doing stop/start piss method, you need to piss then stop and then piss and keep this doing for some days.
    Also during sex try to stop in between for a couple of seconds and then start doing it again and then stop and do again.
    Do let me know if you need to know anything els.e

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    Answer by Neel_Mou77 — January 20, 2010

  2. Premature ejaculation is a very common thing among people due to various reasons, most prevalent being the overexcitement. There are various methods to overcome this problem as in most cases it is psychological instead of physical or clinical. Anjali aunty had recently posted a very good topic on how to last longer using keegel method. Few others are:
    * Use desensitizing cream on your glans.
    *Use double condom if possible.
    * Go slow and make it a love making session, rather than a fu*k session.
    * Use stop-start technique i.e. pause for a while when feeling like reaching on peak.
    * Maximise foreplay period.
    Hope this helps. Keep in touch.

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    Answer by ammujee — January 21, 2010

  3. Foreplay is the key., prolong it.
    Kegel is wonderful, it really works.
    Work on the foreplay as the earlier post suggested. Connect yourself, enjoy the purity of sex and the bliss that gives you. go for the real act towards the end. Stop start is a good thing to practice when you do that. Or atleast expend a couple of hours before the act, test is before you do it, 'cause the hormone levels will need some time to peak ( testies produces both testosterone and sperms ), one helps the other. one creates the stage for the other to act. Go for the actual act towards the end.
    Talk to your girl and find our what exites here most, try out that part, and if you have no inhibitions the "G-Spot" massage and " cunnilingus".
    If your are into meditation and stuff ( keep yourself open to new ideas, thoughts ) there is a vast ocean out there to explore.  There is an act of applying pressure to a particular part of your body doing a series of deep breathing and stretching ( not something that you have to jump out of your act and do, but while doing it and being part of the play ) when you feel that you are nearing your orgasm, but that needs to be done with caution and you should not hurt yourself.  I am not describing it here.
    Most of all sex is divine it has to be enjoyed fully with heart and soul. Just don't have any inhibitions if you are with your partner in a private place ( home , room ). Give yourself into it.
    good luck.

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    Answer by curious — January 24, 2010

  4. Arjun,

    Follow these steps –
    1. Slow down during sex. Do not hurry things through. Take your time and ensure your breathing is slow and relaxed.
    2. If you are getting all worked up thinking about what your fiancee might think, I suggest you masturbate 20-30mins before you start having sex. This will delay ejaculation. This is only to help you from further losing confidence.

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    Answer by hotdudebull — April 15, 2010

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