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MY HUBBY CAN’T SATISY ME – WHAT CAN I DO?

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Hi Anjali Aunty,

I wanted to know how do I get rid of my egoistic husband? Getting pleasure from such husbands are difficult who actually behaves like a typical Indian husband. I am a young and sexy looking female. Guy get attracted to me. I have a baby of 2 years.

I never get an orgasm with my husband, but I did not tell him after marriage. He did not get the hint that he was not successful in giving me pleasure. I did wanted to hurt him and after our baby, we never had any relation.

My husband always stay busy with his office and internet. He is least bothered about me and have no interest in me. So should I go ahead with his best friend? He usually finds me nagging and try to dominate me. I am capable of getting married to a young guy. I have tried to kill my cravings with medicines but the doctor said that will harm my body. Because of not getting proper satisfaction in my relationship, my body hormones is getting disturbed. I am not being able to sleep at nights and I tend remove my frustration on my kid which I don’t like.

Please suggest me some thing!

Asked by naaz1984 on January 09th 2010

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Am right here dear…to satisfy you…you don’t need to divorce your husband…problem solved…case dismissed

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Answer by freaky arso — January 9, 2010
hi honey , makhan chor here if u satif please mail me makhanchor_vivaro@rediffmail.com

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Answer by aroravivek — January 9, 2010
Dear,
To get involved with any other person, man / woman is really exciting, but at later stage one realizes the blunder. There is no harm if you directly strike the ego of your husband, by telling the truth. Make him understand, that sex is essential part of a married life. If he is unable to understand, take the help of a experienced counselor. If he still behaves like an idiotic fool, then if u ever did any steps takes you away from your husband, you won’t have any regrets then. Be calm and first help your husband to know the fact that he is nothing more than a dustbin because of his attitude.

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Answer by Rahul Verma — January 9, 2010
U are a fake woman, if you are not so then you shouldnt hav asked this qn in this site.U arent a good wife.If not so why u couldnt hav consulted a good doctor and clear Ur problms.Ur here to spread venomous thoughts in minds of common people.

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Answer by Ajith — January 9, 2010
wow, interesting, i am a consulting psychologist can we discuss the matter in details.

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Answer by natu — January 9, 2010
see if u r hubby is interested with some other female or gay u find out first then u give the treatment has for his situation. please find out what exactly he is not sleeping with you.
because some mans looks some thing and inner some thing, find out find out then take decision, because
this decision will harm your future life. its not the question of you both you have 2years old kid think about the kid future also

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Answer by rahul — January 9, 2010
Dear mate,
talk to ur husband and plan a holiday during liesure only a human being thinks from a birdas eye view abt getting involve with his best freind is the easiest and dangerous way to end ur marriage and marriage is all abt live together with diffrences and spend more quality time with ur hubby like playing games or having romatic evening on saturday sunday talk to him directly dont hint …. Wish u all the vesry best

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Answer by pattnaik.sanjay1 — January 9, 2010
This calls for a open discussion and some time away from normal day to day life, a trip or vacation would help. Once the stage is set a open discussion will help improve the relationship. The option you are thinking about would eventually land you up in deep trouble, it might look as an attractive option for now but may not sustain in the longer run once the lust is gone.

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Answer by 7700m — January 9, 2010
First of all you should know he is working hard and is mostly in ofice so that he can provide you and your kids a better future and about orgasm well hes your husband and not god! so you need to talk it out with him .Personally i dont suggest you to go ahead with your hubbys friend he may end up blackmailing you

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Answer by jaymehta123 — January 9, 2010
Discuss seriously with your husband about the problem and force the feeling if you exchange the place himself by yourself what will he do then …so he can feel the serious.

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Answer by neeraj20065 — January 9, 2010
i think u must discuss with your husband rather than hurting yourself.see things can be sorted out amicably.he is ur husband he vl surely understand.the only thing is that u must gather the guts 2 talk 2 him.and please dont be upset with ur two year old..he is unaware of all this.go ahead talk 2 ur husband insted of thinking of someone else,,if u do that it vl make ur life more complex.be faithful..n true obviously u vl get through ur problem..

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Answer by decent_guy — January 9, 2010
hey dear if u want to enjoy sex then make a extra affairs and if it is not possible then when ever he is come at home then u put sweet on ur body and said now u eat like u put icecream on ur pussy and then tell him u suck it may be he enjoy and mosy of the time u wear shots and bra or transparent cloths k thnx

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Answer by musa — January 10, 2010
ohhhhhh come on you are a lady ! show some hotness n get him on bed!!
GOOD LUCK

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Answer by Rony — January 10, 2010
Hi,
Its a lengthy suggestion but i think it will really help out.

My suggestion would be talk to your husband directly that doesnt mean you should be like ” WTF! i am not getting satisfied, will you do something? “. Plan things little differently creatively and romantically. Why dont you ask if he can give one night for you only.Cut all communication , have cell switched off everything so that nothing disturbs you too.Forget about issues which can involve embroilment. Then you try setting up your room environment, have roses around , have candle light dinner, his favorite music and( wine! if possible- little) .. then talk about the problem. See if you will talk to him when he is relaxed , you will know all his intentions.Talk about satisfaction issue , talk about the complications. Ask why is he no interested in Sex ? Give it a try , it will help you decide in a better way!

Ways to make relationship better:-

1. He surf internet Right! , read with him the online version of Kamasutra – Ancient Indian Handbook of Love Making. Or purchase one at book store, have it read with your husband. It really Helps.

2. There are some adult websites and videos available. Look for normal one. Website may have strong and bad video content. so look for them. Going through them will really help your husband.

Bottom Line : See you will have to make your sex life spicy. Get Your interest of your hubby toward sex.

Personal Advise :- Dont go for Extra Martial affair, it will have bad effect on you & your family( becoz. of guilt and fear of getting the information divulged out, blackmailing and other serious complications that do occur)….
Anyway even if you want to go for extramarital affair, those doors are always open for you.Just put a slogan and Men will there!

Let me know , i will put up comments if you want any other advice. My email is skhelpingyou@gmail.com .

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Answer by kumar — January 10, 2010
Some of the folks gave you some very good advice. Let me see if I can summarize it for you here:

- As much as it may make sense and sound exciting, try and avoid the urge to getting involved in an affair.

- Talk to your husband. You did not divulge any details but why don’t you orgasm? what has he tried? Have you asked him to do things? do you initiate a sexual encounter or does he?

- Try getting some toys, a dildo etc may help you. many times, after birth of a baby, some women tend to become desensitized and become difficult to orgasm. If that is the case with you then contact a doctor.

- If the problem is with hubby where he has lost sexual appetite, you can try a couple of things. Find out why. Is it you? If it is then make yourself more attractive to him. men are different, they don’t always attract to the same things, so if you are an attractive woman to other men because you have large bosom or you like to wear tight clothes etc does not mean your husband is also attracted to the same. Find out what he is attracted to and try those things. Try lingerie, try talking about things he likes.

THE BIGGEST THING THOUGH IS< find out why he is not attracted to you. If it is work related stress (Stress is said to be the biggest reason for impotence by the way) then help him by listening and supporting him.

At the worst side, he may be having an affair. If he is, then all bets are off. See a good lawyer .

best of luck.

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Answer by m_va_us — January 10, 2010
Hi Naaz,

Do not panic, this is a common situation amoung couples worldwide.Sometimes men also face such issues when wife is not co-operative.

I give u some solution these will work 100%.

1) — Have a open and honest conversation with ur husband and tell him what u want , do not be shy.Perhaps he is having some problem because of which he is not intersted.Talk and find out the issue.

2)- Take him to a good doc and if possible marriage connseller.

3)- When women feel urge to have sex and they can not get it what they do???Comon baby learn to masterbate even a lady doc can teach u different ways of it.no social prob , no divorcee , no medicine and 100% satifaction.

4)– If even this does not work then i am a 27 year old boy i am good looking , educated , well read and have a good body with 6 pack abs and good sex drive.Contact me at Bhardwajdeepak35@yahoo.in

It will be a secret u can trust me on this.

The reason — i also broke up with my girlfriend it was a serious relationship , now i am single and looking for someone who feels lonely like i do.

Despite being a hundsame hunk i am single right now at least we can be true friends.

Bye tc

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Answer by Rahul — January 10, 2010
Hi Friend

Tuning to a relation is equally important from both wife’s and husband’s side, in your case it seems that you both have failed on it.

The simplest solution to this is to speak out the issue to your husband rather than you assuming & trying to find alternatives to the situation.

Your husband also might have been some bad experiences from you, like you might not be responding or behaving to his sexual fantasies, and he started avoiding you.

So, its very helpful to talk with each other and present the situation. May be you both will tend to blame each other, but its ok. Things will settle down when it real issues pops up in a conversation

Hope it helps

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Answer by Manoj — January 10, 2010
hi horny if u r not satidfied thn come to me i will made u fully satisfied and fucked u as u had never before n i assure the privacy (vibhor.goel21@yahoo.com)

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Answer by vibhor — January 10, 2010
Not fair having sex with another gay. Speak out to your husbanb and consult a docter or give your husband viagra then u vil enjoy fully. Dont worry im also a docter try it feel it

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Answer by lucky — January 10, 2010
why shud u approach him and try and resolve the matter ?
heis clarly not missing having relations with you, which means two things: either he has lost interest in sex, or worse, he has lost interest in you.
either ways, dont let it destroy your youth.
follow your heart.
cheers

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Answer by rogues69 — January 11, 2010
Try to be Interesting first.

Make yourself interesting like the computer or internet he will lean on you. If he is keen on doing things other than sex, you can show him some samples from Interent which he might be watching by doing it yourself.

Sure he will be interested.

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Answer by Bikash Dash — January 12, 2010
You must TRAIN your husband to want to please you. Men love blowjobs. This is coming from a woman. They also love to watch porn with you not getting offended, but getting kinky. His long hours on the computer is bound to turn up porn.

Ask him what turns him on! Tell him what turns you on! Discover each other again! Massage each other! Nurture each other!

Going to his best friend is exciting, yet wouldn’t it be more exciting if he opened up enough to let you play with his friend without deceit!

Men who are depressed rarely get sex. Your hsb needs sex! Mind blowing, dirty talking, porn watching sex to teach him how to pleasure you for hours! Orgasm after orgasm!

He sounds just too boring to even take an interest. But follow this and he will be back very soon to you fucking your brains out!

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Answer by maya — January 14, 2010
Actually it beats me coz you think of sleeping with his best friend even before you have actually tried to save your own marriage. Sexual satisfaction is not the first and important thing on the agenda in a marriage. I would only say that the marriage is only as good as the people involved in it. His desire should be ignited by finding out his needs and desires. You might have to probably spend some extra time and have patience to work this out. You are young and do not give up without trying. At the most if nothing works out you can always have a discussion and mention to him that you mite have to look out for satisfaction if he is not interested. This is the last option and see his reaction. Best of Luck!!!

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Answer by RG — January 14, 2010
I think you should talk about this with your husband. may be he might be angry with you after your complian but he will think about your problem and will try to findout how he can over come this. May be your husband got any mental problem that's why he is not interested on it but i think if he consult with a sex doctor who can guide him to make interest on sex. Your problem is very simple you just need few time to over come so dont go any boy or partnar. Try to fit your husband then you will relize how wonder familly life and i think you love your husbrand and kids. Remember, no one will love you like your husbrand. For satisfying you also simple way to over come to take regular excersize and medichine.

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Answer by Sam — January 19, 2010
Good ans … i support you .. his problem is simple she just need to talk and consult a good doctor .. now a days it not a big problem .. and miss just love your husbrand more and more … one time he can win you …

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Answer by Sam — January 19, 2010
Hi NAAZ,
SHOW HIM UR ATTITUDE AND LET HIM KNOW U EXIST IN THIS WORLD AND ALSO TRY APPRECIATING OTHER MEN AND BRING OUT THE JEALOUSY IN HIM, ALSO TALK FREQUENT ABT UR FRIENDS WHOSE HUSBANDS ARE MORE ROMANTIC, CHALLENGE HIM DEFINITELY THE MAN IN HIM WILL WAKE UP AND HE WILL BE A MORON ON BED, AND UR NEXT QUESTION WILL BE MY HUSBAND IS A SEX MANIAC HOW I SHOULD GET HIM TO CALM DOWN? AS LONG AS ILLICIT RELATIONSHIP IS THERE IT IS SIN AND ALSO HARMFUL, COS WHOEVER WILL FALL FOR U FOR THIS KIND OF RELATIONSHIP HE WILL ONLY THINK ABT U AS A BITCH WHO IS HOT AND HORNY, HE WILL NEVER RESPECT U. OR R U THE WOMEN WHO NEED MORE MEN TO SATISFY UR LUST, THEN GO ON. IF POSSIBLE EVEN IAM READY TO SATISFY UR LUST AND IT WILL BE A TOP SECRET.

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Answer by arshadbs — January 20, 2010
Hi, Quite disturbing.. give him a chance by explaining him on what you are looking out for. Also check with him what he likes and what makes him go away from you.. this is a serious problem, which only you both need to talk it out.. going for another man outside your relationship may not be a permanent solution and can be risky as well.. All you need to check is whether he's disturbed bout his work or some domestic financial pressures., due to which men often lose their sex instinct and become cranky..
All the best..

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Answer by rockyjasmine — January 20, 2010
tell ur husband straight in his face … if u have the guts…
fuck me or i will fuck with others… as u said u are capable of getting young men anywhere…

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Answer by SA — January 21, 2010
apne hubby se is baare mai baat karo

or aise bahut se upaye hai jinko istemal karke tum apne hubby se he satisfied ho sakti ho

thhodi si himmat karke apne hubby se baat karo

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Answer by neeraj — January 24, 2010
this not only ur problem all most 50% will not satisfy wt husbends cock ,after male ejaculation ,he should do fingering to u to satisfy ur self .then only ur problem wl resolve .consult doc for more clarification.

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Answer by chat2santu — January 24, 2010
u said that guys are getting attracted toward u.this is not true.if u r not able to attract ur hubby then how could it b possible.
first talk to her then go to doctor .but even then do not cheat

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Answer by nishaaa — January 26, 2010
The real problem does not lie with your husband. It lies with your inability to communicate. If he doesn't know that you can't orgasm, how the hell do you expect things to change? He thinks that he's making you cum, so he isn't going to change what he does. You need to let him know the problems, and teach him how to pleasure you. Only way to fix your problems.

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Answer by mouth — January 28, 2010
hi
Not fair having sex with another gay. Speak out to your husbanb and consult a docter or give your husband viagra then u vil enjoy fully.if he is still not good in sex just call me on mobil09849126606,or mail me i will see that you are in heaven with 8 inch cock who can fuck and lick ok,t.c byee waiting for u r reaply

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Answer by uday — January 28, 2010
Hi Naaz,
It would have been better if more details had been provided. Anyways I will try to answer from the details what I can read in your question. There are four main problems i found in you case : You never had orgasm with your hubby, You have no physical relations after baby, Your hubby is always busy & not interested in you, You are trying to satisfy yourself with his best friend.
First of all talk these problems to your husband but remember that you should not talk in the way that you are blaming him. Ask him with some romance & a little naughtiness that hey, Hubby… it seems after becoming mother, i am no more a wife..and when he ask "why", explain him these issues but remember it should be in a light way. You should say "may be i also got too busy in the baby which didn't allow me to spend enough time for you dear… let's add some romance again in our life."

Now lets come to your problems.
Your problem : Lets start with your first problem that you never had an orgasm with your hubby. I would say that as much as you communicate, your life will get easier. You were not getting orgasm & you kept on hiding it from your hubby. If you had let him know, he would have tried to find out how to give you orgasm.
Solution : In this website, there is a nice article by Anjali aunty about female G-spot so sit with your hubby and you both read it and try it. Once he is aware of female G-spot, i am sure he will try to satisfy you completely.
Your 2nd & 3rd Problem : No physical relations after baby. I would say there might be your fault also in this issue because I think in India, still women are running away from sex during pregnancy and after getting a baby she will be busy with baby which gives impression that you are not much interested in sex now and that sometimes become reason for a men to go to another lady and when a men is satisfied with another lady, he will not show much interest in his wife. I hope it didn't happen in your case.
Solution : Spend some time from your daily routine for your hubby. let him know that he is as important as your baby in your life. Some times after a baby, vagina gets loose and men can not get enough satisfaction. so if that is the case, try to do some exercises to make it tighter. You can find the exercises in AA.
Never try to go ahead with your husband's best friend or anyone else unless you love him and you are ready to leave your husband for that guy. Because there is a simple rule to be happy in life "Don't do anything half heartedly because the job done half heartedly will never allow you to succeed." That means you cannot stay with your husband and same time have a relations with his friend. Therefore please leave this idea and focus on making your life better with what you have. And last not but the least, also think of your innocent baby.
All the best & keep me informed dear.
Bye.

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Answer by kalpesh_bhatt — January 29, 2010
Hi, this is very common in many places where husband cannot satisfy their wifes' and the vice-versa. The only solution is that you have to discuss this with him. Have more of a foreplay, make dont lit him enter u atelast until u have an orgasm.
Dont beleive people who say I am here to stisfy u and all tht non-sense. they will only make u feel guilty someday and they will be happy intheir lives.
If u still want to talk to me about this, you can write to me on callguy062009@yahoo.com, dont worry, i am not what my ID syays

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Answer by callguy062009 — February 1, 2010
The lot of counsellor are in city. Contact them with your husband or else talk to his parent to counsell him. You should make him horny in nights even he works in night with laptop.

Wear sexy dress in front of him while he is on job at nights to serve him. This will make his concentration towards you. You two can have sexual intraction while talking.

This will be a solution for your problem.

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Answer by ssn — February 8, 2010
hiiii…….. sweets whre r u frm i cn help u out if u need …..my mail:delhidude28@gmail.com do contct me bbye tc ..

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Answer by amitm — February 22, 2010
Dear,if i would be yr hub then i never killed yr expectation,however life is gaity so shoud not care of hin and go forward in dis lovable world.all d best.

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Answer by Ajay verma — February 26, 2010
Hello,
This is something which is very common, where Husband cannot satisfy his wife, and the vice-versa. There are many ways to get out of this:-
1. Find another partner just for your sex needs
2. You can move out with another guy who is in a similar situation like you (His wife cannot satisfy him)
3. You can fall in love with another man, who can satisfy you and take care of you too.
4. You can find sex workers, who will satisfy ur needs.
5. You can also find some one here who can just satisfy you and walk away ( I like this option, if you do then email me on callguy062009@yahoo.com)
But the mottom line is that, any of the above will give u momentay satisfaction and will never be there for a longer run. The best way to come off this, is that you need to blurt it out to ur husband. Find out is incorrect between u too, make the chemistry of love making work out. Things u can do to impress him, are may be change the style of urself (only in the bed room), probable change the way u dress, the way u talk to him when ur are alone, try doing lot of foreplay, make him crave for u.
I am sure this will defenitely work for you, if it does let me know, I will be very happy too

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Answer by Callguy — March 1, 2010
hi dear Ajith,
this site is for problem and answer. so any body can council with his/her prob……….but the adviser of this site is want to get extra advantage……….thats the problem

i'm agree she should talk with femail councellor

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Answer by dingi — March 6, 2010
dear frind
i would like to suggest u donn go for sex with ur hubbies frnds it would be harmful for u in future
but u can search a partner for u with ur own self apart from ur hubbies knowledge and as u r a married lady so its my suggestion wat all u will enjoy sex very secretly n choose a correct person for tht who make ur relationship secret n takes u always in priority n always choose a mature male for tht i will say a correct choice is an married male as i m also married but not setisfied with my wife so i selected another lady for sex n desires n always keep her in top stream n priority in this ways sometimes we use to enjoy as she is also a married women as well i think thr is no harm to enjoy sex with another male but always take ur safer side for tht as we r into relationship from 1 yr n we enjoy eachother company n one thing chemisrty wil b gud bcz u r going to enjoy sex bcz u r not setisfy with ur hubby so plz donn choose a partner like same thing will be repeated otherwise u will b more frastrated in future choose ur partner according to ur body needs as my partner was not setisfed with her hubby bcz he doon gv he oral as she is crazy abt it n i use to gv her lots of licks n sucks where she needs as like on armpits, navle , waist, asscheeks, navel , pussy, thies,thoes we sue to do roleplays n now we r happy n setisied bcz i think fem is an art n sex is an brush as slow u paint u get wonderful painting

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Answer by ashish_hot — March 10, 2010
Dear
First of all you find out whether your hubby have affair with others, if true even you can find a way to satisfy yourself. According to your choices. Don't hesitate to take more suggestion with me. If your hubby is reliable to you, reply I will give better ideas to satisfy each other with natural remedies.

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Answer by Vijaya Aditya — March 12, 2010
Dear
First of all you find out whether your hubby have affair with others, if true even you can find a way to satisfy yourself. According to your choices. Don't hesitate to take more suggestion with me. If your hubby is reliable to you, reply I will give better ideas to satisfy each other with natural remedies.
Thank you

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Answer by Vijaya Aditya — March 12, 2010
Dear Naaz,

In my opinion, find a trustworthy attractive female (your friend, cousin, neighbour etc.) of your age & with kids & tell her your concerns. You can have a cash/kind deal with her & ask her to come & stay at your place for a fortnight or so. At the same time, you have to make yourself master of this 'Love Game' with the help of your friend on play games like 'Fellatio', 'Cunninlingus', 'Game of 69' etc. etc.

You tell her to be free with your husband even in your presence for intimate discussions on married sexual life & how one can make it better & better by infinite ways of love making.

This becomes an acid test for you/your friend to know whether he is really interested to go ahead with it or these things do not interest him.

He may open up with his fantasies & probably you may be able to win him over on this experiment. But finally, your friend has to tell him about her sincere efforts to bring you & him together to save this marriage bliss from getting it rotten.

Wish you 'All iss Well', a popular theme of the movie '3 Idiots'.

Regards,

Phoolwati

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Answer by Phoolwati — March 12, 2010
tell him yaar .. tell all of u r tensions and worries to him on a free time without insulting him. most important part is u should make him understand about the seriousness about the matter. from u r words i believe u hav full guts for this.. most of problems like this will change with an open conversation. its better than fuckin another guy.. u r not the one havin this problem. even if he is not turning on still have choices..discuss it with a psychologist. it will help u lot and make u more stronger. u should do whatever u should. if u love him
best wishes.

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Answer by romy — March 13, 2010
Hi ,
this is not a bid problem, ur not solving but ur incrsing problemlevel, just talk with ur hasbed about ur condition, tell to ur hubby do some foreplay and some stop and flow tech, even it is not solved then consult with docter, if u r going to take dovorce and remarry , think if u r second hubby is also like this what's u r option u r going to 3 rd one are docter, with the women mentality , most of ladys r not enclosed their problems with their hubbys , by the time to time in their life angry and jolus will occupi the palce of love, in my think problem is u r side , pls discuus with u r hubby, and make love him, other wise if u wannna fun of sex mail me to Kalyan_gupta5@yahoo.co.in

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Answer by kal — March 17, 2010
It's good that you have your self esteem and self respect.
It's quite easy to go out there and have an affair but at the end of the day you only end up hurting yourself
you need to do the following
1. Sit down and talk with him and try and make him understand that you have needs too.
2. If need be, both go for councilling to a marrage/sex therapist
3. I am sure you still love your husband but sometimes that may not be enough.
4. IF all else fails, walk out with your child, get a divorce and then start live all over again
I know option 4 is easily said than done but would you rather be stuck in a frustrated situation???!!!

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Answer by Shaan — March 18, 2010
first of all, talk to ur husband, find out whats his problem… he might need help from a psychologist, or he might have certain fantasies that he is scared of sharing with u…

if this doesnt work, get some toys for urself and use them…
if that also doesnt work and u have to get a guy, then find someone as far away from ur home as possible… make sure u r do it safely and that u take enough precautions to hide ur identity, dont carry cards, use a prepaid connection and throw out the card once finished… also, avoid doing it with the same guy too many times, it might lead to emotional attachments or such other complications.. good Luck

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Answer by sam_verma — March 18, 2010
hi
try to get naked, and play some hand jobs in front of ur husband
this make him hot. slightly bit her ear lid, b'case boy always get hot when girl bit them

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Answer by incest4u — April 3, 2010
if u r frm banglore e mail me @ drmz_unlimited123@yahoo.com

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Answer by dingdongboy — April 11, 2010
mail me I'll give you the solution
crazy02.4u@gmail.com

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Answer by crazy02.4u — April 13, 2010
hi young lady, i would like to suggest u few things..
see in the todays busy life mens are just running after making money or hanging out… or may be surfing net all day… which results their sexual life is ruined..
all u need to just spice up ur sex life, by arousing him, wearing sexy night wears, keep some good sex books in the room…
and most of all u got to make him realise that u have some sexual desires and urges…. try na making him understand in a proper way… m sure he will understand….
have a good life ahead

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Answer by Acid — April 21, 2010
Hey Naaz,
This is thee 4th Month , since u had posted ur Query, b4 i go ahead and recounsell u , can u updt me with ur present relation with ur Husband. Is it the same as it was 4mnths back, or u do have a new guy in your life to satisfy u.
Rgds,
Ameet.

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Answer by Ameet — April 23, 2010
Talk it out with your husband…. go places, get refreshed… enjoy life. Sticking home 365 days makes life boring. Try to have sex in kitchen, living room, stairs… get naughty, try different things with your husband. Its better than another affair… there is so many things in life than sex……. also numerous things to explore in sex!!! So start talking with your husband and get started…. untill then to satisfy your urge… get a vibrator or a dildo…. go ebay )

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Answer by Max — April 23, 2010
Most girls in the world might not get an orgasm. But that is not the issue. You can also finger yourself and bring yourself to orgasm.

And try to adjust. That is the only answer I can give you

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Answer by eka.ami — May 15, 2010
i have ony one ans go to hell with your sex life

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Answer by yaten — May 19, 2010
i had a same problem with my hubby… u just need to talk to ur hubby…. he is ur husband for god sake.. u have full right over his body… i think its just that ur not trying or ur just making excuse to divorce him or have a sexual relationship with another man..

and dont be a selfish.. u have a baby now…. what ever u will be doing will hunt ur future

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Answer by kritika — May 21, 2010
mail me ur problem
rajlovesubadly@gmail.com

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Answer by rajlovesubadly — May 27, 2010
Hi
I am27 years old male If u r really want to get satisfied try me once.

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Answer by satisfier — May 31, 2010
Please do something else and try you dudhwala, newspaper guy, or drivers or watchman and any of your hubby's friends aor your college friends in front of him.
or mail me @ spd_junaidkhan@yahoo.com

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Answer by jazzyjunaid — June 1, 2010
Hi dear,
life is once liven and its short also. Enjoy to the max its all in your hands. Killing your sexual life is not the solution. For women sexual urge is very short period unlike men can enjoy till 70's. So fulfill you urge as you like and the way you want but dont miss any single day or opportunity as clock is ticking and you have wasted 60% of your sexual life. Try mastrubating or go in for a affair with the person whom you like. Fall in love, romance, cuddle, enjoy days and hours of sex and blasting fireworks of orgasms everyday. contact me if you need any ideas. vinokumo@yahoo.com. vinokumo at yahoo dot com
luv
vino

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Answer by Vino — June 7, 2010
Hi dear,
life is once liven and its short also. Enjoy to the max its all in your hands. Killing your sexual life is not the solution. For women sexual urge is very short period unlike men can enjoy till 70's. So fulfill you urge as you like and the way you want but dont miss any single day or opportunity as clock is ticking and you have wasted 60% of your sexual life. Try mastrubating or go in for a affair with the person whom you like. Fall in love, romance, cuddle, enjoy days and hours of sex and blasting fireworks of orgasms everyday. contact me if you need any ideas. vinokumo@yahoo.com. vinokumo at yahoo dot com
luv
vino

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Answer by Ven — June 7, 2010
hey if he not satisfy u
u can mail me 2 i'll satisfy u its guarantted u'll get happy n satisfied not down email address kabeersinha27@yahoo.com

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Answer by kabeer27 — June 8, 2010
Google up the word fingering. You satisfy urself. That way most of your problems will be fixed.

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