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Dear Anjali Aunty,

My questions is not so much a question as a discussion. Similar to your Sunday posts.

One of the biggest complaints that women have in terms of why they don’t particularly enjoy having intercourse with their partners is because it causes discomfort, or in many cases can be very painful for them. This is usually because she has not been sufficiently lubricated. The reason why this happens is because her partner has not spent enough time on foreplay so that she can be properly aroused. Ok, so if that is the case, then simply spend more time on foreplay, right? By doing this, a woman should be able to naturally produce enough lubricant to enjoy sex to its fullest. As simple as it seems, there are a few factors you need to consider; First of all, whether we like it or not, today’s busy lifestyle makes it very difficult for couples to put sufficient time aside for quality lovemaking. So, even if the intention is there, things don’t always work out to the perfect plan sex experts recommend. Most couples are too busy, too tired, or too preoccupied with other priorities to ensure that enough foreplay has been introduced into a lovemaking session. When you look at the realistic side of the whole ordeal, you can better understand why lubes should also play an important part in any couple’s sex life. It ensures that no matter what circumstances you or your partner faces, both of you are still able to enjoy intercourse to its fullest. Now don’t get me wrong; I am still a strong believer in foreplay. No matter how busy one’s life is, there should always be a way to properly prioritize things so that there is enough time to have great sex! That being said, I would still highly recommend you use lubes, whether you are having great quality sex or not. It will ensure that you and your woman will get the best out of your lovemaking sessions without the unnecessary discomfort can arise through friction.

Bottom line: Use lubes as a supplement, and be generous with it. However, never believe that lubes are a substitute for foreplay, get it? So, which Lubes are the best to use then? Well, with so many varieties to choose from, where the heck does one start?

Lubes can be put into 3 group types: * Water Based Lubes * Oil Based Lubes * Silicone Based Lubes.

Water based lubes are the most popular, and rightfully so. The reason for this is because unlike oil based lubes, they don’t break apart or tear, thus ensuring that you and your partner are able to practice safe sex without worry. In addition, water based lubes don’t stain sheets or cloths either, and it is very easy to wash it off once you are done having fun.

With oil based lubes, is totally the opposite; they will easily stain your sheets and cloths, and you will have a hard time washing it off.

Now, if you are looking to add a little spice in your life, and would like to have sex in the water, such as under a shower or in the bath tub, then you are better off using silicone lubes. Silicone lubes won’t cause a condom to break apart, yet it does not wash off as easily as water based lubes. This makes it a good candidate when it comes to having sex in the water. Silicone based lubes are also ideal for people that have allergies to glycerin.

Guys, if you truly want to give your woman the best experience in bed, invest in a good quality lube that suites your needs. It really does make a difference, and will most definitely be a great help to take away all the unnecessary frustration that can creep into your lovemaking sessions.

Thanks.

akki

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1. no need 2 answer this question because u gave the question n even the answer , Good question and good answer , keep it up MR Akki

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   Answer by Prasad — December 18, 2009

2. Dear Akki,

   Your information is quite helpful to each and every one. kindly keep giving such valuable information. keep it up.

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   Answer by luvableguy4u — December 18, 2009

3. I will b very much grateful if u tell us about the names ,price and availabality of all types of lubricants

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   Answer by badguy4lyf — December 19, 2009

4. Let me share an experience, its years ago and true. A bright boy in Army lost his job at the begining of his career. The reason was simple, he wrote a very good atricle in the magazine during training period, that was proved as stolen later.
   Dear Akki, I went through your atricles on Male Multiple Orgasm and Satisfy women. Sunshine, please write something original, be it good or bad, but stay original.
   If you want to keep picking question/discussion from different site, you can open a new blog of your own. Please dont waste editors time reading your copy/paste article, dont waste time of members who doesnot like fake story or imposters.
   Be original, write original, learn original. In case you tempted to share an useful article, please provide the link.

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   Answer by Oye … — December 19, 2009

5. where n what is the question??

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   Answer by Prabha — December 20, 2009

6. Thanks bro its really a nice kind of knowledge u providing keep it up bro………..

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   Answer by vikas.sharma24 — December 22, 2009

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