Dear Anjali Aunty,

I have rubbed my penis with my girlfriend’s pussy. She also gave me a blowjob made me come. I never entered my penis into her vagina. My question is, did I lose my virginity or did neither of us lose our virginity?

Please answer, please help me with this.

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1. hey friend , no u didnt lose ur verginity

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   Answer by mk — November 19, 2009

2. Metally you lost. Physically no.

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   Answer by ssn — November 19, 2009

3. Niloy…

   Since no penetration then technically speaking the answer is NO. You both are virgins but certainly not innocent.

   It is something like a thief who didn’t get caught. That does not make him a good person.

   Values are mainly from hearts & acts not from definitions.

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   Answer by LionKing — November 19, 2009

4. You didn’t lose your virginity buddy. Penetration buddy…

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   Answer by sivamdavid — November 19, 2009

5. U didn’t lost your virginity but u lost your good karma… Yea i believe in these…
   U will see some bad stuffs gonna happen to you when u do such acts…

   Yea joke around but its true… When u do an unimmoral stuff is always is being punished back…

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   Answer by kritish456 — November 19, 2009

6. No …….. dont worry dear u r still a virgin …………

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   Answer by hotburger4u — November 19, 2009

7. I beg to differ Niloy from all the guys above me.
   My argument is that irrespective of penetration, if an act of sexual encounter with another person causes you to ejaculate in situation wherein sex was the motive of contact, then you have ceased to a virgin. If you have ejaculated by way of oral sex or anal sex, you have penetrated one of her 3 cavities. Technically and physically your partner will still be a virgin till her hymen is intact due to lack of vaginal penetration. But she is damaged goods nonetheless.

   RedMercury

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   Answer by redmercury — November 19, 2009

8. My view in simple words….
   You are no virgin. Getting a blowjob, thats oral sex, you cant claim yourself a virgin anymore.
   Yes, your girl friend technically/physically is a virgin, cause her hymen is intact.
   But morally, none of you are virgin, anymore.
   Dragging the above example, you two are thieves, you broke into a home to steal, and seeing all precious items, you still refrain and came back empty handed. Are you innocent? No way.
   You have not had a physical crime, but you have made a moral crime.
   The reason I used break into home, is because you had oralsex, that is a kind of physical sex. Else tomorrow you would have anal sex and come out saying we are virgin, cause her hymen is intact.

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   Answer by Oye … — November 20, 2009

9. You lose your virginity if your hymen is broken, if you are a women.
   You lose your virginity if you secrete your first semen , if you are a man.
   You lose your viriginity, when your asshole is rimmed if you are gay.

   First semen you might have secreted when you prehaps first mastrubrated. Do you remember when was it?

   Asking this question was absolute matter of pride, I have done it with a girl.

   You may feel proud again to ask such question once you penetrate a girl.

   So I have answered in detail before hand and do not come here asking such question after penetrating a girl or getting your asshole fucked.
   Rather sit and think when was it when you first mastrubrated?

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   Answer by Divorced M45 — November 20, 2009

10. no u didnt

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    Answer by jaymehta123 — January 5, 2010

11. i think mentally ,psychologically n sprituality u both have lost it.physically she is ok, bt u lost it

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    Answer by meenakshi — August 3, 2010

12. whats the big deal about virginity after all
    see girls can refurbish their hymen and technically they are virgin again or they can lose hymen even though they are chasty
    and there is no standard wear and tear table to follow to say a guy is a virgin or not..
     
    virginity is just a mental spiritual state of body which both of you have lost

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    Answer by lala — September 5, 2010

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