Dear Anjali Aunty,

My girlfriend and I  share a good strong non sexual relations. I do not insert in her. But we share physical relation like oral sex. She satisfies me but when I try and go near her vagina she feels pains as she is a virgin. I also want her to feel satisfied.

What should I do?

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1. Sorry to burst your bubble, but you both are in sexual relationship. As and when you have vaginal intercourse then you have sealed the deal. You are technically supposed to hoist a flag and let the world know this piece of property on planet earth belongs to you and only you can park your equipment her.

   So if you are aware of the above and want to go ahead then please do. Yes we all know it is painful for the first time, but if you both decide to go further, then make it special, take an entire day off, spend some romantic time together and properly arouse her with foreplay…after couple of attempts your partner will be fit and fine like a gymnast..

   RedMercury

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   Answer by redmercury — November 17, 2009

2. Try and try, it will happen (intercourse) one day. She will offer you one day. Wait till then. Don’t go for any force to your girlfriend.

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   Answer by ibbd — November 17, 2009

3. I replied a similar question, if she doesnot want to have sex, just dont force.
   She might be one of those orthodox that will save her chastity for her man.
   Whatever blowjob you are getting is a bonus, stay happy with that. Once she knows you are going to be her man of life, you cant plenty of sex.
   For now, dont expect a sex, dont force, just keep on enjoying.
   You should be happy that noone is allowed to touch her, at least you are getting a blowjob.

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   Answer by Oye … — November 18, 2009

4. If she is interested go ahead. Once you do if its a physical problem consult doctor.

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   Answer by ssn — November 18, 2009

5. Are yaar agar muh me le sakti hai to wahan kyon nahi, thoda aur pressure dalo maan jayegi and maje lena

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   Answer by Bikash Dash — November 19, 2009

6. You don’t need to have intercourse with her to satisfy her. If she pleasures you orally, why don’t you do the same to her. It looks like you want to have sex with her rather than to satisfy her.

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   Answer by sivamdavid — November 19, 2009

7. Ofcourse dude …….. go ahead and do let us all know ur experiences ……..

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   Answer by hotburger4u — November 21, 2009

8. u can use lube for lubrication.it is possible tht she is not ready to have sex.so dont force her

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   Answer by meenakshi — August 10, 2010

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