Dear Anjali Aunty

This is one of the best blog for sex-discussion, that I have ever visited.  I had seen many blogs but not like yours if  I compare to Debonair, your is the Best one.  I have posted my Question many times, but didn’t get any Responses from your side.  Please respond to my this question.

Last month I got engaged with a girl of 21 years, and after 5 months I am going to marry her.   I want to know, how to find that she is a virgin or not?  Means I want to know, whether she had sex with anyone before or not.  Please let me know, or  I have no guts to ask her directly about that.

Or should I take her to a Doctor for a virginity checkup?

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1. most reliable way is to ask her.

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   Answer by akhatayu — November 9, 2009

2. Its very hard to find if a girl is virgin in these times. They have hymen reconstruction surgery that makes any old whore look like the virgin mary. Just trust her and talk to your girl if you want the truth.

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   Answer by sivamdavid — November 10, 2009

3. If u find out that she is not virgin after marriage then what u will do. So to eliminate ur confusion u should ask that lady.

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   Answer by ibbd — November 10, 2009

4. Srikant dude,

   I am really hoping you are a virgin yourself as you are insisting on your fiancee’s chastity.

   I think this is a very big emtional and relational issue to you and only the display of bood and cries of pain on your wedding bed will elivate your mind to the faithfulness of you wife.

   I hope you see what you want dude. Good luck with life, wife and everything.

   RedMercury

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   Answer by redmercury — November 10, 2009

5. Dear Srikanth,
   As RedMercury said you must be from a conservative family. Before insisting on her virginity you must be a virgin too. Just think what if she think the same about you? Is there any test for you? Can you make her believe you never had sex with anyone? Dude stop thinking about the trash. Marriage is building which stands on trust and beliefs. When there is no trust no matter how strong proofs are there. Doubting is a bloody bitch which ruins whole life. Try to focus on your married life. Make plans about your married life to stay ever happy. Now as you know there are reconstruction is possible to make a whore as virgin then how can you believe a doctor’s test? It is not the doubt you need to clear boss. It is the devilish thought you need to clear out of your mind. Happy married life.

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   Answer by ali541 — November 10, 2009

6. Dear SriKanth…

   What made you to worry about her virginity now?
   1). Is she behaving such a way that she is not really showing any interest in you and seems to have someone out there and using you as a cover only?.
   or
   2).You feels that she likes you & in love with you and looking forward to start living with you. But you just want to confirm it out of your own curiosity.
   or
   3).Someone told bad about her behind her back.

   If it was the case of 1: You better clear your doubts before marrying her. This will save both of your lives getting into a hell like situation.

   If it was a case of 3: Tell that person that you find her ok from your judgment and tell them firmly to get lost and mind his/her own business.
   Show that you are a man of your own mind and not
   to be bullshit by others.

   If it was the case of 2: The problem is not at her but in your stupid head. You should check your mindset & correct it first not to check on her.

   Are you living still in a stone age still?? My dear friend…. nowadays virginity can’t be the ONLY eligibility or deciding factor for a happy marriage. You can marry a doctor certified virgin and still you don’t know how to handle your marriage properly she still can cheat you or run away from you. Most of the time one person’s suspicious devil mind enough to break their marriage hence their hope, future and happiness all together.

   Do you know virgin tissue can be broken by accidents like heavy falling from a bike??? It such a situation what are going to find out it?

   Ask yourself are you marrying her mind & soul or just marrying her virgina? Why are you giving more important to her body parts than her mind & soul? You better do a soul & internet search yourself and learn the important things that needed for a marriage to be successful. Rather wasting your time thinking to justify her virginity.

   Trust her fully and accepted her as what she is. That is the secreat to a happy marriage.

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   Answer by LionKing — November 10, 2009

7. Hi ya Sunshine… whats up with your obsession on virgin thing?
   Are you on to any black magic that you have to slaughter a virgin to gain something?
   Beat this crap about all these. Be a reasonable man. Before asking if she is virgin, why dont you stand up and say whether you are virgin?
   There are operations to reconstruct, and there are horseriding, gymnast and some other reasons that the hymen can tear off with out a fuck.

   Concentrate on the mental love. If she is virgin and in love with someone, thats a bad news for future. If she is not virgin yet when ties the knot, she is committed only to you and mentally gets attached with you, much much better for you.

   Only one person can confirm if she is virgin, its herself. So what you expect the doctor to do, fuck her and give a report that she was virgin, henceforth no longer? What you do with that certificate?

   Your last option is, take her to a mandir, both of you hold the Geeta, and chant together that you hereby declare that you are virgin…….

   You must be living in mediaval society where chestity locks were used!!!

   Believe in yourself, her and the the love you have. That will give you peace, not a thin membrane.

   Oye …

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   Answer by Oye … — November 10, 2009

8. if ahe is virgin it il bleed wen ur fucking i hav got lots of experince truct me………….dont belive on girla they wont tel u truth

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   Answer by vinaychandra — November 10, 2009

9. i wish you get a virgin and she cheats on you from the second day onwards..
   grow up man..

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   Answer by lala — September 4, 2010

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